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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our relationship just developed a... (381 words)

I have sexual thoughts about my mother, and the guilt is eating me alive! Am I abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) age 26-29 - I am a teenage male with OCD and I often have disturbing sexual thoughts about my mother that I always try to shake out of my head but sometimes that doesn't work and I end up masturbating to get rid of the thought (only on a few occasions has the happened) but afterwards I ... (114 words)

My little sister is dating a much older man and lying about it, and I'm worried he's taking advantage of her! Do I tell our parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My sister is 21 and yesterday told me she is in a relationship with a 40 year old man. This is her first ever relationship and they have been together 6 months. She says they are getting 'serious' however she has not and is not planning to tell our parents. He lives very ... (127 words)

He's changed but I can't seem to give him credit for it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a mostly happy relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. It was him who invited me to live with him; I felt it was right and happily agreed. Since then we have had a rough period and our relationship hasn't been like they were before I moved i... (281 words)

I'm 21 And Like a 31-Year-Old Guy, But I'm Not Sure If I Should Tell Him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently met this guy who's 31. He's kind, single and I really fancy him. We get on well. However, I'm only 21, and though I'm a nice person I can't compete with a lot of the older women he knows (he's quite borderline flirty with everyone sometimes...) in their 30s, simpl... (268 words)

I think we need a break, but this close to Christmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and we've had our fair share of problems in that time mainly because he often doesn't include me in his life and he's not very willing to discuss our future (I'm 29, he's 27 and he says he's too young to think about it). This ... (161 words)

I can't shake the guilt that I kissed someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

21 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there. In July I met this girl and started seeing her for a month. At the start of September I asked her to be my girlfriend and through most of that month we had a pretty intense relationship. However, at the end of that month I went to university while she, being a year ... (540 words)

I need to walk away from him -- how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf and I have been on/off for a while and I just found out the real truth, he has been sleeping with other women. I didn't think he was sitting at home either. yes we are both single and we are both free to do what we want with whom we want. it just hurts to know that I ... (105 words)

My feelings for him have changed. Possibly one reason is that he's changed his appearance. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm depressed lately because I just realize that my life sucks. I don't have friends to hang out, my boyfriend also live in boring life, he also feel lonely lately because he doesn't go out much. He broke up with me a few months ago, and his appearance changes, I assum... (300 words)

How do I find the strength to stop allowing guys to treat me as an option only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid at this point of time I feel like a complete loser at love.. my previous bad experience was when I was dating this guy for Abt 2years and he finally came n told me he was going to marry his relative or some girl then his parents chose from him..from then on I was su... (335 words)

How do I let stubborn guys know that I really do not want to give out my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I live in a town where men interpret "no" as "yes, but I'm just playing hard to get for now." In addition to that, they're also very forward and persuasive. Often when I'm approached for my number but am uninterested, I'll initially just plain out say "no, sorry" and when the... (192 words)

My family seems disinterested in my upcoming wedding

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm with my finacee 2 years and we are getting married in 2016. I'm 20 and my sisters are 32 and 40. My fiancee is 30 and i love him so much and we get on incredibly. Since I got engaged both of them have changed it is like they don't want to know me. I held my engageme... (500 words)

He changed his mind about marrying me but still expects me to stay

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been living with my boyfriend for a year ... we've been together about a year and a half now. We're both in our 40s and divorced with adult children. He asked me to marry him last year and over the last several months, he has seemed to be very indecisive. He'll ta... (478 words)

Together 18 years, yet sexually it could be better. Emotionally we have issues. How can this situation be improved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray I wouldn't have to do it, but I ... (827 words)

Why would he message this ex? Why can't he just ignore messages from an ex? what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend over a year. Things are great its been a great year and weve talked of buying a place together next year. So were both very serious about one another. We've told each other we love each other etc and i really do want to spend the rest of my life with ... (458 words)

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she says she's doesn't love me i... (86 words)

I'm a man who is being emotionally abused by his female partner. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have reason to believe I am a male in an abusive relationship. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years, we have 2 kids, and she makes me feel completely worthless on a daily basis. In the start she used to make me feel limitless, a companion i could talk to, supportive and ... (658 words)

Move to Israel or be lonely in this beautiful city?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 47 and live in Bavaria. Before moving to London I had lived here for 20 years. In 2011 I came back to Germany after living in London for 4 years. It had been very challenging living there throughout the recession and I was very depressed and very worried about my... (708 words)

My ex is coming over and says he doesn't want sex. What if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?... (58 words)

Torn between what I want and what I need to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and its time to get to the next step which is the intimacy part. I am still a virgin which adds extra pressure. Ive saw him look at another girl and i feel if i dont give him what he wants sexually he will cheat. I dont feel forced ... (97 words)