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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I was in relationship for 3 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks before 30th birthday. I didn't hear for her for weeks only to find out she had a new boyfriend, they even got married. It was a sham marriage but she still loved him. She married him for money to get a pace maker to fix her heart and he got a green card. About a week ago she invited me out for a beer, so I went. We went and tried to get a hotel room she went in they were booked. She stormed off left me in a car still running, cops asked me to move her car I parked it, I walked around in the rain for an hour looking for her got fed up went home, she called me asked to give her a ride I declined. Got a call from her the next day she got in car accident and broke her hand, she didn't have any where to go so she stayed with me for a week I took care of her, she went and got surgery Saturday and I haven't heard from her. What am I doing? Is she playing me taking my kindness for weakness. I feel like I'm going to get hurt I love her but I deserve better. My life is simple without this
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 December 2014):
 cut all contact with her and go back to the simple life.
she's trouble waiting to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2014): She is a cheater and she sounds crazy. Why do you want to be with her. Don't contact her anymore ever again and ignore her if she tries to contact you again.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (14 December 2014):
 Throw her away like a bad penny. She married for the wrong reasons and wants you to be the spice that is missing. Yes you do reserve better! So why are you accepting so little? She may love you but she certainly lives herself more and will put her wants and needs before you every time. If you don't respect yourself others wont either drop her. Give her no way to communicate with you
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 December 2014):
 I agree, CUT her out of your life, you do not OWE her a darn thing, she has decided to get married for all the wrong reasons and then want you on the side for entertainment and company.
CUT her lose. Block her number, her e-mail should go to spam folder, Social media unfriend/block/delete.
MOVE on.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (14 December 2014):
 'About a week ago she invited me out for a beer...' SHOULD have ended with 'but I declined and I never spoke to her again.
Whatever her intentions, she is wildly unstable, and I really, REALLY think you should put as much distance between yourself and her as possible.
Block her number, her email and any other means she has of contacting you. If you see her on the street, hope she doesn't see you and go in the opposite direction.
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reader, rainglitter +, writes (14 December 2014):
Where are you from originally? No descent girl acts like this unless it´s because she thinks its a part of a cultural thing to act "hard to get" but she is actually acting very rude..
You don´t need to feel this way especially after being so kind to her. I am assuming you are being very kind to her which is why she is turning to you for help, but what I don´t understand is - is she still married?
In that case, run, and never look back. She sounds like trouble. And you are better off.
I hope you will understand that she seems to be using you.
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