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*uzzi
writes:Been going out with this guy for 6weeks, and I love him so much. We have little issues but the one that makes me mad is when he says I don't behave like a woman even when I know I do everything just to please him. He says we are working towards marriage and sometimes I feel threatened, when we have Issues it is always used against me.He thinks I am desperate for marriage, which am not.He says things like You would be the one to spoil this our relationship, if we don't get married, even when most of the time it's his fault.He is so bossy,and full of commands.......am just confused and thinking about breaking up with him... Reply to this Question
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reader, Buzzi +, writes (3 January 2015):
Buzzi is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank so much for your suggestions....I really appreciate
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 December 2014):
 don't be confused.
you know what to do... just break up with him.
He will probably make a scene and do everything to try to keep you
after 6 weeks it's not love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2014): Do it. Break up with him. You could call him out first as you do it. Say to him: Since you constantly want to remind me that I am so un-lady like and so desperate for anyone to marry and I always spoil everything, then Im going to give you the opportunity to find someone better, as its clear I don't cut it. Goodbye.
Then grab your purse, leave, block his number and never look back at this abusive, hateful, ding dong.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 December 2014):
 6 Weeks and he is acting like a relationship dictator? You know this isn't going to change when you have a ring on your finger? Once you marry, he will expect you to "obey" and "behave" as a wife too, not just a woman.
And he says you are working towards marriage - well, ARE you?
I think he presumes that you WANT to get married and therefore will TAKE whatever he throws at you, in order to stay with him.
Maybe, his behavior have made you think HE isn't a good match for you?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 December 2014):
 The fact he tells you that you don't behave like a woman would be enough to put me off him.
Its only been six weeks, hardly long enough to make a decision about whether you love him or not, and way, way too soon to be talking about marriage.
If you feel threatened you should not be with this man. If you dont want to spend the rest of your life being bossed and commanded around then leave this man.
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