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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's safe, respectful, but sometimes that doesn't seem enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy on and off for a year now that is sweet, patient - I've cheated a couple times while we were in an "off" point in the relationship... :/ - and loving. However, I feel like I have to tell him directly everything I want in the relationship when some of it ... (293 words)

I think my boyfriend is engaged to another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm so down atm.. I've always suspected my bf was seeing someone else when he moved away to work. Saw him texting a girl Xmas day last year,he denied it. Saw her add in a realationship after doing a few searched on fb, he later got rid of fb which he never had a profile ... (229 words)

I thought things were going well but now he's behaving strangely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

- Hey guys. So I recently started having a crush on the new guy at work. I've been working as an admin. assistant for 4 years now and he's a teacher. We're two of the youngest employees at my job (25) so it's nice having him around. We have been having lunch together since ... (314 words)

I'm dating someone with kids so that means I'll be alone for all the holidays and events happening in his family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always gotten good advice here before so I'm back again. I'm just wondering why it is so hard to be ina relationship with somebody who has baggage? Has anybody been in this situation before? Maybe dated somebody that has kids? It's very hard because u kno u will never come ... (235 words)

Now that I have him, how do I keep him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I finally got my crush wrapped around my finger we make out, laugh,have fun and just have great sexual and emotional chemistry but my only concern is how can i keep him interested i finally got him now the problem is how do i keep him entertained so that we can avoid having a ... (56 words)

He's never made me reach orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a problem and I think it's really superficial but it's driving me mad. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he's everything I could ask for except he's never made me reach orgasm. Also, he has an incredibly low sex drive as it is in comparison to ... (129 words)

I have had enough of his flirting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help-I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we are soooo in love but...... He is a big flirt. I have been upset with him in the past for his flirting and gawping at women and he has always seemed genuinely sorry and always says he will try to calm it down and ... (277 words)

Does this mean that he stills care about me? Is he angry still?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - About a month ago I found out that my ex got engaged. I was devastated, cry the whole night, and was depressed. I wanted to contacted him but I decided not to let my emotions drive me to insanity. He cheated on me so I broke up our engagement and an 11 years relationship. ... (266 words)

Am I being too judgemental, can people change and grow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for 6 weeks. He is very loving, contacts me everyday and says he thinks I'm the one. We had a talk about his past and it turned out his previous relationship 18 months ago was with an engaged woman. She was a co worker and told him it was an arrang... (148 words)

His actions speak louder than words, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend around ten months. We only see each other twice a week due to work commitments on both parts so the time I get to spend with him is precious. He has told me I'm the first woman he's ever truly loved and he's only had one previous... (249 words)

Does clothing really play a part in attractiveness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Does clothing really play a part in your attractiveness? I come from a relatively 'poor' or woking middle class family. While I've never had to worry about going to bed on an empty stomach and have always attended quality schools, my family income is obvious in the way I dre... (316 words)

How do I handle his new interest in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy who stood me up twice before because of work and 'leading a very busy life' has now suddenly showed up again. After 2/3 months or so. I had called the entire thing off after he had seemed reluctant and slow in his replies and apologies. The only thing that has changed ... (207 words)

FWB advice needed. Is she wanting more but isn't being clear, or am I being used and should I should end it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So I've got a question regarding my "fwb". I can't tell what she wants and wondering if I should end it before I develop deeper feelings for her. First background so you can get an idea of where I'm coming from: We call it a "fwb" but there is no sex, o... (497 words)

I want him to myself for two nights!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met the most incredible man. Which is generally how I begin these questions, but this time, it's different! He's everything I've wanted, we have so much open communicating and all we do is laugh and we really understand each other. The catch is, we have been dating ... (409 words)

What are my rights and my rights to items my parents have given me, if I move out of home? I fear that my parents may disown me if I move in with my older brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

17 December 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Three years ago my parents kicked my older brother out because he is gay. Basically they told me not to have any contact with him what so ever. My brother keeps in touch with me with e-mails but i no longer use the computer at home because my parents are always checking... (315 words)

What should I do from here? How do I choose between the two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, im a sophomore in high school and I have hard core crushes on 2 guys. sense we are not supposed to use real names, I will use their first letters. My story is long, if you read it all bless your soul. Both guys and I are in band and during marching season I began to like ... (215 words)

Met someone new. Is feeling like maybe I might be the crazy one for thinking and feeling the way I am normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3657 days ago

17 December 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was here in october questioning about my relationship with my boyfriend, basically if i still loved him. and I do not, in all honesty probaly hadnt in a while, had just gotten comfortable and put of the inevitable. I was back in November after the break up when he kinda we... (407 words)