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writes: im so confused right now,i met a guy on plenty of fish in 2010 and have got on well since then the first yr we only spoke on phone and never met since them we have obv met and he has moved on with us once may 2012 until aug 2012, then he moved but always spoke on phone or txt, then he come bk moved in with in in june 2013 until mid nov 2013, since then ive hardly seen him, mostly speak on the phone or txt, well until this week ive hardly had any txts off him and haven't spoken to him on the phone ive tried times and hes never answered, anyway im finding it really hard to get an answer from him, in which the point I asked him( which ive asked everyday this week) if I have done something wrong and if he was mad with me for whatever reason and hes never replied to that, and today ive also asked if he still wanted to be with me and well im still waiting for a answer from him, ive asked him to ring me this afternoon and his reply was a bit busy atm just txtam I being silly or am I loosing him I cant stop thinking about it
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (5 April 2014):
My initial thoughts about your situation are not really positive for you, why did he move out in 2012 after living with you from May until August, and again after only 5 or so months in 2013?
Did he move in to be with you, or because he had nowhere else to go?
It seems that he is not as committed to a relationship as you, I think if he needed somewhere to live for a few months he would be contacting you.
Have you got a girlfriend or sister who would be willing to do some snooping on your behalf? My gut feeling is that he has another partner somewhere, whether it is a wife or just a girlfriend is hard to say.
I'm sorry but I don't think you ever had him to lose him.
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