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writes: i was dating these two guys at once. This went on for about 3 months. The one i really care aqbout and wamt to be with for the rest of my life found out about the other one. But the other one won't stay out of mine and the good ones relatinship. all he does is tell lies about me to the good one because he wants me and is very jealous. The good one believes every word he says because I've lied to him so many times. So now I have been do8ing everything perfect but my guy still doesnt trust me. What things can I do to earn his trust back?
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (2 January 2006):
Only time can earn his trust back. Tell your fella once again that you are sorry and that you want to just say to him once again that he can trust you 100%. Explain to him that you won't contact the other guy or rise to his bait if he tries to wind you up. Tell your fella the whole story and then promise him that if the other guy says anything that you haven't already told him then your fella should look knowingly and walk away from the other guy. The other guy will soon stop bothering if you don't contact him and if your boyfriend just looks smug
PS Don't cheat on him again
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (2 January 2006):
 Dear, all i can say is that u have put urself in a complicated situation. You didnt state clearly if u have ended things with the other one u dont fancy.Well ,my own advise is that if u havent then u should. It is never advisable to have two relationship at the same time, obviously things like this are bound to happen.
if u have told him and he is still interfering then u just have to talk to him and let him know that there isnt possibly going to be anything between the two of u cos u fancy the other guy. He probably still thinks he can win u back that is why he is still interfering. you have to let him know there isnt any chance of u two involving again cos ur heart belongs to the other guy.
Then i would advise u to sit ur boyfriend down and tell him what u did. Tell him he is the one u want to be with and u have put a stop to the other relatioship. i hope he forgives u becos u havent been fair to him really, and maybe with time he can learn to trust u again.
Good luck.
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