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writes: I'm pretty shy when it comes to approaching women and i have cursed missed opportunities because i don't know what to say or do.But when women approach me, we get talking ok and i do get their phone numbers but i can't hold on to them.It's normal for the man to chase the woman but is it harder for a man to convince a woman of his feelings towards her because she has done the chasing?
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (2 January 2006):
I think it depends on whether you are finding it hard to let your personality show once you have the number and are in contact. If you are relaxed and getting on well with the woman in question then it probably just one of those things that the women you've seen haven't worked out so far. If you're finding that women loose interest because you can overcome your shyness during the getting to know you phase then you need to work on relaxing.
Personally , if I approached a guy and then we swapped numbers I would probably then step back and wait and let him make the moves for a while as no girl wants to look desperate and by approaching him - I would have already let him know I like him so would want to know he likes me back before I made another move
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (2 January 2006):
I don't think I am quite clear at understanding what your question is and what you actually mean. Ok so this is what I got from it, let me know if I have misunderstood, k?
Ok so you are shy to start a conv with a woman, but once you get talking after she has initiated, your fine...but then you seem to loose them? Now do you think the reason is because you can't convince her that you really like her, so she leaves you? is that it? I'm sorry, I really didn't quite understand what you meant. Confirm this then I will be able to give you further advice. Sorry for the inconviniece.
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