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writes: Hi,I broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago, and I want to get back together with him now. The problem is we have both had so much going on this year, and things have changed. I dont know if he would or wouldnt ever get back together with me. He says no then he says he doesnt know, then he says yes. Im so confused. I really dont know what he wants at all. and I dont think he does either. I admitted to being wrong, and difficult previousely in the relationship. The problem is that we had something happen at the begging of the year that really affected both of us. me slightly more though, and now I dont want to walk away I want to go for it. but I dont think he will ever give me another chance. Yet by the same tocken he wont let go either.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): well, it seems to be that ur guys are confused about what u want really. I know the attachment is still there and u seem really fond of each other but ask urself if u truly love him and u need to think bout what really caused the initial split.If it is something u know u can work on then have a chat with him and tell him how u feel and why u still want him. discuss with him ways to improve the relationhship.if he truly love u he will go for it. if he is still confused then suggest a break until he can come up with what he truly wants.u guys can be friends during the berak and this will help him relax more with u. i have had this sort of experience and after the break we came back together. he agreed to give it another chance. dont feel u r the one alone to work out all the problems in the relationship talk to him. well i wish u the best and i truly hope i have been of help. all the best dear
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