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writes: There is this girl that I have liked for ages and she has said on many occassions that she likes me too. Just recently she told me she really wanted to be with me but she is scared that it wont work out. I told her not to be scared and that we should takes things slowly and see what happens. We arranged to meet for a drink on Friday. Not only did she stand me up, ignore my calls and texts but today (Sunday) she text me saying that it isnt going to work out and that I should just forget about it. She wont give me an explanation as to why she is treating me this way.This is the third or fourth time this has happened with this girl. Is it about time I give up on her for good?
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reader, jewelz +, writes (17 October 2006):
It's too late to respond to this poster but I think women flake on relationships these days for a reason. Too much is expected of us too soon for not much in return. We also have been more and more "objectified" by men lately, being played as vessels for sex and not as human beings worthy of real love and relationships. All these games make us wary of men in general. I suffer from this. What I'm reading in this girl's words is: "I'm scared of getting hurt in a relationship. Are you man enough to pursue a real relationship that I can trust in?" If you gave up on her, then you are still just a boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): Would it be okay with both of you if you just have sex once, no strings attached, no hope for a relationship? Or would you think about her alot during the day and want more than what she can offer? If you are both on the same terms, fine. But it sounds like if she is saying she's afraid it won't work out, you can be sure that she is right. She doesn't want it to work out. So . . . sex? Nothing? Move on???
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (18 December 2005):
 Hi dearie, my own opinion really is that u should leave her alone at least for now. U have tried all your best to let her know how u feel and have been patient and understanding with her all this while. Just give her space and sees what happens.
If she doesnt contact u again then its best for u to move on with ur life.
Right now i would suggest u go out and enjoy urself with friends to take your mind off things
All the best and take care for now.
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