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writes: I'm confused!! I have had 3 relationships within the past three months that all seem to have the same outcome. At first I feel really excited and happy within the relationship, but within a few weeks of it i start to feel I suppose a little insecure and the relationship feels all wrong. I don't know whether its my insecurity or the fact that i have met all 3 guys on a dating site? There seems to be a pattern with them, at first they're mr perfect, then they start to go a little distant and talk of sex constantly. I have been in a relationship for 10 years prior to dating these guys, what's going wrong? Is it that i'm out of touch with dating and probably a little insecure or is it that the guys on these dating sites are only after one thing? Help me!!!
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reader, sweet_angel +, writes (15 January 2006):
Yes i think guys are after one thing on these dating sites.They all sound like the perfect person... then comes the sex talk. It's hard trusting guys in these dating sites cauz they say they are not married and they are cauz my husband is one of them.He tells these girls he is single yadda yadda yadda but in fact they are just looking to see who will put out....U can never trust anyone on the internet cauz u really don't know who u are talking to these days...
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (18 December 2005):
 Hi dear, there is nothing wrong with you. I am afraid there are alot of people using the internet basically for their sexual exploits. There are still the decent ones out there that are sincerely looking for partners, but r not easy to come by.
I would advise u to be careful and not to rush into anything too fast. Take them casually as friends and with time they will reveal what they r really after.
But in the meantime go out and have fun. attend social gathering and parties.
Wising u all the best.
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