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writes:Okay... Heres me question...I'm 18 and have been sexually active for a little over a year. I just had sex with my boyfreind (the third guy i've ever been with). So yeah heres the question. What is an orgasum? I don't think that I have ever had an orgasum. Is orgasuming and cumming the same thing? Also can A girl pre-cum like a guy has pre-ejaculation? and can a chick cum with out orgasming? So yeah you would think i would know this but I dont... thanks Jess and Kate (sisters) LOL We'd ask mom but shes sleeping!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): I'm a 46 year old female and have never had an orgasm, ever! I get orgs from oral and fingering or my masturbation. I feel nothing during sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): i can come through mastubation and sex but never orgasm!! the feeling doesnt seem intense enough to be what is expected to be orgasm... is it an orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): orgasm feels really good once u get used to it i have had sex with almost 20 guys and it feels good really good it makes me tick and I love it and i think that if u find out what it is ull like it too
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): an orgasm is like when u get this strange feeling through out your body but you like it
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): Help i am a 35 year old married woman and have never had an orgasam i have 2 kids and have been married 13 years is there something wrong with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): i am lost too guys!! i mean i say that i have had one cause my boufriend gets all upset when we talk about it and i say that he hasnt so i say that he has so it humors him
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reader, immuno +, writes (2 August 2006):
 I remember the first time I started to have an orgasm during sex, I thought I had to pee and I kept stopping the sensation. I realized after some experimentation exactly what was going on and I eventually did let myself go on to my first orgasm, I did not pee :). I do find it faster to orgasm when clitoral stimulation is involved but if I am relaxed enough with my partner I can still orgasm with sexual intercourse. Relax, enjoy and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): An orgasm,as I believe it to be is when you have a wave of tingling/excitement throughout body, starting from your genitalia - around the clitoris and rising upwards through your stomach and even neck and arms.
I find that anal sex gives me a massive orgasm, but you have to be excited to begin with, or it can be painful...make sure your partner lubricates you there first, and then slowly works his way in. I suggest that you message your clitoris while this is happening
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005): ive just turned 21, ive been sexually active since i were 17. its only in the passed month i realised what a orgasm is. a very close friend of mine suggested i experimented with myself and found out what makes me tick. i found a great little website that sells sex toys , and once delivered shut myself away in my room. i can honestly say it was amazing and no man has ever made me feel the sensations i did. believe me its worth investing into something like a vibrator and experiment what you like. xx
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reader, CherylAhmed13 +, writes (27 December 2005):
When you find out what an orgasam is email me ....lol....I've been married for over 2 years now and I still havent found out....
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (18 December 2005):
 An orgasm is the height of sexual pleasure and trust me, you'll know when you have one!!! I don't know how exactly to describe it but it feels good!! It is the same as coming, you come when you have an orgasm and that's why you get really wet (not just like when you get turned on). I suppose 'pre-cum' for a girl is when she gets wet before sex when she's getting turned on, it's not real coming but it just lubricates the vagina for sex. You can't come without orgasming.
It's difficult with girls, as with lads, you know when they're coming/orgasming but we're more complicated. We get wet just from feeling in the mood!!! But coming is very different.
I advise you to experiment with what you like on your own. I've only ever had an orgasm through maturbation and a man has never been able to give me one. It's not that I don't enjoy sex though.
Anyway, hope this was a help and i think i might have saved your mum an embaressing job!!! Good luck and hope you manage it!
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