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writes: Hey, Ive been going out with a girl for a while, and we fool around a bit, we dont want to have sex and probably wont. I generally have no problems giving her an orgasm, but i would like to now how to really make her crazy, ie how do i stimulate the ciltorus and what else can i do? Also, it often takes her a long time to get me off and shes not comfortable giving me head, is there any way she can get me off better, or more quickly just using her hands?Thanks
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reader, winston churchill  +, writes (28 December 2010):
all im gna say is tounge? Its all on u
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): Its nice that you two are waiting for sex and that you are curious about wanting to please each other better. One thing to start off with is to set the "mood". Very soft music, a few candles, some sensual words, and a nice full body rub will get her skin trembling before you even touch her sexually. When you go down on her, do not go strait for the clit! Kisses, licks, and sucks around the whole area is a great thing to get her wanting more; dont forget her thighs vaginal lips, and vaginal hole either. This should last much longer than a couple of minutes, her body should tell you when shes ready for more, but even then, make her wait just a little bit longer. When its time to actually pleasure the clit, flick it lightly with your tongue at first, this should make her body twitch. Then encircle it with your lips and tongue and suck as you are still moving your tongue on it. After a little while, you should insert your finger inside her, the mouth and fingers together are what really gets me going! By this time, she will probably be in ecstasy!
One sort of "taboo" idea is to insert your finger into her booty. If this sounds gross to either of you, let me just tell you that it feels amazing as long as she is relaxed and into it. You, of course, have to be very gentle, but it is very worth it for her!
As for you, have you ever tried titty sex? It's where you rub your penis between her boobs, usually using some sort of lubricant. Some guys say that it feels pretty good. Regarding the giving head, just try to make her feel as comfortable about it as you can, and let her know that you really enjoy it when she does. Hopefully she will be eager to please you and be able to do it. Also, if she is okay with using her mouth a little bit, then while she gives you a handjob, she could breath on it and give little licks and sucks every now and then. Keep in mind that the balls should not be neglected either! Lastly, just be sure to guide her and let her know what feels good to you, that way she can learn and please you better. I wish you good luck and pleasurable times ahead!
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