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writes: I feel like i've been dumped twice and i feel very low. Problem A and B below...A) Three weeks ago my boyfriend, who i was very serious about and loved very much dumped me. (I asked for help about that in late November on the site).Really the relationship wasnt working out I suppose, he had a lot of problems and i dont think he could deal with a relationship at that time, (as well as a drink problems) we started arguing a lot, we did have good times sometimes though.B) An ex boyfriend from the past had kept in touch ever since we broke up 7 months ago and it was weird he text me the night i was dumped by my ex.(we lost our virginities to each other very special relationship). We arranged to meet the following day and spent a nice afternoon at the pub together. It was nice to have something to take my mind off all the crap going on and he made me feel better saying i was a really good person and a nice girlfriend which was good to hear after being dumped. Anyway nothing happened between us - we didnt even kiss but after that we kept texting each other.The problem now is we arranged a cinema trip for tonight a week ago - he suggested the night and everything and i was looking forward to it and he told me earlier in the week that he was too! Anyway i got a text this morning (day of date), that he has to work - (which he probably does) and that he can come to mine on monday instead. Im so angry, why let me know on the day? IS he just manipulating me, i dont feel i can take much more crap from men at the minute....what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005): I wouldn'y worry too much about the change of date for your meeting with your ex. It seems as though you gave your recent ex so many miles that you will not give this chap an inch. Don't be so hard on yourself. Perhaps you need some time on your own to realise exactly what you want. You deserve to be treated properly and if you do not think you are being treated well, then tell them to get lost and move on to someone worth being with. Good luck. Happy Christmas
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2005): It's hard to tell. He may just want to be friends or he may genuinely want to restart your relationship. You don't say how you broke up 7 months ago. Did you dump him or did he dump you? If you dumped him he may be playing it cool. If he dumped you...you should play it cool. There is nothing more irresistable. Anyway you shouldn't get angry with him for cancelling your date. he probably really is busy and getting angry would probably put him off really quickly. I'm not sure you're ready for another realtionship right now anyway as you're still feeling a bit bruised and over sensitive. Why not spend some quality time being single and building up your own sense of self worth?
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