I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves
Q. Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...
A. 3 January 2011: Nope. I'm too afraid of crabs, the clap, syphillis and HIV. People with multiple sexual partners equals higher chance of STDs. Anyway, it wouldn't as meaningful...it'd just be sex.... (read in full...)
I'm 27, he's 60
Q. hello!my love life is so complicated..im 27 and my bf is 60yrs.old really a big gap but i dont understand why i trullly love him,we have a child just turn 3month and im wondering if he trully loves me becoz it seems we dont make love at all,he ...
A. 5 November 2010: He's 60 and his sex drive is a LOT lower than yours. A man his age will be VERY set in his ways and he just might not feel comfortable expressing himself. His generation was taught to be "tough" and to be "master" of their homes. He's not going to ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing?
Q. Im a chinese divorced woman met this Englishman 18 years older than me. I love him and try my best to learn English. We've been together for 2 years but we dont live together. My english improves a lot but there is still misunderstanding ...
A. 4 November 2010: You are a lady from a beautiful culture and do not deserve this treatment. I try to learn my boyfriend's language and sometimes, I mess up. He kindly corrects me and we smile about it. He's learning my language too and I also help him. I NEVER shout ... (read in full...)
We don't speak the same language!
Q. I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also. She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese. We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters). What should I do?...
A. 4 November 2010: Immerse yourself in the culture and learn the language. I know a lot of Mandarin because I listened to a lot of Chinese music and tv shows on youtube :p Look up Jay Chou vids they come with translations and some of his songs are very romantic :) She ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!
Q. Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...
A. 4 November 2010: Wow...you couldn't tell him you couldn't have sex without a condom? You have a very high chance of being pregnant and you KNEW that unprotected sex led to pregnancy AND STDs...so you got yourself into this. You felt mature enough to have sex, be ... (read in full...)
Is wrong to have a boyfriend but to practice sex with a friend to get ready for boyfriend?
Q. I have a boyfriend now but one of my guy friends wants to be friends with benefits. I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but is it wrong to have a friend with benefits to practice for my boyfriend?...
A. 4 November 2010: I'm sorry but that's really gross. Why would you disrespect yourself and your boyfriend that way? If anyone finds out (and there's a high chance of that) then, you become the school slut. No nice boy will want you and your boyfriend will dump you ... (read in full...)
Any girls over 18 have a crush on Justin Bieber?
Q. Are there any girls older than 18 who think the teen singer Justin Bieber is very good looking?...
A. 3 November 2010: He looks good but, I like older men...a slice of John McLaughlin or Gerard Butler and hhmmm...I'm good! :p ... (read in full...)
Help... I'm falling for my mum's boyfriend!!!
Q. I've got into a bit of a mess. Recently, i've been getting really close to my mum's boyfriend and I really like him a lot more than I should. My mum has been dating him for just over a year and he recently moved in but because she works away a...
A. 3 November 2010: It's not unusual for young ladies like you to start crushing on the most unexpected (unavailable) people. I once had a crush on a man my mom briefly dated but then, I kept thinking he made out with my mom! Aaaand just like that, I took a shower and ... (read in full...)
First time experiences?
Q. What was it like the first time that you had sex male and females welcome to answer...
A. 3 November 2010: It really sucked. I didn't start loving the guy til a long time after...I felt terrible, guilty and wish I had been more ready. I didn't enjoy myself at all but, it got better as I started the fall for the man. So hon, make sure you're in love first ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"
Q. What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...
A. 29 October 2010: It's a crass, ungentlemanly way of saying he took your virginity.... (read in full...)
How do I put on weight and make my boobs bigger?
Q. pls help me Im too skinny and my boobs are very small. Im 17 years old and i think that im never gonna get large boobs, my confidence has break down in pieces pls help how to get large boobs and how to gain weight pls do answer ...
A. 28 October 2010: Nothing wrong with you! A lot of men adore a nice, slender body! But, let me let you in on a little secret about "growing" boobs...hehe I'm a dancer so I'm slim too...but I have a good c-cup almost d. At the gym, I work out my chest A LOT. Making it ... (read in full...)
He asked me to be his FWB buddy and I said yes because I love him!
Q. Okay. I'm 14 and I'm in love with one of my best friends (guy). He knows and he says he loves me too. I have known him for ages and we went out for a while too. Then we decided to just be best friends again but we are what he calls ' fuck buddies ' ...
A. 23 October 2010: You love him. You can't make him love you by letting him use you like this. You're scared and so you're obviously not ready. Please, don't do it. If he really cared for you, you two would be in a relationship or a friendship without the need of sex. ... (read in full...)
I told him I quit my escort job and now he wants to date me!
Q. We met about a year ago in strip club where I was working. He tipped me good and told me that he want to meet me outside of the club. So I gave him my number. He knew I was escorting so he asked to meet. I really liked him so i went to see him. I e...
A. 23 October 2010: Wow, your english is fabulous! Allow him to take out you out, he's accepted you already! Just take things slow....and remember that the past is the past, it has no place in your future. Now, you can sign up for courses at a college and take courses ... (read in full...)
My married neighbour keeps flashing her cleavage at me!
Q. My neighbour lady is 36 years old and married. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or ...
A. 23 October 2010: Stay away. Flashing her cleavage could simply be a cheap thrill and nothing else. If you aproach her sexually, she might turn you down and tell the entire neighborhood that you are a pervert. If she does want sex, you are neighbors and someone WILL ... (read in full...)
My husband said I deserved to get cancer ...
Q. I recently had a breast cancer scare and thankfully have just found out that whilst I'm Ill it's not cancer... Phew!! But my husband was really werid and uncaring through the whole thing and the final thing was when the results came back he said " w...
A. 23 October 2010: Oh...this is sick!!! I hope this was just disgusting, misplaced humor but even then it's disturbing! If he was serious, I truly hope you don't stay with him. This individual has a cold heart and the fact that he would say such things to your ... (read in full...)
Getting married soon but still unable to enjoy sex
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and are all geared up to tie the knot in a couple of months.We are completely in love,and have not been with anyone else ever.Yet everytime we have sex I am unable to enjoy it.The first time ...
A. 23 October 2010: Check out the books "The Joy of Sex" and "Kama Sutra." It can take a while for you to learn what your body likes. Don't be afraid to try certain things. Tell your fiance what feels good-it's a turn on and will for sure help him remember what you ... (read in full...)
I think one night stands are disgusting! Am I normal?
Q. Even when I was a teenager I never beleived in 1 night stands and never had sex with a woman I didn't at least care about. I hear about so many cases of cheating, group sex and just fucking someone just for the hell of it. I find it a bit ...
A. 23 October 2010: Pfft, of course. The idea is as appealing to me as bugs in my coffee and I don't see the point personally. I don't judge people who do it, but I don't think I'd date a guy who engaged in a lot of casual sex because our ideals would be way too ... (read in full...)
What should I wear to go and see my bf ???
Q. My bf always looks soooo amazing but I never know what to wear when I got and see him coz I don't know what boys like to see girls in can u help ???...
A. 23 October 2010: I don't think guys care all that much as long as it's not a potato sack. But, if your boyfriend is conservative, don't dress too flashy or show too much skin-he might not appreciate it. For casual wear, a nice pair of dark jeans is awesome. You can ... (read in full...)
Cousin Love Problem?
Q. I was wondering what I should do because I kinda have feelings for my cousin ,a girl, (we're only cousins by my parents marriage), she's about my age, and she secretly told me that she really likes me to. I would like to know if I can solve this. ...
A. 13 October 2010: Because you two have no blood relation, you have a go-ahead. You can date. However, make sure you understand that you might get frowns and some disaproval from some relatives. Also understand that if you break up, she'll still be around since she ... (read in full...)
How do I find the strength to leave him?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...
A. 28 September 2010: That's not true! Men CAN stay faithful and have! My granpa was faithful all his life and loved to brag that only woman had ever had him and that was my grandma. My ex was faithful to me 3yrs until we broke up. He's making excuses and obviously ... (read in full...)
He's threatening suicide unless I marry him!
Q. When I was a fourteen year old freshmen, I met a boy who was absolutely gorgeous, and was a senior. He and I started dating a week after meeting. It was a really great relationship until he cheated on me so I broke up with him. He threatened suicide ...
A. 28 September 2010: I hate to sound insensitive but, DON'T feel you have to do anything besides report his "intention" to authorities or family. He sounds VERY ill!! He's played with his life before just to manipulate you into doing what he wants. Very sick. I would ... (read in full...)
My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?
Q. Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...
A. 27 September 2010: Some girls are born without hymens or it breaks early on and no, it doesn't mean they're not virgins. You stop being a virgin when a penis enters your vagina :p OR, the hymen doesn't break the first time. My friend didn't bleed until her third time. ... (read in full...)
Someone told me he cheated and there was a condom wrapper on the floor.
Q. I am going crazy out of my mind. I have been scared to ask anyone for their unbiased opinion because I fear that I may come off as a nutcase, but here goes nothing... In April 2009, I began dating a guy who I'd known since I was 9. We were separ...
A. 27 September 2010: Oh, you're right to be insecure. Those two men have played you and prey on your believing in them. "I'm not ready for a relationship, but let's have sex (we'll call it dating) and oh, don't sleep with other guys" translates into, "Oink oink, I'm a ... (read in full...)
He's been in juvi, but we really care about each other!
Q. Hi, well I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is what you would call a "juvinille delinquent" I guess. But i love him soo much! My parents dont approve because now he is in juvi. We've had sex alot and I really care about him. I know he would ...
A. 27 September 2010: Love? Bullshit. Your parents are right to worry. Ok, I can understand if he seriously messed up once, but 2 times? There will be a three and then, jail where if you stick around, you get to write him letters and financially support him and your 5 ... (read in full...)
Pathetic cheater (posters own title)
Q. Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...
A. 27 September 2010: Your sister-in-law's husband...your brother? Uh ho..You don't want to hurt the kids but you know what, if he gets caught in the act by someone else and rumors start spreading, thats worse. You should tell the wife and allow her to make the decisions ... (read in full...)
I don't want to trap him, I just really want a baby!
Q. Hi, I'm 29, really keen to have children. I have a new bf of a few weeks. I really like him and things are going great. I'm so broody, though, I'm thinking of trying to get pregnant without telling him. If he wants a baby, great, if he doesn't, ...
A. 27 September 2010: Sorry but you can't do that. You shouldn't do that. When someone wants no kids, there may be more reasons behind it than just not being ready or wanting freedom. My friend wants no kids because he's schizophrenic and since it's genetic, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I watch porn so I'll be ready for sex
Q. I am a girl teen virgian and i like to watch porn so when i do have sex ill be ready is that weird and is in normal to masturbate?...
A. 27 September 2010: Not weird but I wouldn't reccomend it. Porn can be quite misleading about sex. It's not a guide! Some of the stuff is quite graphic and NOT what the average couple do in their bedrooms. If you want to "be ready" masturbation is a good way to learn ... (read in full...)
Why is "Slumdog Millionaire" a "feel good film"?
Q. I know this isn't a sex or daiting question..(well it kind of is i guess..) But why is slumdog millionaire a 'feel good film' when it's about three orphaned kids, an evil man who takes children's eyes out for more money, a brother who threatens his ...
A. 26 September 2010: The ending I guess makes people believe it is, however, I agree, it's not exactly "feel good." After it was over, I still felt disturbed and sad. When I want a feel-good movie, I turn to good ole Beauty and the Beast by Disney :p ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with him? My old F buddy has a girlfriend now.
Q. Me and a guy friend used to be "F buddies" a while back, now he has a girlfriend so obviously that's not the case anymore. Now, during the past few months when we've been chatting online he has been maybe a bit too friendly e.g. We were saying ...
A. 26 September 2010: I don't think so. "I need a massage ;)" is a direct flirt and asking about having work the next seems suspicious. Sounds to me like he wants the f-buddy days back though he already has a girlfriend. Don't go for it. If you feel like you want to ... (read in full...)
Girls, what would make you fall in love with a guy?
Q. i am a romancer. my three favorite things to do are paint, cook, and sing (write, play music. unfortunately i am sensitive too. I am 18 and i treat my girls amazing. I met a girl over the summer and i knew right when i started talking to her t...
A. 26 September 2010: This man once wrote me a poem that made my heart flutter when I read it. He loved and respected my family, spoiled my little god-daughter, sang to me when I couldn't sleep, and never, ever harmed or pressured me for anything. I was scared of him at ... (read in full...)
When will he be a man and not a little boy?
Q. My boyfriend is 22. Unmotivated, lacks any discipline and has absolutely no direction in life. My boyfriend has four crazy sisters. His mother and sister never finished high school. That same sister will have two kids before the age of twenty-on...
A. 26 September 2010: What he needs is a kick. Most people don't grow up unless they have to. Thats why you hear of people saying they grew up when they lost a parent, had a child, or other big event. Have you told him how you feel? Have you told him how much he makes ... (read in full...)
I recently came out and want to have a male date at my graduation
Q. Hello, I am a 17 year old gay male and live in a small town in Saskatchewan. I came out when I was 15 and all I've been able to think about is how happy it would make me to have a boy as my grad escort. But as I said, I live in a small town, and ...
A. 25 September 2010: Your heart is in a good place. You're comfortable with who you are and you want to be able to enjoy the same rights as heterosexuals which is only fair. I have many homosexual friends and it breaks my heart when I hear about the troubles they have ... (read in full...)
Nice guys finish last, atleast that's what I'm seeing
Q. Nice guys finish last or at least thats how I see it, The beautiful women are attracted to the D bag guys. I am the typical nice guy I think I don't talk about people behind there backs and am usually honest. The girls I like only like me as a ...
A. 25 September 2010: A little more confidence works wonders but careful that it doesnt go into plain, old conceit! That would attract no girls or girls with "I love jerks" written all over them. Basically, use this confidence to get a girl's attention. Wouldn't hurt to ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable in an interracial relationship?
Q. Is it normal to feel a little uncomfortable in interracial relationships at first? I'm white and he's Chinese, and he's really sweet. It just seems kind of awkward sometimes like if he wants to kiss me in public or something or hold hands when ...
A. 13 September 2010: It's different for everyone but I sure was! I felt uncomfortable when my bf held my hand or kissed me cause I felt the world was staring! But after some time, as my love grew for him, I was like, "Screw it, I'm going to enjoy being with my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Ex sent me a friend request
Q. I have been talking to my ex for the last few months. We have been flirting again and kinda fooled around. He says he still loves me and wants me and how much I turn him on. He sends me a friend request on facebook and I accept then today I check my ...
A. 13 September 2010: I strongly believe that you should move on. It seems like he's playing games, adding you on FB then deleting you. I truly don't think he wants to get together again or anything. I have a suspicion that he was priming you to be a bootycall. So, ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant and I'm not with the potential father
Q. im 15 (nearly 16) and i went to a party where one of my best friend(male) was aand we all got really drunk and then we had sex... i thought nothing else of it because i knew we used protection. about a month later i ate my breakfast and then ...
A. 12 September 2010: Take a test before anything, could be a bug or the result of stress. So be sure you are pregnant before you tell ur folks. And also, I'd be careful with the drinking. Worse things than a pregnacy can happen next time...you're young, it's ok to have ... (read in full...)
He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!
Q. okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the ...
A. 10 September 2010: Weelll, don't focus so much on the age thing. He lied, you're older blah blah :p No, I personally don't think you are a bad person for feelings you cannot help. But, you have a baby coming and since this boy thought himself mature enough to date ... (read in full...)
I told him I was pregnant, he said he was fine but now he's not talking to me
Q. I think I'm losing the father of my baby to be. I told him that I was pregnant and he flipped!!! Then he said he was fine! But now he isnt talking to me? Im so confused. I want to keep the baby but would it be the best for it? I dont want to be a ...
A. 10 September 2010: At 13-15 a baby is a pretty scary thing. Physically, emotionally and financially there will be trouble. Your body is too young to take on that trauma and as is your mind. Don't make any decisions that based on this boy's feelings. But, I do suggest ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: Its not just that you're no longer unattracted but there's also her health to consider at her age. Have you thought of that? No one wants to hear "you're fat"you need to tell her that you love her very much no matter what and you're worried about ... (read in full...)
Ladies, how did you form your first ideas about love and romance?
Q. Question for young women out there (under 30 ideally) I would love to know where and how did you first form your ideas about love and romance? Did you read books, see movies or get your ideas from your parents or friends? How did you expect y...
A. 9 September 2010: For me, it started with Disney's Beauty and the Beast. I always loved books and when he gave Beauty an entire library, I was like, "wow! Look how he makes her happy!" and then, Beauty's saving his life and changing him so much by simply loving him ... (read in full...)
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