I'm still a virgin.....should I keep on waiting for Mr Perfect or get it over with the first guy who comes along?
Q. I'm still a virgin... I'm not going to write my age but in this age nobody even expects a girl to be a virgin. It's not like I didn't have the chance (In fact, a few months ago I had the perfect chance but I chickened out, not because I'm afra...
A. 1 August 2011: If you meet up with someone and you feel comfortable and assured that they are the person to introduce you to lovemaking / sex or whatever else you want to call it, go for it enjoy the time together its fantastic if you take your time. Remember ... (read in full...)
Should I try smoking?
Q. smoking should i try it or not? cause i want to. hi, this question isnt about relationship, i already posted one aobut that, anyway, i want to try somking but im only 14 some its not like i can go out and buy them or say to my parents " i want...
A. 10 October 2010: NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!... (read in full...)
At 25, I still haven't had sex, but I think about it!
Q. I am 25 and not sure about sex. I am still not ready to take that extra step and actually have sex. I have had two serious relationships so far and thankfully they have been with men who respected me enough to wait. I am still with one of the guys ...
A. 17 April 2010: I waited until I was 26 before I made love for the first time. I did not just consider it as sex, and it was with a woman I wanted to be with. You'll both just know when it is the right person. In the meantime just go out and enjoy life! ... (read in full...)
Is there anyone genuine on internet dating???
Q. Is there anyone genuine on internet dating??? I have been online dating on and off for the last few years. Every time i do it it just seems to be a waste of time, I really get to know people chatting first by txt, email, msn etc. Dates seem to go ...
A. 12 February 2010: From my personal experience I believe most of us who use the internet for dating are "wasting" others time and yes that includes me but I don't mean it maliciously.
However at least you have met some men. All the women I have contacted and thos... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband won't have sex with me!
Q. I am 22 weeks pregnant and my husband does not want to touch me in an intimate way at all!! I try and get his attention and suggest sex and let him know I am watching porn, which usually helps, but I am just not getting anything...Any suggestions as ...
A. 20 September 2009: Although not having had sex for the last twenty years (I am now 46 and a man) nor having made a woman pregnant, even I can understand your frustrations. Your husband has to realise that you will probably be told to abstain from sex for a certain ... (read in full...)
How do I approach this guy without freaking him out?
Q. Hey, I feel like a little kid but here it goes... I am still living at home, Just turned 18 BUT there is a guy the same age as me who lives three doors down, everytime i pass him or see him we have this little staring thing going on he will look at ...
A. 20 September 2009: Hi
Do you like him or is it just one of those situations that may make you both feel awkward?
He's your neighbour after all why not talk to him and just see what happens. He's probably thinking the same himself.
Best of luck
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Am I too big up top? My partner said I could do with losing a little weight!
Q. Hi, Guys, can I ask you a question I am a size UK 8, I think a US size 6 on my bottom half, my top half is a 34D UK size Is this good, I mean am I too big up top??? 34 D, good size or too much??? as my partner has said maybe I need ...
A. 7 September 2009: as people on another forum I go to would say "without pictures this story is worthless!" Seriously though to me a mature man, I would categorically say you have a fantastic figure just from the description. It may help us understand if yo... (read in full...)
If I don't like him as more than a friend, then why do I miss not hanging out with him as much?
Q. I've known my male friend for 3 years. During these 3 years we've been hanging out alone together, going to eat, cinema etc. I know that he used to like me (more than a friend) but I was never interested in having a relationship with him (as i'm not ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think you like him more than you care to admit because of the previous time you spent together. Even though it was only on a platonic level. I know from experience that it is not easy to maintain a platonic relationship especially if on... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend who is engaged. Please help!
Q. I have fallen in love with my best friend. I have known my best friend for just under 10 years, and i have been in love with her for 6 of those years. She has been the greatest friend i could ever wished for. She recently threw me a surprise ...
A. 31 August 2009: First thing is your friend still engaged because you mention that her ex dumped her. If she is still engaged then I feel it is probably best to say nothing and remain the caring friend that you are. I too recently have been in a similar quandary... (read in full...)
Looking for something extremely dirty and adventuresome for the bedroom
Q. Hey, me and my fella are rather adventurous in the bedroom, and i live by the rule, ill try anything once. hes told me he wants me to do something so dirty and filthy he is stupendously turned on and will come in seconds. this is great, and id ...
A. 27 August 2009: Well if he doesn't tell you how will you know! Just ask him or tell him you might to handcuff him to the bed and wear him out over the next couple of days!... (read in full...)
How do I become more confident?
Q. how can i get more confidence and make friends, i always feel uncomfortable around people because i have no confidence because i have no confidence . ...
A. 24 August 2009: This is a question that could have so many different answers. In my personal opinion and from what I have experienced in the last couple of years (for me anyway) it is simply believing in yourself and what you can do. Of course it also helps that ... (read in full...)
We want to date - but the 'kids' think it's too weird, what should we do?
Q. I am interested in having a relationship with my daughter's boyfriend's dad. We like each other and would like to date.We live on opposite ends of the country but communicate each day.We will get together when we can.Here's the problem though, my ...
A. 23 August 2009: It's your life, not theirs. You choose what you want to do and who you want to see. Can you imgine what if would have been like if you stopped your daughter from seeing her partner. I wish you every success, and let us all know what happens.... (read in full...)
How long is sex supposed to last?
Q. probably a silly question, but how long do women prefer men to last in bed??? i suppose l am asking because in myself l dont believe l last very long at all. what got me thinking more about this is when my wife and i had separated for a period, ...
A. 17 August 2009: If it was me all, I am interested in is making my partner orgasm. For me it should be about what the woman can get out of it. I can cum anytime if I wanted. The pleasure I get is in pleasuring someone else.
Fucking is about getting some,
S... (read in full...)
Is a bed and breakfast a good place for having sex?
Q. I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A conce...
A. 17 August 2009: Personally no, even as a guy I would prefer somewhere a little bit more romantic and private. ... (read in full...)
How else can I meet new people?
Q. Ok so I am a single 26 year old, I have been single for soooooo long. All of my friends are in long-term relationships, getting married, are already married and having children, I am really happy for them because they have found good men that are ...
A. 15 August 2009: Its great that you are making the effort to meet people by joining these clubs. There are other ways, dating sites being one of the obvious but such a minefield of people who really don't know what they want or say they want one thing and mean a... (read in full...)
Watching him masturbate was hot, but now I'm obsessing and feeling useless at sex.
Q. I would like to start out this question by saying I think masturbation is healthy and I never used to have problems with it. Now the question. I never even bothered to think about whether my boyfriend masturbated, because I really didn't care if he ...
A. 15 August 2009: What should you do - every time your horny make sure he knows it and have sex or make love as oftne as possible.
Everything the others have said is true. Its definitely more fun playing with someone else than playing on your own.
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I've lost interest in my FWB but he doesn't want to end it! What do I do?
Q. I am a 24 yr old female and I have been in casual relationship with a guy older than i am for a little more than 3 years now. But during all this time, we never really shared any kind of bond except mindblowing sexual chemistry. Sex has always been ...
A. 13 August 2009: I totally agree with Emilysanswers and Honeypie.
FWB is what you agreed to in the beginning if the dynamic changes then both people need to change.
The guy at work maybe more interested than you think but is too shy to say or do anything as i... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits?
Q. Just wondered...What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits? - I see a guy from time to time, am in love with him and we sleep together when we can. But we only see each other as and when (as he lives lo...
A. 13 August 2009: I would say a boyfriend.
If he was FWB you would be seeing him at least 1-2 times a week and you know ultimately it would be just sex!... (read in full...)
At what point should you give up?
Q. Everyone goes through heart breaks-it's part of life. Many recover and move on and each takes their own time and healing process. OK that's the theory but in real life, with each heart break comes another layer of protection. Any new relatio...
A. 13 August 2009: Each one is so different and we all heal in different ways and take different times.
I personally feel that to move on you have to love yourself before you can truly love again. Each partner has something new to offer and something new to learn.
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How should I go about letting this guy know I'm interested, if it was his friend who invited me over?
Q. So last night my friend and I met 3 guys at a bar. After the bar closed, we agreed to meet them at one of their houses. Everything was cool, my friend has a bf and I had no intentions of hooking up with anyone or doing anything of that nature, ...
A. 13 August 2009: The best thing would be to speak to your friend and see if she has his number. It's at least a starting point.
If you know his fullname why not try facebook, even first names work and it's even better if they put a picture on their profile.
Do ... (read in full...)
I want bigger boobs so I look sexy in front of my husband!
Q. Dear all, Im 24 and married since a year, I want to increase my boobs size without cosmetic stuffs. I need 32 size bra. I dont know the cup size. Please suggest some medicines or something that make my boobs bigger and attractive... I want to look ...
A. 13 August 2009: I'm definitely with Rossi on this one. He married you the woman who you are. You are more than a pair of boobs.
There is an expression I like to use which is:
"Less is more".
I'm sure if we could all afford it men included we would all go... (read in full...)
He's very experienced but I'm bored of the same position during sex!
Q. Right, this is really embarrassing but i really need to ask!! My boyfriend has always gone on top when we have sex, he was my first and is very experienced so he knows what he is doing, its all good and everything, but to be honest i get a tad bored ...
A. 13 August 2009: The easiest thing would be to talk to him. Explain that you want to feel him inside you from a different perspective. It will be fun for him as well to see you from different angles and he will feel different sensations.
Life is about variety ... (read in full...)
Why is he still watching porn? I don't get it!
Q. Well I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 half years. Everything is going pretty well. We don't fight much, we still laugh and have fun, and we have sex regularily (and yes we are both very happy with it!). What I don't understand is th...
A. 13 August 2009: From a personal point of view, he enjoys getting off and if you're not around, at least he's getting off by himself and not with anyone else. He's definitely thinking of you whilst he's doing it.
Maybe he's looking for new ways to indulge you and ... (read in full...)
What are the reasons a guy wouldn't want a girlfriend?
Q. Dear anyone, what goes through a guys head or why would they not want to have a gf? besides dat they might be gay...
A. 8 August 2009: Personally I think it stems from self-esteem issues and confidence. He may want to concentrate on college work or his work and feels that having a girlfriend may intrude in some way. He may have not met someone who really gets him.
Is this bec... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?
Q. I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...
A. 8 August 2009: Well you have got your answer in that you are both being honest with each other. Don't be scared to ask this guy questions. Ask him what he likes and he shoudl do the same for you. Let your imagination work as well, it's surprising how rude your ... (read in full...)
We want a 3rd person to videotape our sex sessions? Good idea or not?
Q. I and my husband are seriously discussing to have our love making session video taped by another person. We are not exhibitionists or swingers, and have never done anything like this before. We don't want that person to join us for any sex play. ...
A. 8 August 2009: Probably best to look on Adult Websites for suitable contacts.
As long as you both remain in charge and make sure you are the only ones supplying recording equipment.
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
I didnt feel any physical attraction to him on our first date, am I worrying to much or leading him on?
Q. I have been alone for about a year and haven't even gone out. Last week, I ran into some one I have known for years and he asked me out. I had the best time talking to him--we know all the same people and it was fun having dinner and talking. I ...
A. 2 August 2009: Last week I had to come terms with the fact the woman whom I am so desperately in LOVE with has fallen in LOVE with someone else. I have had to take a gigantic step back as she starts to build a relationship with this man. This won't EVER chang... (read in full...)
Sibling rivalry. What to do?
Q. Hi all, I'm at my wit's end, I don't know where else to go. I have a very strange issue of sibling rivalry that is not exactly sibling rivalry. I'll try to explain as succinctly as possible [warning: LONG] I live in a household where intell...
A. 1 August 2009: Life your own life - no one else's. Do what makes you happy. You are inspiration to others especially those who get everything handed to them on a plate.
Life is hard and Life is tough but Life is also WHAT YOU MAKE IT.... (read in full...)
Romantic love or glorified crush?
Q. Dear All, I have a problem in that I simply do not know whether I have romantic love for a particular lady or whether it is just a glorified "adult crush". I feel "romantically fond" of her and, to be honest, I am starting to feel slightl...
A. 1 August 2009: Have you talked to the woman in question? Is she married or single? Does she have a boyfriend?
As she is not much younger than you why not take the risk of asking her. You'll never know!
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20 and never had a boyfriend...What am I doing wrong?
Q. i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend! I'm ready for one, what am i doing wrong? I am confident, happy and sure i'm not all that looks wise but there's nothing wrong with me either. I go out, socialise, I've dated a bit, had fwb (i found ou...
A. 22 July 2009: Personally you may be being like many people your age. You're being too choosy and probably wondering what your peer group will think of your choice. My advice would be to see loads of people of different age ranges and see what each person has ... (read in full...)
Sex and masturbation questions!
Q. how often do guys want to have sex? how often do they masturbate? is that all they think about in a relationship? and also, i know a single guy in his 20s. he's been single for a while. does he masturbate? and is it a lot different than bein...
A. 22 July 2009: To ther lady who first answered you're wrong, men think about sex about every 3.27869 seconds. Ha Ha :D
Seriously though to the original poster
1) Depends on the level of individuals sexual feelings.
2) Probably at least once a day. It wil... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with cocaine?
Q. If someone spends £230 on cocaine a week would you say they have a problem? It started off as trying it on a night out and im spending atleast £230 a week on it, and i mainly do by myself. I dont really have a family to turn to, all i have is fr...
A. 22 July 2009: Absolutely, seek help immediately.... (read in full...)
His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...
A. 22 July 2009: Dear Blondecatlover
No disrespect but when you're a Glamorous Granny, I think you should be more than entitled to say how you feel and what you want. Sometimes you need to ask directly what you like and what pleases you.
As to his "inexperienc... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair just to get sex?
Q. I need some help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years (married for 2). My husband doesn't want to have sex. I always try but he is never interested. I rarely have the courage to talk to him but when I do he either says he doesn't ...
A. 16 July 2009: Even as a single guy for far too long and neither having had a sexual partner for more than 15 years, I can't even agree that you have an affair for the sake of having sex.
There are obviously other concerns there that are stopping him from hav... (read in full...)
Is this a good fitness regime?
Q. so I'm trying to lose weight and I go to the gym twice every day. I do resistance training with my trainer 3 times a week for a half hour and then I do 45 minutes of cardio after and 45 minutes at night and then 4 days twice a day I go in for 45 ...
A. 12 July 2009: I'm no expert but that seems to be excessive. Your body to a certain degree is still growing and you are punishing it.
Current trends are toward 30 mins a day, a careful diet, plenty of fruit and vegetables, plenty of water and importan... (read in full...)
Help, my sex drive's too high!
Q. Hello there, I am almost 21 years old male, and i am unhappy with my sex drive. It's too high, it is one step behind to perversion. It almost makes me unable to concentrate anything whole day. I'm asking a way to lower my sex drive, if there ...
A. 12 July 2009: Don't be too unhappy that it is high, this is normal for a male you are in your prime and should be enjoying it. As for it being one step behind perversion, RUBBISH that is probably your thoughts on how society determines how sexual people have ... (read in full...)
How do I increase my sexual endurance and not orgasm so soon?
Q. My question is about the male sex time. what the average male sex time till ejaculation and how to increase it. i feel mine is really short. My gf (she had bf b4 me) said me that male timing in first shot is smaller so come second time to s...
A. 11 July 2009: Like anything in life you do have to use your brain for control. However remember that sex for both people is there to be enjoyed and savoured. If you want to last longer, think of your love making as a Seven course Banquet, rather than a snack ... (read in full...)
Have any texts suggestions to encourage him to ask me out??
Q. I want to text some cute text messages to the guy I am interested in. Do you have a suggestion what I can text? Is there something that makes a guy smile and hopefully ask me out?...
A. 11 July 2009: Here's one
"Dear Cute Guy,
I like you, do you want to go for a coffee?"
Like a man "Simple but effective" when used correctly.
Hope you catch him.
Regards
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How can I get rid of those last extra pounds??
Q. I am 5ft 4inches and I'm almost 10 stone. I don't think I am fat, but I would like to be at my target weight of 9stone. Compared to others, I don't really have alot to lose, however because I'm not drastically overweight I am finding the extra ...
A. 27 May 2009: Put on some muscle as this will help burn fat.... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: Don't know if this helps as I'm in the UK but I was 26.... (read in full...)
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