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writes:Hi, Guys, can I ask you a questionI am a size UK 8, I think a US size 6 on my bottom half, my top half is a 34D UK sizeIs this good, I mean am I too big up top??? 34 D, good size or too much??? as my partner has said maybe I need to lose a little weight, I use to be 32 C Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Yammilette  +, writes (10 September 2009):
Let me start by telling you that your partner should of never told you to lose weight. He should love those breast and so do you. You should embrace what was given to you, if u got it flaunt it. I think every woman has something she dosent like even the most beautiful ones. What they dislike other people want. Learn to love your beautiful curves that were given to you, I would.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2009):
 That is to say, you're OK.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 September 2009):
Don't go changing to try to please me,
you never let me down before,
don't imagine you're too familiar
and I don't see you anymore...
I would not leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times I'll take the bad times
I take you just the way you are
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reader, urbanking99 +, writes (7 September 2009):
as people on another forum I go to would say "without pictures this story is worthless!" Seriously though to me a mature man, I would categorically say you have a fantastic figure just from the description. It may help us understand if you tell us, how tall you are and your apporximate weight. For most men in this country so long as there are curves then it is no problem.For me when a woman has curves they exude the femininty a man would expect from a partner but at the end of the day it's your body, if you're happy with you stay with it and only you can change what you want to change.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (7 September 2009):
 You should only change yourself if you feel uncomfortable or dislike something, don't let others especially your partner push you to change yourself, he should love your size no matter what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Wow, sounds perfect to me. My wife is a US 34C, which is a UK 34D and she is not heavy at all. She also wears a size 6, or a 4 if the brand is cut large. Your UK 8 is a US 6 and a US 6 corresponds to a 34 bust size. I would say that you are about ideal, at least in my opinion. To tell the truth, I like 34 better than 32, as 32 is a bit thin. Either look very nice, but 34 is just a bit cuddlier. Tell your partner that he just doesn't realize what a hot babe he has.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (7 September 2009):
 If he has to look at your body and can't see right into your heart, then he's a fool. I'd tell him that he gets what he gets, because that's what God gave you.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Well a US size 6 is a UK size 10? So even if you are a UK size 8-10, there is no way on earth you need to lose weight! Millions of women would love to be your size!
It sounds like you are pretty slim with good size boobs - thats like every woman's dream! Slim in the right places and curvy in the right places!
Rather than you needing to lose weight, you need to lose the un-supportive partner! Most men would give their right arm for a woman with a figure like yours - he needs to realise what he's got and love you for who you are, if not he will lose you to one of the millions of guys out there who would worship your body!
If you have gone up a few bra sizes then maybe you could do with working out why - have you put on weight elsewhere or have your boobs just got bigger? If you feel happy with your body and you are comfortable with your size then I dont think you have anything to worry about! If you would rather go back to the slightly smaller size then fair enough, maybe try working out a bit more or watching what you eat.
But personally I think it sounds like you have an amazing figure and you should be proud of what you have. If you do choose to lose weight then make sure it is for the right reasons - lose the weight for yourself and not for your partner. He should love you regardless of your bra size going up or down, so if you choose to lose weight then do it because you want to not because he wants you to. If he puts pressure on you to lose weight then he is a complete idiot that doesnt deserve you!
The most important thing is to be happy in your own skin and comfortable with your body - if you are happy with your figure as it is now then nothing else matters!
I hope this helps!
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