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Although I am young, I have been through a number of relationship struggles and hardships than your average teenager. I created this column to give my advice anywhere that I may be of assistance! I use everyday to gain more knowledge about life and I look forward to sharing my input with anyone who seeks it. I am currently in college with my bf of 6 months and loving it. If you have any type of questions, just send me a message and I will answer them to the best of my ability! :)
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Is she after me for sex or is she just outspoken with her thoughts?
Q. So I've been hanging out lately with a lady from my job and I needed some insight as in what is exactly going on. First off I'm lesbian, but I haven't made this known to lady I been hanging out with. About 2 weeks ago I took her out with me for a ...
A. 7 September 2011: okay, I honestly think that she is just sending some mixed signals here. First off, you need to find out her orientation because to me it sounds like she is bi. As far as the sexual actions and comments towards you I think that shes experimenting to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never wants sex!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't get horny at all I have tried everything. I have walked around naked I have teased him I have kissed him hard I have come on to him and I have done a few of his fantasies... He sometimes loses it while inside of me. Ple...
A. 14 July 2011: He may have an erectile dysfunction. This causes complications in getting hard for men. If this is a possibility I strongly recommend seeing a doctor about it! However, first, you may want to simply talk to him and make sure nothing else is wrong. ... (read in full...)
Do relationships after high school ever work?
Q. So...I'm a senior in high school and a boyfriend was the last thing on my mind. When I first started dating my current boyfriend about three months ago I thought it was just a fling that would be over after graduation. The truth is our feelings for ...
A. 10 April 2011: I completely get that..but the thing is we've both experienced a lot of what there is to. Living in south florida is a lot different then most places. We are exposed to clubbing at a young age(both of us have done it) we've both had multiple sex ... (read in full...)
What choice is best? I have mixed emotions. My gf or a girl I want?
Q. my problem there is this girl i have really really really liked since 6th grade and we are in 10th grade now. it seems like every time i try and be with her she has a bf/gf or just broke up with him/her. When that happens and she is emotionally dist...
A. 10 April 2011: When choosing between two people, always choose the second or none at all. Because if you were happy with the first, there wouldn't be a second.... (read in full...)
I think it missed her, but I am still worried that it could have gotten her pregnant.
Q. Me and my girlfriend had sex last night, we wore a condom but I decided to pull out just in case. I eventually ejaculated 5 mins later from a handjob. Most of my semen landed on me or the bed whilst my girlfriend said none of it landed on her. She ...
A. 9 April 2011: Sperm can only live if it is in a wet surface. If she was still wet, then its possible. However, it is highly unlikely because she wasn't under nor ontop of you. You are most likely just freaking out and thinking of every possibility, it happens. I ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want sex because of bad sex she had in the past
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been getting really intimate for just over 6 months. When we were talking I brought up sex and she said that she didn't want to. I totally respect her and wouldn't want her to do anything she didn't want to do. But it was ...
A. 9 April 2011: I think you should just tell her EXACTLY how you feel about it. She will apreciate that you have the patience to wait, so it might not be such a bad thing. If you are completely honest and make her aware that you aren't trying to pressure her..then ... (read in full...)
Is it true that you're a slut if you have big labias?
Q. Im officially freeking out. Im in a LDR and ive been with my bf in real but we obv spend more time online together. Well i dont remember what happened but my bf turned round to me and was like im gonna make up somethin about u then and tell so...
A. 6 April 2011: Wow, I tried to read this and not be judemental, but no girl deserves to be spoken to like that. Dump that clown , he is a moron and clearly needs to learn a little more about the female genitalia..... (read in full...)
Is there a way to make losing my virginty more comfortable?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and we both feel ready to have sex. i want to make sure that we are the safest we can be. how can we avoid breaking the condom? also, i heard it hurts the first time. is there any ways or positions to ...
A. 26 November 2010: honey, the truth is...if you plan it all out, the anitcipation is going to make it akward. You should let things flow and allow things to be natural. There really isn't a way to avoid it hurting the first time, except for a little foreplay first( ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Well I personally don't mind it. I try not to think about it. However, most girls are grossed out by it. It is completely normal for her to be attracted to your semen because you are her boyfriend and a male obviously. It's nothing you can fix. i ... (read in full...)
I caught a shy girl staring at me, but she didn't look away?
Q. I was in class, and looked up at my surroundings and i caught this shy girl in class staring at me. When i locked my eyes on her, she did not want to look away, and eventually my back felt funny and i just HAD to look away. Can someone ...
A. 24 November 2010: Plain and simple, get off this website and go find out. Talk to her, make a move. Afterall, you ARE the guy. and if she's shy chances are you aren't going to get a first move out of her. What do you have to lose? Go for it!... (read in full...)
We dated once but now he's awkward around me!
Q. Okay so here is the deal, I am 17 and it all started about last march. I went on a trip with a club in my school for a week to another state. A guy in the club and I clicked right away and we hung out the whole trip. when we came home we proceeded ...
A. 24 November 2010: Thank youu, and yes I am almost sure he cheated on me.( but this chick is wired, she seriously has issues) LOL. but in between all of this i also hooked up with two of his friends while i was drunk:(so i don't know like the whole thing is iffy. who ... (read in full...)
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