We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!
Q. 7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot ...
A. 8 May 2007: You've spent 7 good years on him , your guy should've porposed to you long time ago.
You've done talking to him, and got nothing,I am wondering if
you can ask one of your mutual friend (he or she needs to be
trust worthy), to ask your boyfrie... (read in full...)
I am not his priority..his band and his friends are...what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, i am really sad and brokenhearted by the fact that my boyfriend, the love of my life doesn't have time for me. He always promise me to visit me and he keeps me waiting in vain.. I know he's not cheating with me yet i know that i a...
A. 4 May 2007: You are not alone on this, this is the problem many women are facing.
If you are sure that your guy loves you 100% , and he is not cheating on you , the best way to do is probably to adjust your expectations from the relationship. When women fall... (read in full...)
We are having sex but no officially 'going out' because he doesn't want a relationship! Help!
Q. i have been seeing this guy who i have very strong feelings for and i dont know where i fit into in his life. I have known him for a year now through college and he is absolutly lovely. He makes me laugh and feel secure. However, even though w...
A. 4 May 2007: He doesn't want a relationship but doesn't mind sleeping with you !
Doesn't sound like a lovely guy at all. Seme people are just not meant for each other, you both want differnt things, why do you want to be whith a guy that can not give you what... (read in full...)
Met the most amazing guy... until I saw him and his girlfriend!
Q. good god!!i have had the weirdest couple of weeks ever!!!i met the most amazing amazing guy ever. i thought he was the one for me, he bought me flowers, drove 60 miles to see me at uni three times in 3 days,came to my house at 7 every morning to ...
A. 4 May 2007: He is seeing two women (or more ) at the same time. No men would drive to see you and send you flowers without asking something in return, this something is usually sex.
He did not want to sleep with you yet because he wants you to fall in love... (read in full...)
Dating 2 months and the feelings are fading, I only tell her I love her as I dont want to hurt her!!
Q. My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and i thought i loved her but im starting to have second thoughts. I started to lose the feelings i thought i had for her. I tryed fixing it by changing some things like spending more or ...
A. 3 May 2007: This is tough. I understand what you are saying , it is not right for you to say "I love you " if you don't mean it. But on the other hand you don't just tell her in her face "I don't love you anymore " , she would be devastated. There are two ... (read in full...)
I am giving him his space but I feel that our friendship has been completely ruined. Any advice appreciated!
Q. Hi All, I have a slight problem. There is this guy I have known my whole life-literally (we grew up spending summers and xmas together). We've always been in touch but recently we've gotten even closer-the last 4 months we have spoken to each o...
A. 3 May 2007: Don't know what you expect from the relationship between you and him.
If he thinks of you more than just a friend , these kind of things should have happened long time ago, men are more aggressive than women in dating games, usually when they see ... (read in full...)
I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but she does have a fair stomach to her.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year, and have been involved a fair bit longer, and I can quite see myself spending a good many years with her. Lately, however, I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's ...
A. 3 May 2007: Buy her a tiny black dress and tell her how good she would look in it and how that would make her happy.
Try to motivate her by taking her shopping for clothes, and
make her realize how beautiful she is , tell her that she really should show off... (read in full...)
I'm really really interested and attracted to this guy but can't help to think that he might just be using me to get his jollies off
Q. Ive known this guy for almost 7 years now, about 3 years ago we noticed an attraction towards each other but I never acted on it because at the time I had a boyfriend. Well about a month ago he had rented an apt in the house of a close relative of ...
A. 2 May 2007: A nice girl like you deserves a good guy, but in the mean time it is simply not fair to make him pay for what other men had done to you in the past . You've known this guy for many years now, you must've known an aweful lot about each other, I would ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I really can't wait?
Q. hi there, the guy im seeing or was seeing has said he needs us to be friends for the moment cos he is dealing with too much we have only been seeing each other for two months and i know he is being genuine because we have spoken since etc but the ...
A. 2 May 2007: I wouldn't risk your relationship by asking him this early .
If you are not sure where this relationship is going , chances are he is not either, if you ask him now, he is very likely to say he doesn't know ,you would not get your answer and you ... (read in full...)
I want to know when would be the best time to kiss her or how to tell if she wants to be kissed.
Q. I have a really close friend, who i've developed feelings for. I really love her, and I don't want to lose her friendship, but I feel that I should at least try to see where we could go. I know that if we were together and if we ended up breaking ...
A. 2 May 2007: She sounds like a lovely girl , and I wish you the best luck. I am wodering if you've tried to hold her hands or hug her first, kissing might be too early if you haven't even hugged her or held her hands yet. If she let you hug her and hold her... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I fight all the time, how can we learn to communicate properly?
Q. Hi, I really need help. My boyfriend and I are having differences, and when there is a fight ...he yells so much and then blames me for starting the fight and then goes on saying that i am manipulating him and or the situation and that i am makin...
A. 2 May 2007: When my boyfriend and I are having fights , I like to write him emails or letters , I would put my feelings on piece of paper, that way I have more time to think what I have to say , and it also prevents me from saying something hurtful that I ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to get over someone?
Q. Im in my late 30's and I've just finished a 4 year relationship because i found out that he was cheating on me with another woman, i was devastated because i thought he was happy with me. How do I get over him? because i feel so depressed, i won't ...
A. 2 May 2007: I know what you mean , we all do , when you are heart broken, it is like every breath you take hurts, we've all been there.You are doing the right thing by not taking him back, one day he will be completely out of your system , guaranteed.
Find a "b... (read in full...)
Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!
Q. Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave ...
A. 1 May 2007: From a woman's point of view I probably know why your wife
is having such low sex drive right now , because you have an infant girl, and the maternal instinct is among one of the stongest emotions any human can experience, this might have some... (read in full...)
Why can't we just see how things go instead of just being "friends?" Has he led me on?
Q. Hi, I'm from Romania, but I am living in Britain while I am at University. I have tried internet dating as I was lonely in the UK and have met several guys, but now I have a problem. I feel really confused. I have been dating a really nice guy for ...
A. 1 May 2007: When a man really likes a woman they take things slow.From what you described he seems really really likes you . But he is already 33 and men his age will be thinking about finding a wife and getting married, you are not ready for that yet. If he'... (read in full...)
Met online, dated 2months, suddenly he ends it! Should I stay friends with him ?
Q. Hi there. Im a 39 year old woman and had a wonder 2 month relationship with a guy I had met online. Last weekend he went to his hometown to a friend's party, and text me the next day that he was not ready for any relationship and wanted us to part. ...
A. 1 May 2007: Personally I would just stop seeing him cold turkey.The longer you linger , the more you will invested in this relationship ,the harder for you to break free. Right now you are distraught because this happen too fast without warning, you are badl... (read in full...)
I do really like him, but just don't know where I stand and he wont tell me!
Q. I'm confused! A guy I like admits he likes me and even kissed me a few months ago but now he still says he likes me and wants his freedom, but still texts me a lot and when he sees me with male friends he questions me. I do really like him, but just ...
A. 1 May 2007: well he says he likes you , has he told you he loves you ?either he likes you , maybe a lot , but not ready to jump into a relationship with any girl yet because both of you are young. or he's probably slowly fallen in love with you but afraid to ... (read in full...)
He always makes plans to go on a date with me, but it never happens !?
Q. There is this guy who I really like, we get along so well and have alot in common. I know he is interested in me, and keeps telling me he wants a relationship, that he thinks I'm pretty, and when we are together he is totally into me. However, he ...
A. 30 April 2007: Usually if a guy is really into you , he will make all the plans and show up . He would want to spend a lot of time with you .
You need to take a step back and observe him more before you fall for him and hurt yourself. Stop calling him for a whil... (read in full...)
I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.
Q. Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...
A. 30 April 2007: Don't tell your boyfriend if you plan to marry him someday !
Men usually will not tolerate such a thing, no matter how much he loves you .Once you told him , he will lose all the respect for you and likely to leave you , even if he does not leav... (read in full...)
Do girls find guys with body hair unattractive? I am a little worried. Any advice?
Q. Dear anyone who could help, I am a tad bit on the hairy side in this hairless body civilization we live in. I am not overly hairy, just more than most guys out there these days. And i am especially embarrassed because my rear end is hairy. Please...
A. 30 April 2007: I personally find men with body hair very attractive,
I love hairy men.
Different girls might have different openions, but it is
what inside that really counts when it comes to love.... (read in full...)
Treated me well until I got attached, Now hes got me where he wants me hes awful to me!!
Q. i have become a emotional wreck,i have been divorced for 2 years.i got my own house and my 14 year old son lives with me,wasnt to much worried about dating,but thought it would be nice to find someone one day to settle down with and spend the rest ...
A. 27 April 2007: Hi ;
I think all the people from this site will tell you to
break it off with him ,you know what to do too, it is just
hard. The charming man you saw and fell in love with was not him,it was him wearing a mask , now he has revealed his tr... (read in full...)
He took my virginity, but now he doesn't want to see me anymore. I am in love with him so what should I do?
Q. I have known this guy for well over 2 years now and we've been best friends. We got together about a year ago we started having oral sex on a pretty regular basis. About 2 months ago, he took my virginity and it was absolutely fantastic! We've done ...
A. 27 April 2007: Hi ;
You are still so young , you have your whole life
ahead of you !! take it from somebody who's older, YOU WILL
meet somebody , someday, that's 10 times better than he is.
He is a lot older, and wiser too, he's already thought
abo... (read in full...)
He's been cold with me ever since we got back together, Does he still love me and I just need to be patient ?
Q. does he love me? ok here goes he say he does but i feel like he dont, we have been thru a hard time in out relationship since hes family doesnt like me and he has been telling them were not together. i love him so and feel as i can say forever but ...
A. 27 April 2007: Hi ;
Let him go , he doesn't love you .
Yeah, he called you a month after you broke up, but don't
read too much into it. I believe he cares about you (as
a friend or sister) at certain level, but I am sure he does
not love you.He is tr... (read in full...)
am i being paranoid or what? Do you think she's seeing someone else?
Q. hi guys,am i being paranoid or what? my girlfriend of 2yrs has slowly been pushing me away, not turning up at my house on numerous occasions and when she does there is always an excuse, phone was flat out or misplaced it, she dont mms me as often in ...
A. 27 April 2007: Hi ,
Yes, I think you are right , she is either seeing someone
else or planning to .
Other signs of cheating also include the following:
1) She pays extra attention to her looks now than before.
2) Can not reach her by phone for a cer... (read in full...)
He used to be affectionate but not now! What is going on with this guy?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend who I love very much for 2 years. He was in an unhappy relationship for 20 years, and basically stayed until his children had grown up. When he left, although there was no love between him and his wife, it turned q...
A. 26 April 2007: Hi; Wow , he will hug you and kiss you and say you are his baby in front of his friends , I am jealous ! Most men don't do that . We often ask why men only show affections towards women in the beginning of the relationship , when they ... (read in full...)
Is he just genuinely busy, or are these just excuses ?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been with this guy for a month and a half. The problem with our relationship is that he is always busy with his work. He keeps assuring me that all will be fine , he tells me that he loves me all the time, but we see each othe...
A. 26 April 2007: Hi ;
A month and half is a short time if you are considering
a long term relationship with him.
One thing I know about men is this: they like to take
charge, they like to make their own decisions and do things
base on their time table.... (read in full...)
Is he trying to let me down gently?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for 4 months. since the first kiss i've known he is the one. but we have only had one kiss and only been intamate during sex once. (we only had sex 5 times). he wheres a ring composed of his ex fiancee's engageme...
A. 26 April 2007: You are right , he is trying to let you down gently .
I think he is trying to break up with you but does not
want to do the dirty work. so he said a bunch of things like
you are amazing, gorgious....but he has problem wanting to
be intimate w... (read in full...)
He says he loves me, but cant give me what I want.... A family!!
Q. My boyfriend and I of 1 1/2 years had another conversation last night about marriage and children. He basically told me that he doesn't want to be alone but he's scared of commitment and he basically feels like he can't ever give me what I want and ...
A. 18 April 2007: He maybe is scared of commitment , maybe he is
just scared of committing to you , because he does not think
you are the one.
when we love a person ,
we almost always imagine one day we will marry this person,
have family and kids with this perso... (read in full...)
Was walking away from this cheating, lying, disrespectful man the right thing to do!?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about two years and I just broke up with him and I'm feeling a little depressed. In the begining of course, everything was good then he started becoming verbally abusive. He would call me out my name, and...
A. 17 April 2007: Hi Sasha;
It is absolutely the right thing and only thing you must
do !!
I was in a similar situation and I know how hard it is
to break free from a relationship like this.
First of all I want to say your relationship is broken ... (read in full...)
We are both married, we slept together and think we are in love, Ive asked that we stay friends and stop the sex, now hes not calling me!?
Q. Both of us are married and are having an affair. He works few months here and most of the time overseas.We both know that we really cannot be together, but we are so much inlove or so I think. I know that I love this guy and he says that he loves me ...
A. 17 April 2007: He might have made the right decision and already moved on , or he is currently seeing someone else and decided to forget
about you. The fact that he can go on a few months without
calling you just means he wasn't even thinking about you the
who... (read in full...)
He went to buy an engagement ring... Then said we are moving too fast!!
Q. my boyfriend of 4 months went out on saturday to buy me an engagement ring (he thinks i don't know) we have been very happy and he has always been very loving and attentive. on sunday he left saying he needed some space and time to think and that he ...
A. 17 April 2007: Hi ;
I hate to burst your bubble but I really doubt the
ring was for you , he might have bought it for someone
else but show it to you to keep you hooked and keep you
guessing. No guy is foolish enough to buy an engagement
ring aft... (read in full...)
He has left me 3 times in 6 months, this last break up is all too confusing, I Dont think hes coming back, not sure where to go from here!? (long)
Q. We broke up last night. I didn't see it coming. I did, but I didn't. He came home from work around 7:30 (this being Saturday evening) and said to me with no notice, "You're not going to like what i have to say, but I really HAVE to paint the cond...
A. 16 April 2007: Hi ;
You will get over him, yes you will. Because many people
have done it , you can too.
Don't call him, don't act like you can not live without
him, sure you will miss him , but you will find someone
some day who is right for you and... (read in full...)
If shes not physically attractive to me anymore, I loose interest, this prevents a relationship, any advice ?
Q. I am a single guy and have strong belief that i could not be happy with a women unless she is physically attractive to me. In other words, the moment i find her not of much of an attraction physically, i loose interest in her and there is nothing ...
A. 16 April 2007: I believe men are capable of giving love and making commitments. After all men need love just like women.
You are still too young , you just havn't found your true love
yet, true love will never fade.
The fact you ask this question kind o... (read in full...)
He doesnt want anything serious as I'm a single parent, but doesnt mind friends with benefits! but then he said maybe I will like him enough to stay around!? Im confused ?
Q. hi i am a single mom who has been talkin with this guy for a week now and it seems like we are connecting to me. When he found out i had a kid he doesnt want to date me cause of what his ex had done to him. He says he will be my friend with benifits ...
A. 14 April 2007: Hi
The fact that you have a child or
not should not matter at all if he trully loves you.
Did he know about your kid right after he met you ? if not
he is probably angry because you did not tell him the truth
in the beginning. If that... (read in full...)
Is this guy really into me or is he just wasting my time?
Q. hi i'm just wondering if this guy is even into me or not or am i just wasting my time.he calls and talks to me all time but i have only seen him once in a month and the two other times i was supposed to see him it did not happen the problem is i'm ...
A. 12 April 2007: Hi ;
I was in the same situation .
The answer is : you are wasting your time, I have some
guy friends, I asked them the same question about me
and the guy I was seeing. This is what they say:
A guy is not into you if he ... (read in full...)
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