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Update: I cheated twice on him but I want to work it out if he does

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Question - (15 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *weeite writes:

hi its sweetie here again. after reading all about my love life{ CHEATED TWICE ON MY BOYFRIEND BUT LOVE HIM EVER SO MUCH} what would you people out there do? would you try to work things out or would you leave it and say to him if you cant see your self trusting me again then i hope you find love and happiness.

i really want it to work out but i want to know what you people out there have to say.xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

If you really love him why did you cheat on him? And twice as well so you can't count it as a mistake. People who really are in love don't cheat on each other. Trust is one of many vital elements in a relationship and i can't see him trusting you if he knows that you are capable of cheating on him. So, for his sake, leave him and let him find a girl who wouldn't cheat on him.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntBabe if he can't trust you anymore after what has happened then your relationship does not stand much of a chance in my eyes.

It could come up in future arguements and it will mean you have to live with this for alot longer.

If you really like someone you don't cheat so maybe you are not right for each other and you should just move on.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2007):

Straight Up agony auntWell to be honest with you I don’t really think you do love him ever so much otherwise you wouldn’t have cheated twice. I mean once can be passed as a mistake but twice you knew what you were doing. Why don’t you think of it like this if he cheated on you twice would you be able to trust? Would you take him back? How would you feel? Answer all those questions for yourself first. Because I know that it would not be easy for me to trust my partner. Why don’t you apologies to him and tell him you want to work things out and one thing don’t rush him after all you are the one in the wrong

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