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writes:I have this guy friend who is also my baby father who always accuses me cheating with anyone and everywhere I go he doesn`t tust me but he says he loves me yet all we do is fight. Should I just let him go? Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Hi babe,
If you feel it is getting so out of hand, the arguments wont stop etc, then yes i suggest you both find someone new..
I hope i helped & good luck.. =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): You have a hostory together, but it's put in danger by his distrust. It's innapropriate that he accuses you without evidence, one should be free of guilt until proven guilty. By his incertainties he's consuming the good part of the relation. It's not acceptable to put under doubt "always" your honesty, because you say he always accuses you of cheating - have a good conversation with him and ask him to lower his guard because he's hurting you, ask him to change for the sake of a peaceful life. And in last instance if one wants to be dishonest he will be, so it's useless to be surveilling his steps every moment, not to mention that's too stressfull. Love also means offering trust, that's one central pillar. Maybe it's a product of his fears of losing the relation or of his poor self-esteem, but he should be able to control it and not manifest so. Talk to him and see what he says.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (12 July 2007):
 i don't think you should let him go but you should ask him why his always accusing has he got something to hide. but if his constantly accusing you then maybe its from a guity conscious
if you need to talk more email me
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