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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 don't give in your really young you are only 13 years old your not even legal to have sex yet.
i really don't understand when you enter a relationship there'e not contract saying you must have sex with your partner.
tell him that you are still young and your not ready for sex and if he doesn't understand that then he has to go.
please don't changed your mind because he wants you to.
good luck if you want to talk more contact me with an email
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female
reader, tasha556 +, writes (27 June 2007):
 you should tell him your not ready to have sex and if he's not willing to wait then he's not worth your time. gd luck and dotn rush into anything your not ready to do.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Tell him you are not ready for sex and won't have sex with him till you are. Do not be pushed in to it by him, even if he uses the crappy excuse of saying you can't love him if you wont do it.
xxxxx
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reader, myp  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Im not going to tell you your too young, however i will tell you that if your not ready you need to tell him that, and if he loves you he'll respect your decision. If he doesnt then hes not worth your time and you need to get rid of him. Sex is something sacred and special, especially your virginity. You shouldnt lose your virginity to a person because you feel pressured, YOU have to be ready. Thats your priority, YOU. If he really loves you or even cares a little bit, he'll wait for you and you two will be able have something special together. If not then youll give up something precious to a person who doesnt deserve it.best of luckmessage me if you want to talk =)-Myesha
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (25 June 2007):
Most likely he wants to have sex because he thinks its what he is supposed to want. Just turn on any television show and you will see what I mean.I'm telling you this flat out. Your not ready at 13. Unless you want to ruin your relationship. Im almost 18 and im telling you sex changes a relationship. and at the age of 13 it wont be for the better. I'm not gonna say you cant experiment and fool around. but stay away from full on sex. And if you decide to ignore this please please please make him use a condom. Feel free to message me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): hey erm i think you are really to young to be having sex...and i think u need 2 tell him that..i am 17 and i have only just started having sex so really just wait until u feel ready
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): Hey if you are 13 you are not ready well your body is not even if you have you period. and so what if he wants sex i love my bf too but if i am not ready then i let him know he still loves me and is ready for sex when i am not rush
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