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Hi everyone my name is DOWN TO EARTH.I give advice to people no matter what the sittuation is,i never look on somebody different because of what they have told me i just like helping people.

So if you ever need someone to talk im just a key pad away.

Should I wait until he's divorced before I go after him?

Q.   I fancy a man going through a divorce. Should I wait til the divorce has gone through before I start the chase? ...

A.   15 October 2007: how about you let him kno how you feel but i still think you should give him some space b4 you start movin to him let me kno wot you think ?? ... (read in full...)

He kissed another girl - do I confront him?

Q.   So i've been seeing this guy for about two months and was hoping things would start getting more serious. I really like him, but I found out that last weekend he kissed another girl at a party. what do i do? I havent yet confronted him....

A.   15 October 2007: Personally i think you should confronted him because if you and him are going out he shouldnt be thinking of kissin other girls,you should be enough because if you let this go wot might he try next tym. x xx x let me kno wot happend... (read in full...)

How to make her understand?

Q.   My girlfriend has a very high sex drive, and wants sex every day. Sometimes I am too tired or not in the mood and she takes that to mean that I am not attracted to her , that I don't think she is sexy, or that I am mad at her. If I try to leave he...

A.   8 October 2007: well i understand you hav been going out with ur girlfriend for five years, Explain to her that u dnt think she is ugly nd u do think she is beautiful because she sounds insercure nd fills like ur gonna leave her. Let her kno that sometimes when u ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and I want a baby!

Q.   i am 16 and i lost a baby with my boyfriend who i have been with for 1 year and a half my mam did not no i was pregnant and now she has just found out i am haveing sex and i really want to try for anouther my mam thinks it will spoil my life but my ...

A.   17 September 2007: i dont know what makes you think your sister is goin to look after your baby while you go college remember she does hav a life of her own.You might think your ready to hav a baby but you really aint i think you should wait untill your more mature ... (read in full...)

We broke up 5 months ago. Should I try to straighten things out with her?

Q.   its been 5 months since me and my girlfriend broke up. it was a pretty bad breakup and i havnt seen her or talked to her since. she now has a facebook account and i dont know if i should try to talk to her and try to straighten things out between ...

A.   17 July 2007: awww well you said you and your girlfriend broke up 5months ago when did you last approcach her and what did you say that mad her get upset? Well the best advice i could give to you would be for you to phone her or text her and tell her how you fill... (read in full...)

Should I be jealous if my partner kisses someone else as part of an acting class?

Q.   My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous? ...

A.   17 July 2007: i dont really think you should be jealous because at the end of the day it is only an acting class,so he will be expected to do things like kissing women and touching them.If you really are that uncomfortable i would advice you to talk to your ... (read in full...)

I love him but he's always yelling at me; what are my options?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i was 16 and he was 23 when we got together Ive been living with him almost a year and a half now and I want out. I love him but he always yells and cusses at me. He has no patience and i know it ...

A.   16 July 2007: i think you should tell him that you love him but you cant be with him anymore because you are unhappy and the sittuation might get out of hand and you dnt want that to happen. i personally think you should get out before its to late. ... (read in full...)

I don't know whether to keep the baby and if I should tell him

Q.   I am pregnant by my new ex. We had only been dating 6 months, but the unhealthy relationship he has with the mother of his child has finally broke us. I already had an abortion a few months ago (also his) and I really don't know what to do. I really ...

A.   16 July 2007: its really up to you do you think he is going to support you and the baby beacuse you dont want to bring a baby into this world if you know it isnt right.Do you hav a close friend you can trust and talk to ? because i dont think you should keep this ... (read in full...)

My husband won't talk about having children with me

Q.   I've been married for two years, we dated for three. My husband has two kids from a previous relationship. I have no children of my own, and his kids live with us full time. My husband was alone for seven years with his kids before he married me. ...

A.   16 July 2007: well as you know he has two children already he has been through a rough time as i can see because he is or was a single parent maybe he does want to have children with you but he might be scared because of the previous relationship talk to him and ... (read in full...)

I have low self esteem and I'm afraid to ask girls out

Q.   I am rather shy, and I have very poor confidence in myself. I'm the tall,skinny,quiet kid who is good in school, I'm sure you know the type. I'm afraid of asking girls out, and what they would think of me if I did, although I have no problem talking ...

A.   16 July 2007: so i see you hav low self-esteem but as you have told me you can talk to girls normally but when you want to ask them out you have a problem i bet you are a really nice boy you just need to gain confidence because you will never what a girl will say ... (read in full...)

He wanted to marry me but his parents have another girl for him he has to wed

Q.   My friend got close to me saying he wants to marry me. We got emotionally attached to each other very much and now due to his family problems he says he can not marry me. I tried to tell him how much it is hurting etc but he says he is sorry and ...

A.   16 July 2007: I THINK WHAT HIS PARENTS ARE DOING IS COMPLETELY WRONG.But if you think about it there is nothing you can really do i just think you should let it go i know you love him but there is really nothing more you can do.I really hope your going to be ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me saying he wants to experiment sexually but he had said he wanted to be with only me

Q.   In a month me and my boyfriend would have been coming up on our two year anniversary. I found out he was lying to me about basic things, so I got friends involved and they did a little intervention. He admitted to them that he has thought about ...

A.   16 July 2007: well your boyfriend seems very confused,it sounds like he really wants to be with you and not being rude but you were his first right i think he really does love you but maybe you should let him experiment with someone else if that is what he really ... (read in full...)

My GF was hurt in a past relationship so won't have sex with me! How do I convince her I'm not 'that guy' ?

Q.   My girlfriend and i have been going out for over 7 months now. We have done a lot of things but never actually had sex. I am still a virgin, but she had sex once a couple years ago. She says the guy used her and really hurt her and she doesn't ...

A.   8 May 2007: i understand your girlfriend has been hurt in the past ans she dnt want that to happen agen, i think u need to sit down nd talk to her tell her you will never hurt har and that you will wait untill she is ready.support her dnt push her just wait ... (read in full...)

Do men only become friends with women to get sex?

Q.   I was talking to a guy at school and he told me how 99.9 percent of men will only befriend a girl if he thinks he's going to get something in return, i.e. sex. Is this true? I have plenty of guy friends and I don't get that vibe from them at all. ...

A.   8 May 2007: i love that the fact ur curious i know u want a male to answer but im telling you not all men r the same. i kno they leave us no choose bt 2 sterio type them bt u really shuld'nt always thing they want sumting because sum times they r just looking ... (read in full...)

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