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writes:I have strong feelings for my cousin. We both get on so well with eachother. We've got on well for the past 12 years and in that time we've both had relationships. however we're both single and lately gone out with eachother for meals in and out, cinema, and to friends parties quite regularly. We'll always talk and chat in to the small hours sometimes until 4.30 in the morning. I'm not bothered about looking for a girlfriend when she's in my life, and know that anyone I come across I compare to her and doesn't come near. My friends have commented that we look like and act like a couple, and are even going away for the weekend(separate beds). Where's all this leading to? Do I just live for the moment and enjoy the hapiness, or am I just being used because she's lonely? Are my thoughts running away with me as regards wondering if things would get sexual, as like any normal man we crave sex!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): "Straight Up" - If the relationship's not "blood" then why on earth is there a problem?
If it IS blood, it's still not illegal or anything - but you might want to consider the wider implications. You may cause a family rift for example - and if the relationship becomes very serious, you might struggle to have healthy children.
Perhaps, if the relationship is a blood one - consider distancing yourself for a while.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (16 July 2007):
 your situation is kind of tricky. i'm wondering if your blood relation or related through marriage. Either one is wrong. You need to try and stop or have control over your feelings. What if you turn around and tell her how you feel and she doesn’t agree with you. You’ll lose a very good friendship. But you really do need to try and forget or put aside the way your feeling.
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