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writes:Can guys answer this please espically the younger ones thank you so I'm 17 ,my boyfriend and I have been sexualy active and we have been together for three months about to make four. So we have been doing the same positions for some time now and he wants to do others such as doggy or even take a shower together. But I'm scared he might see my stretch marks witch are on my butt and there visable but there not far from my skin color and I'm scared if he sees them he will leave me. I want to tell him but I don't know how he's going to react. So I don't know what to do or say to him when telling him ?
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reader, erbe  +, writes (27 January 2011):
baby oil can help them but if he loves you trurly it wont matter, but if it knockes your self-confidence down try rubbling baby oil on them daily :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you , everyone ifeel alot more comfortable about the situation thanks For you support
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 I'm sorry to say this but if he loves you enough he can look past it. I'm betting your stretchmarks are a lot more noticable to you than they are to others but if he will leave you over a few marks on your skin that you can't really help, do you want to be with someone who's so shallow and who obviously doesn't love you?!
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reader, Lateraltwo +, writes (27 January 2011):
You're 17, and from what I can tell, your bf and you have a very active love life. If he would have left you because of your stretch marks, he would have done so already. Casually make reference to the fact that you don't think you're pretty enough for him. If he's worth his salt, he'll tell you he doesn't care, that he loves you, etc. Don't Panic.
Enjoy your sex life. It can be great (try something called the straddling position, where you lie face-down and he makes love to you from behind. My ex's loved that).
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reader, GRW +, writes (27 January 2011):
If he loves you, it won't matter. My last girlfriend had stretch marks, but I loved them about her. They made her no less attractive to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): Let him see. If he want to leave let him. He should love you for who you are. He doesn't derve it. Let me tell you girl, you will do better. If there is real love one can marry even disabled.Don't feel and look ashamed when he see it. Be open and comfortable. Don't try to hide it. Don't tell him, let him see it when he see. It is not fair reason to leave you.
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