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*caredForLove
writes:Hi agony aunts :) well I'm having more problems with my girlfriend. Last night she was angry with me because I made a sex joke about her mom. We got into a huge argument and she told me I wasn't funny, I take things too far, yada yada. And I wasn't being mean to her I just stated my point of view because if I surrender (which I do most days) she thinks I don't care. She told me to listen to a song by Taylor Swift and said bye. I asked if she was breaking up with me and she said "I hate when you do that. If I was breaking up with you, I would say it. F**king god." then she continued to say "K bye." I kept saying sweet things, telling her she's beautiful, what a great girlfriend she is, etc. And she says "k bye." Then she said she doesn't think we should be together, but she's not breaking up with me. That really hurt me. She says I make her feel like sh*t, which makes me feel horrible and like I have failed. This morning she had school and I didn't. Most days I wake up to talk to her. I was upset and cried a lot so I was tired and woke up 2 hours after she'd been at school. She said "I know you were up all night texting your botfriennd, but please wake up." I was talking with my best guy friend whom I do not like. She says that all the time. I try and try but she just knocks me down. I love her a lot. But would we be better off breaking up? /: please help xoxox
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (24 August 2012):
ScaredForLove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll I did was send her a gif of two lesbians and said one was her mother. . just throwing it out there.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (24 August 2012):
Perhaps you should apologise for the joke. Do you think most people would find a sex joke about their mother entertaining? IT sounds like it was very inappropriate. However, her statement that she doesn’t feel you should be together but is not breaking up with you, simply doesn’t stack up. It sounds like she wants to end it but doesn’t know how, or she’s playing with your emotions. Either way, it doesn’t seem that your relationship is really going anywhere, you might need to face up to the fact that there’s no future in this, wish her well and go your separate ways.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 August 2012):
 Please tell us the joke... as that is really a key detail in this matter....
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (24 August 2012):
 Well, I think making a sex joke about her mother was probably a little inappropriate. However, it sounds to me like your relationship is pretty toxic, even without that joke.
The two of you clearly have some issues that you've been unable to work through, so maybe it's time to take a break. Your relationship can't move forward in it's current state of constant arguing and never having anything resolved.
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