She runs hot and cold. Does she care or is she playing games?
Q. I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as ...
A. 30 March 2011: I agree it could just be her mood, she might be a moody person, but in that case, you need to be careful. it mite offend her that you think she is in a bad mood. (dated one of those) I dont believe I would ask her directly. Does she have a close ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to talk and be sexual with ex or just let her go?
Q. I dated my ex for almost 3 years. she ended the relationship she said I didnt do anything wrong she just had fallen out of love but we both admitted that and that we loves eachother still just not in love. well weve been split up for over a year ...
A. 30 March 2011: Let her go. I was in a 10 year relationship that went through these situations with loving each other but not being in love with each other anymore. You very rarely get that spark back once its gone, but the comfort and history you have with each ... (read in full...)
Should I let him film us having sex?
Q. Ok,It would be extra helpful if some guys could answer this question,if you had a video of you and a girl having sex,would you show it to anybody-I've been seeing this guy and he's been knagging me to make a video with him for about a month now,he ...
A. 20 March 2011: dont do it, it will get out at some point. learn from other womens mistakes. we will show it by accident or when we are drunk or someone will find it and put it on the internet, this is always a bad idea... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I can be loved
Q. I don't know why I'm writing this maybe because I just need to let it out. I have been only a few real relationships in my life and have found that I don't feel like I can be loved. I won't be someones love because there is something deeply wrong ...
A. 20 March 2011: I wouldnt worry so much about this, you just havent found the right person yet. be comfortable and confident in who you are and that will help. we all have traits that people will like or dislike but you if you are happy with who you are that is ... (read in full...)
Looking for some reassurance in the midst of teen angst
Q. OK, i know that i will get through this, because its only teen angst but i need some reassurance that i will stop feeling so goddamn sad! i just need to know that life will get better and i will become the person i would like, and that adulthood ...
A. 20 March 2011: Life as a teen is horribly confusing and sad for a lot of people! My suggestion is dont ever let yourself get to a point where you feel like there is nothing you can do to fix it. Only you can control your happiness, do what makes you happy, be ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can believe that he "loves and values me" after the betrayal of cheating and the constant lies that came with it...
Q. Should I believe him when he says that he loves and respects me, and that cheating was a terrible mistake...Says he cheated b/c he was going through a phase where he was afraid of committment. Didn't want to tell me b/c he was afraid he would hurt ...
A. 20 March 2011: I was cheated on during an 8+ year relationship. I thought like you did and tried to stay with it and give it another chance. I eventually got over the infidelity, which was suprisingly easy and learned to trust the person again, but you deserve ... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't she add me on Facebook?
Q. All right I've got one that I am way lost on folks! So I went out to the bars with some friends and we eventually met up some gals at the bar. (we didnt know each other prior) One gal inparticular caught my eye and well we seemed to hit it off. ...
A. 28 September 2010: Definitely gonna let it ride...it was just weird cuz it was definitely a mutually good time. she chose to hang around with me i didnt push for or as her too...it would be nice if your right but im not gonna stress, lol...not looking for a ... (read in full...)
My sister hooked us up, why won't he call now?
Q. Hey guys just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation as i am going crazy thinking about it... right so my older sister is in a theatre production and asked me and my cuzine to come and watch it and we did... now there was this ...
A. 28 September 2010: Sounds like solid advice from Caring Guy, I wouldnt jump the gun here. 1.5 days is really soon, he might be trying to play it "cool" and giving it a few days. its all about all about the image we convey to our peers and the opposite sex. Too soon ... (read in full...)
I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?
Q. Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be ar...
A. 14 February 2010: This is classic case of "The grass is greener on the other side". You treated him like gold and he got comfortable in the relationship and began wondering what else was out there. Its nothing against you I will promise you that. Men are creatures ... (read in full...)
What goes through a guy's mind when a sex scene comes on the tv?
Q. What goes threw a guys mind when he's watching a film with his girlfriend and a sex scene comes on? After a conversation over a bottle of wine with a few friends non of us could answer this question lol. Guys any feedback helpful x...
A. 9 February 2010: It really depends on the situation and the guy! I always get a lil uncomfortable about looking to hard, or dealing with what pops up lol. My gf, she loves it when they come on cuz she asks me the typical is she pretty, u wish i had her body, did ... (read in full...)
To cuddle... or to be cuddled?
Q. just a general questions.... Guys! I know this is gonna sound stupid but honestly do guys prefer to be cuddled or to cuddle the girl? I'm just wondering as many people say it's all a guy could dream of is to hold the one he loves but im just ...
A. 9 February 2010: LOL I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS QUESTION! I REALLY DO! You know this really depends, I love to cuddle the woman on the couch watching a movie, or for a nap. I especially love it during movies! (most defintely my favorite) But when i go to sleep my ... (read in full...)
Why would this guy stand up my daughter??
Q. this question is on behalf of my 18 year old daughter. She has had some very bad experiences with dating. A couple of weeks ago she had a former boyfriend "friend" her on facebook. He initiated all contact. He is in college away from home. He ...
A. 7 February 2010: I am a young male and had a similiar situation with my ex, (who i have dated for about 10 years now after a break when i started college). Its very difficult to explain but to put it simply men are thick head a-holes. I would definitely wait to ... (read in full...)
I'm married, will be a father in a month, but can't control my feelings for the receptionist at the gym.
Q. Hi Everyone, I am a new member on this site. I am married now for 8 months almost and we will have a baby soon. We dated for only around 1.5 years before we decided to get married. I go to this gym everyday and have started liking a girl at th...
A. 7 February 2010: GREAT MAN! I'm really proud that you are able to realize this and step up to the plate!! Be proud!!!... (read in full...)
I'm married, will be a father in a month, but can't control my feelings for the receptionist at the gym.
Q. Hi Everyone, I am a new member on this site. I am married now for 8 months almost and we will have a baby soon. We dated for only around 1.5 years before we decided to get married. I go to this gym everyday and have started liking a girl at th...
A. 7 February 2010: Definitely agree that we need more information here!!! Decide whether you are still in love or not with your wife? If are not in love any more than you need to find a way out, reasonably. DO NOT BE THE MAN WHO IS A CHEATER, THAT RUINS LIFE AND ... (read in full...)
How do you decide if a relationship is worth it?
Q. When do you decide when a relationship just isn't working and isn't worth it? Is questioning whether it is worth it a bad sign? Is not being able to see it lasting a bad sign? I assume it is. What about feeling this way and it has only been a month, ...
A. 7 February 2010: I wouldnt be concerned about his reactions! I answer all my questions from my personal expereinces in a relationship and as a man.I have been in the exact same situation that your man has been in. I thought she was too clingy and didnt text or call ... (read in full...)
I need ideas for a birthday present that don't cost the earth
Q. its my boyfriends birthday in a few weeks and i want to get him something incredible and romantic that he will absolutely love. the only problem is i have no money. i have searched the internet for possible ideas but they are all things such as m...
A. 7 February 2010: Oh you are sweet to worry about this that much! Men are so easy especially at the tender age that you are!! Even thought he isnt very romantic, you bring that out with situations. He may be a hopeless romantic on the inside. Men are guarded with ... (read in full...)
I love really enough? We argue over petty things.
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him deeply and i believe he loves me. but lately, cracks have begun to show and we argue over petty things. is love really enough? or do you sometimes have to think with your head and not your heart?...
A. 7 February 2010: Im going to take a different stance than the other poster. Yes love can be enough! Every relationship goes through changes and rough times. Arguing over petty things frequently is a very common occurence in relationships, its normal. What you ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...
A. 7 February 2010: First off I want to say CONGRATULATIONS on getting read you have your first grandchild. I know your not excited but read this and see if it helps. Please do not be ashamed of this,I know its far from an ideal situation but your son and his gf are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't get jealous?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't get jealous. Is this considered a good thing or a bad thing?...
A. 7 February 2010: It can be both really good and really bad but I would say in most cases its a very good thing. A man that doesnt get jealous has many things going on emotionally that are both a credit to his own self confidence and his trust in you and your ... (read in full...)
Fight I thought was over is resurfacing...
Q. This isn't funny to me, but maybe it will be hilarous to you. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. I love him to bits, but he's not a boyfriend. He doesn't kiss me in public, he doesn't put his arm around my shoulders... It's like ...
A. 7 February 2010: Oh to be young again! I remember those days! Trust me you have nothing to worry about! I was once a shy young boy who was afraid of showing my affection for the gal i love in public! He will grow out of it. Just give him time. We think our ... (read in full...)
I want to forget about him but I can't!
Q. I joined this web site so i can post my problem and hopefully get help and also try helping others going thru problems. this is my problem i met this guy we will call him sam* We went out 4 a while about 6 months, during those 6 months we broke ...
A. 7 February 2010: Normally I would say do what makes you happy and if you really love him try to make it work, but with the very short duration of the relationship, lets work on cutting your losses and moving on. I know this is a difficult process but you need to do ... (read in full...)
I need advice in getting over the past...
Q. It's nice to find a place like this... So, almost 2 years ago my fiance and I broke it off, after 5 1/2 years of being together, engaged for 2 of those years, and forcing it to work for 3. The break-up was bad, and it left feeling pretty b...
A. 7 February 2010: As an individual who has had similiar circumstances I can respect where you have been and where you are at now. I have never had any luck on the net and things of that nature. I think your best bet is to get out there and have fun. Its going to ... (read in full...)
I just discovered my husband is cheating on me...
Q. I just discovered my husband is cheaing on me. I dont know what to do. I am 5 and a half months pregnant with twins.......
A. 7 February 2010: First off I am very sorry that you have to got through something as terrible as this, especially being pregnant. There are a few things you have to ask yourself to determine whether or not you would like to save this relationship. First question ... (read in full...)
What is holding him back from marrying me?
Q. I've been with this guy for 7 years and now we have two kids together. I am ready to get married but I don't know if he is. I tell him all the time that it is time to make a true commitment but he just dont understand. All I want to know what is the ...
A. 4 February 2010: Look men are thick, thick headed creatures, I am one and I dont always know how thick headed i can be. Even given your lengthy history, men are terrified of committment and it has nothing to do with you. He obviously loves you and not getting ... (read in full...)
Should I just call it quits? Or am I an idiot?
Q. In a nutshell: I've never had a relationship with a girl, but I'm now in one with someone. She's wonderful and things have been great. But I feel like it won't work and that she should just see other guys. I partially want to do this because I n...
A. 4 February 2010: Take it from someone who has been in that boat for many years with a gorgeous woman who can have any man. KEEP HER IF YOU LOVE HER! Ask yourself why you think it wont work. Be honest with yourself. If you are unhappy talk to her and sort it out, ... (read in full...)
My labia is uneven. Is this normal?
Q. My labia is uneven, as in one side is pretty large, and the other side is small and tight. Is this a huge turn off for guys? Is there something very wrong with me?...
A. 30 January 2010: I will try to be delicate because of your age. I cant speak for it medically, but as long as it is not a harmful condition, then men dont care TRUST ME. There is not an exact map of what one is supposed to look like and men dont care. We love our ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband about my boyfriend or wait till our daughter is 18 as agreed?
Q. Hi, I'd really appreciate some advice regarding my marital situation. I've been married for 19 years and we have one daughter who is about to turn 17 this year. My husband and I have had quite a lot of heated arguments over the years but we loved ...
A. 30 January 2010: Ummmm, he should boot you out honestly, you are a habitual cheater, and you contribute nothing to the bills, definitely take a look at yourself and wonder why you deserve to even breathe the same air he does. Life isnt free, pay some damn bills, ... (read in full...)
She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.
Q. Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...
A. 30 January 2010: Definitely get the kid tested but do what makes you happy. If thats is your baby, then be its daddy. Make sure you are ready to step up and take care of that child during all the hard times that you are going to go through. He or she is ogint to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?
Q. Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus...
A. 30 January 2010: I am a man who was in a nearly 10 year relationship when i was cheated on and it does hurt. It has realy been emotionally damaging. Im glad your going to therapy because it will defintely help. Just telling someone about it will help get pasted ... (read in full...)
I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!
Q. I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...
A. 30 January 2010: Wow, you have really effed up here! My advice is step up be a man and take care of your responsibilities. I am a man and I understand the need desire or want to get some strange but have some self control! Look at porn or something. You need to ... (read in full...)
My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?
Q. I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...
A. 30 January 2010: I might be biased becuase i was a former soldier and i am a man, but if you are single and he is too, then get it on! THere is nothing wrong with it. It sex! I know I would be stoked to have had a Mrs. Robinson... (read in full...)
What do his actions mean in guy terms?
Q. I'm On a break with my ex boyfriend. He wanted the break because he couldn't handle a gf and wanted to get back on his feet, which is ok i guess. But Im getting confused he says he wants me and he wants back together again. last Saturday we hung out ...
A. 30 January 2010: Defintely play hard to get!!!! Ive been on both sides of this question, when i did it to the gal i knew that i still loved her and wanted to be with her but needed some freedom, we were ver sexual as well but it worked for us. We have gotten back ... (read in full...)
She is not at that stage in her life to date me, what does this mean?
Q. what does it mean when a girl says that she is unable to date u, as she wasnts to remain single 'at this stage in her life' and that she doestnt want to have everything in life planned out in the moment and doestnt want to think of the future and ...
A. 30 January 2010: Been in that situation with the current woman i am dating. we have both went through these types of phases. They can pass after days, months or a year. Best thing to do, if the relationship is important to you, respect her wishes and just live for ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to revenge on an ex that has treated you so badly?
Q. What is the best revenge I could give my ex. For 3 years, he has treated me badly, dumped me, cheated and come back, I forgive him, still treat him so nice and he turns around, humilate me and treat me bad. What could be the best revenge I could do ...
A. 30 January 2010: The best revenge is to move on and appear to be the happiest woman in the world. Show him and everyone else that you do not need him to be happy! If he thinks you have successfully moved on he will be crushed, especially if you ignore him!!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a married man, he wants sex, but if I give it he might break up with me
Q. i am dating this married guy, i am married too. i am 18 years old and he is 32. i know is kinda crazy but im really attracted to him. we met by our job, it was my first time i worked and damm! it happened, i am so into him, maybe is because i have ...
A. 30 January 2010: No matter what happens in your life never ever be the other woman and never cheat on your lover. If your husband or his wife finds out, it can and will completely destroy them emotionally. It is one of the most devistating thing to happen in a ... (read in full...)
I'm considering losing my virginity to a one night stand.
Q. Im going to Ibiza with some friends for 2 wks this summer. Im 21, single and still a virgin and was thinking of having a (protected)'one night stand' while i am over there. Ive never tried anything like this before! Has anyone else ever lost th...
A. 29 January 2010: I wouldnt recommend this! Your first time is going to require some extra special attention because of the "breaking in process". If its not important who you lose it to, pick a friend or someone you know somewhat. Be careful there are a lot of ... (read in full...)
How do you feel about larger inner lips?
Q. Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !...
A. 29 January 2010: I dont agree with the Miamine. This is akward because of your age so I am going to handle this delicately, but take it from an older male (mid 20's) Men are going to be happy with whatever you have. You are hard on yourself because you are a woman ... (read in full...)
What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out.
Q. If you had a guy/girl that would do anything in the bedroom that you wanted. What would be your biggest fantasy that you would want to live out....
A. 29 January 2010: My biggest fantasy probably like most men would be to have my woman and another at the same time! It would be in a mirrored glass room where people could watch but we couldnt see out. I dont really care to have them get with each other, but I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook!
Q. My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook, and it upsets me. he doesn't know any of them, he adds them just because. They all have big boobs, and I am really small. I know for a fact he likes big breasts better, I asked him and he told me. I can't ...
A. 10 January 2010: It is very insensitive that he does do that especially knowing how it does hurt your feelings, but take it from me, guys dont always prefer size. Its definitely the quality rather quantity. Dont worry about the girls he finds hot having larger ... (read in full...)
Am I being unfair for wanting my boyfriend to value me as much as he does his mother and sisters?
Q. Hello, I am having some real problems and I came here to get some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months-we were good together for the better part of the time together.He's 39,lives with his parents (Grrrrrrr),and doesn't ...
A. 10 January 2010: Take it from a man who knows this exact situation. I am a man and we are thick headed. Your relationship is very young and it takes a man a long time to understand a woman and get acquainted to what she expects. I know because i have spent the ... (read in full...)
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