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male
age
30-35,
*lone1
writes: I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed. It points upward and I can't try any positions because it hurts my girl. I have to beg her for it because every time we do it it hurts her, and although she says its her I know she's just being nice. Some times I feel like cutting it off. Someone please help me =( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, natasia +, writes (13 January 2009):
Have to agree with pvtguy below - surely it is supposed to point upwards?? You are 18 - 21 - you should enjoy the fact that it does that, because it won't forever!!!!!!!
OK. Joking aside, I think you need to
(a) love yourself - it's yr body, and i'm sure it's something to be proud of - however yr dick is, you need to work out how to deal with it so things go as you want them to
(b) think about the fact that it might be that yr girlfriend is made in such a way that she is easily hurt - if her cervix tips backwards (and some do - mine as well!) then it is much more easy for the whole uterus to be shoved back when you are having sex, which REALLY hurts. If she's like this, you just need to (carefully) try lots of different positions until you find the ones that don't hurt (I'm certain there will be some). Has she had a lot of sex before? Has she had the same problem with other men? The best thing is probably for her to go on top, because then she is controlling it...
Please don't blame yourself - any sex is a combination of two people and there are ways round every problem, pretty much! I think you guys just need to try to find your way.
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