My younger brother seems to be cyber stalking girls, what do I do?
Q. Hello i dont know what to do with this. i was on my phone yesterday and my brother had used it earlier and gone on his facebook when i got it back it was still logged in and i know that he can be very immature with his friends so i looked at his ...
A. 5 October 2012: Definitely nip it in the bud by talking to him - make sure it sounds like you're on his side - 'I can see you're not getting anywhere with this! let me help you...' - and whilst it's not brilliant behaviour and shouldn't be left undiscussed he IS ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay because he watches porn?
Q. My boyfriend watches porn, is he gay? I confronted him about it and he denies his not. am I being in denial?...
A. 22 March 2012: Is he watching gay porn? You don't say. I wouldn't say watching male/female porn would make a person gay!!!... (read in full...)
What does he mean? He's says I'm and open book with no writing in it.
Q. Hi I like this guy and he knows I like him but he never told me if he likes me or not so he started saying he likes some girl everyones saying he likes me and is trying to get me jealous. I didnt give any reactions and he goes Im like an open book ...
A. 20 February 2012: I don't think he means you're not interesting at all. Why would he say that to you!! I think he means it looks like you're open and everything but he still can't work you out.... (read in full...)
Why do guys say what they think you want to hear?
Q. why do lads whether its your best friend or your boyfriend, always tell you what they think you want to hear, like the phrase "i love you" "ive missed you". Me and my best friend have not spoken for the past five/six month. i work in a bar and he ...
A. 25 December 2011: ever heard the phrase:
'Men fall in love with what they see - that's why girls wear makeup;
Women fall in love with what they hear - that's why men tell lies'
? There's your answer - because of the way we're built and society is built. Ev... (read in full...)
I lied to my Bf, who I love, about WHO I was meeting. How do I resolve my guilt at not telling my Bf it was my ex?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him vey much and couldn't ask for anyone better. However, I deceived him the other day, and I really don't know what to do about it. I told my boyfriend I was going to meet up...
A. 25 December 2011: Oh dear. I understand how upset you must be right now. Only you will know whether or not you should tell him. Many people will say do, many people will say don't. As someone who feels guilty over the slightest thing, I have been in many posit... (read in full...)
The guy I liked asked out my friend. Do I have the right to be angry at them?
Q. Because the guy I've been in love with for three months asked out one of my good friends (and they're together now), does that give me the right to be mad at them, and should I feel bad for wishing that they'd break up?...
A. 10 December 2011: Did your friend know? If she did then you might have a reason to be mad at her; or did u say it was ok? U can't be mad at him you don't own him...... (read in full...)
Family Issues! Am I wrong for being so angry?
Q. Hello! I apologise in advance as this is likely to be a long question and it's a family matter rather than love! It's the first time I have asked for advice so please reply kindly I just need some kind reassurance I think... : S Ok, so a few...
A. 5 November 2011: No your anger isn't unjustified at all. It is totally understandable. We expect our parents to protect us, against all odds, against ANYONE. I don't know why you felt so strongly you couldn't tell your mum when you were little, but kids do and... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend messaging his cousin so I sent messages to her from her account, he thinks I should forgive him and she is going to turn the whole family against me! What should I do?
Q. I've lived with my boyfriend for 7 months all together we've been dating for 13 months and things had been going great..we used to fight sometimes over little things but lately things had been very peaceful until we decided to visit his family in ...
A. 4 November 2011: He loves his cousin. As a woman. And he isn't ever going to let that go. Cousin or no cousin don't be with a guy that tells another woman he loves her. ANY OTHER WOMAN ASIDE FROM YOU. Period. If he loves you he ONLY loves you! He is effectively ... (read in full...)
If I was so repulsive then how can he not think that now?
Q. My spouse is 1/2 my age and had an affair with a woman closer to his age (actually his step daughter, my own child). I am 40 and durring his affair he told her, and his best friend and a few other people that touching me was disgusting. He ...
A. 7 October 2011: I agree with the other posters. Dump his sorry ass!... (read in full...)
I found out b/f has been cheating all along. He's going to be deployed. Do I break up with him or wait?
Q. I few days ago i found out my boyfriend has been seeing another girl. A few nights ago he was in the bathroom and his phone went off. I looked at it and it was a text from a girl i'd never heard of saying "Hey, looking forward to seeing you too x". ...
A. 1 September 2011: He obviously hasn't put your feelings first or had any respect for you so why should you do any of those things for him? Dump the loser. He much more than deserves it! ... (read in full...)
How does one get over a past abusive relatonship?
Q. I have a question that is been bothering me lately and would love to get opinions on it. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship about a year and a half ago.(To make the story short I was never good enough) even though people say i should ...
A. 31 August 2011: I suggest asking your doctor to recommend you a good councillor. I think having an outside person to help you through a clearly difficult problem will help you enormously! If its really been 2 years you need to find a professional who can help give ... (read in full...)
Am I kinky or should I relax and stop worrying about it?
Q. am i kinky? i am a 46 yrs. old slim attractive widow. in march of this year, i met a wonderful likewise lady three years older than myself for companionship etc. we have become enormously great friends and confide in each other. one weekend las...
A. 7 August 2011: Your behaviour might be kinky... But why on earth shouldn't you relax and enjoy it? You might find it useful to bring up the subject of a code word that either of you can use if the situation makes you uncomfortable. As long as you feel safe then ... (read in full...)
Someone told me my boyfriend is cheating on me should I believe it or wait for evidence?
Q. I'm in love with a guy that i just found out recently has been cheating on me eveytime he goes out of town the person I heard it before is a family member of his My question is should I listen to the family member or wait until I have more evidence ...
A. 4 August 2011: that seems really suspicious to me. If he's really done nothing wrong then there's no need to turn it on you... Unless you really weren't being fair... I agree with anon, ask the family member for more details... (read in full...)
Someone told me my boyfriend is cheating on me should I believe it or wait for evidence?
Q. I'm in love with a guy that i just found out recently has been cheating on me eveytime he goes out of town the person I heard it before is a family member of his My question is should I listen to the family member or wait until I have more evidence ...
A. 3 August 2011: well it depends how well you know the family member and what sort of person they are... Perhaps just keep a close eye on your bf ask him for details about his trips in a light, innocent way and then ask again later and change something and see if ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting,or is he playing me?
Q. Hi all. Your advice please!i.ve been seeing this guy for around 4 months,and am quite attached to him. Anyway,can u tell me if i.m overeacting or if he,s messing me around after the following. I came back from going away to visit family yesterday. ...
A. 17 July 2011: I think you may have overreacted... As frustrating as it would have been! Give him a chance to explain. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't call everyday but always answers his phone if I call. Why?
Q. I'm confused. My boyfriend of 7 months has been away for 2 months for work. He doesn't call me every day despite the fact that I've made it clear I would like him to. However, he DOES pick up his phone no matter what time I call. (i just don't wa...
A. 17 July 2011: Could be a bit of both, really. That or he's just not ready to give you his personal space - which is how he may view this problem: as becoming a more serious commitment. I had this problem with my ex, and it did eventually go away but only after i ... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: If you feel betrayed by it, it's cheating. ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him....do you really think he could've changed?
Q. So my boyfriend and I( 15 and 17) have been on and off for about 6 months. I never thought me and him could be together when i first saw him because he's all like handsome with blue eyes, and a super athletic body; he plays football and runs ...
A. 6 July 2011: no. He is a loser. Get away from him fast. And you've let him get away with it by getting back with him - i will bet you my life savings he cheats again within 3 months. Sorry sweetie - but you have to hear it. Dump him now!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I like girls?
Q. I never liked guys before. I always just thought I wasn´t old enough. Recently I just finished my first year in High school. This past year I found myself liking girls, I even kissed one! None of my friends or family know. Is it wroong that I like ...
A. 2 July 2011: If you are not attracted to men but are attracted to girls, you are gay. It is not wrong at all to feel this way! You might like to wait a few years before telling your family, as your feelings might change, or your family might think it is a ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to carry on liking somebody even if they are taken?
Q. If someone (A) likes someone else (B), on an extreme level and for a long amount of time, but B does not openly return their affections and shortly enters into a relationship with another person, C, is morally and/or socially "wrong" for A to ...
A. 2 July 2011: well no, it's not wrong to feel the way that you do, but it IS wrong to pursue another girl's boyfriend... so, as long as you don't do anything about those feelings to make either the guy or especially his girlfriend uncomfortable (basically think ... (read in full...)
My bf has cheated on me and 6 months later he still can't forget the girl who he cheated with.
Q. First of all, I apologize for my grammatical mistake in English. I have been reading your website for a whole day and I think I really need your help. I am Thai 32 years old, my boyfriend is 23 years old british, we ‘ve known each other...
A. 2 July 2011: I think you have to let him go.
It's really hard, I know, especially when he says he wants to be with you like this. But it's been so long now and he still obviously cares for her so much. He can't stay away from her.
Don't you want to be with ... (read in full...)
Why did my friends send 2 gay stripper for my birthday party?
Q. hello everyone.. i dont know from where to start. but yesterday was my birthday so i made a party to celebrate it..it was cool and so all my friends came and had fun. but they had a lil surprise for me/ they tied me up to a chair and put like a t...
A. 2 July 2011: its just a joke surely... calm down would be my advice!! And do something equally funny to them on their birthdays!... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: I'm afraid you are going to have to just ride it out. The only way these shallow minded people are ever going to believe you are a loving wife is to see that you stay with your man over time. I'm sorry you are having a hard time, but congratulations ... (read in full...)
What do men think if a woman asks them out?
Q. Question for the guys; what do you think of girls asking guys out first? It's just that there's this guy in the year above me at 6th form (he's 18, going to university soon, I'm 17). He's most definitely the cocky confident type but I think he's sli...
A. 23 June 2011: I'm also not a man but I've asked out most of the boyfriends/dates I've ever had and I've had a very nice success rate :) If a guy likes you, you asking him out will be a lovely suprise and should not put him off. If he doesn't, what's the harm in ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my brother if there is anything going on with him and my girlfriend?
Q. I kind a have 2 questions , so I'll start at the beginning: My younger brother(19) has always been best friends with a girl "katie".They met each other in elementary school. Katie and I started dating dec 2009. My brother was cool with it, th...
A. 23 June 2011: I'm so glad to read your post OP, I hope that it means everything is at rest for you. Good luck to you, your girlfriend and your family, it sounds as if you have a lovely relationship with all. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my brother if there is anything going on with him and my girlfriend?
Q. I kind a have 2 questions , so I'll start at the beginning: My younger brother(19) has always been best friends with a girl "katie".They met each other in elementary school. Katie and I started dating dec 2009. My brother was cool with it, th...
A. 23 June 2011: I totally disagree with our anon male poster. Of course anyone suggesting what your cousin has said would make you feel insecure; in the past I even suspected my best friend of having feelings for my bf just because someone suggested it. We... (read in full...)
I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.
Q. I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....
A. 23 June 2011: A man who cheats on his partner is always bad news, even if he seems like the only person in the world who is right for you. He definitely isn't. Imagine you move to wales and he actually does leave his girlfriend for you (which I hate to say is ... (read in full...)
I could be "the one" for him, but he pulled back
Q. About six months ago I started becoming really good friends with this one guy, and I now consider him to be one of my best friends. We both like each other a lot. We started hanging out a lot more and we would do stuff such as kissing, etc. but we ...
A. 10 June 2011: I went through this when I was around 17. In love with my best friend and I knew he wanted me - I was CERTAIN we should be together. That we were right together.
But he wasn't - he was happy to get with me, happy to have me very close. But he j... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me after he slept with someone else...and said I have a heart of stone! Do I?
Q. Hello Everyone, My friend has let me borrow her account for this problem, I'm 19 not 15. I am at university working towards my degree, and I have had a boyfriend for about six months - he is my first - in my opinion six months isn't that long ...
A. 10 June 2011: OP, you are NOT wrong, and you do not have a heart of stone.
I have known men who are very sexually active meet a girl who won't have sex for whatever reason and BEHAVE themselves until she is ready... often, for years!
If it was unacceptable... (read in full...)
Why do I get sexually stimulated so quickly whenever I make out with my bf?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and it's only been the last 4 months we've been sexually active. We've done everything but sex; masturbating each other, oral (inc. 69er). I just seem to get so horny as soon as we get in, h...
A. 8 June 2011: Hi,
I am glad you are enjoying your relationship so much! I have an extremely high sex drive (higher than my boyfriends) and I see it as no bad thing. Also, it will probably come in waves of more and not so much depending on life. So long as your ... (read in full...)
Should I pay my boyfriend or should he work for free?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and six months. He has a handyman business. I need electrical and plumbing work done should i pay him to do the work?...
A. 4 June 2011: I would definitely offer to pay. If you ask outright if he'll do it for free he may feel a bit taken adavntage of. Hopefully he will give you a (very nice) discount, but remember that unless it's a home you both live in, the work he will do for you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend help please...my boyfriend has a lot of girlfriends. What should I do?
Q. Boyfriend help! My boyfriend doesn't get along with men/guys well. So he has alot of "girlfriends." I usually, am a jealous girlfriend, not overly jealous, but average jealous for a girlfriend. However, recently, one of his "girlfriends", h...
A. 4 June 2011: Dump him and wait for a boyfriend who will choose YOU every time, female friends or no female friends.... (read in full...)
Pain after sex
Q. No, I don't have an STD. I just get sore after sex. We used to have sex til he couldn't help coming. Now we have sex til I'm too sore and then I tell him he has to come. It's sad. And I'm all sore later in the day/the next day so it just kinda ...
A. 1 June 2011: Take a break. Let yourself heal first and then you will be fine to do as you used to. Then take a break again when you start to get sore :)... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: No, she's just talking about a dream she had. I don't know if she had sex in the park with anyone, but nothing you have overheard or read points that way at all. 17 year olds definately don't leave facebook open on purpose around their parents, ... (read in full...)
Do all virgins bleed? My boyfriend is now doubting that I'm wasnt a virgin because I didnt bleed!
Q. I am 20 and had my first sex with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend doubt that I was not a virgin just because I didnt bleed.. Do all virgins bleed??? has my virgnity gone because I used toys before I has sex with my boyfriend??...
A. 1 June 2011: no, I didn't either.... (read in full...)
When a man says I love you first
Q. Been seeing this man for 7 months, I always knew he had feelings for me but never knew how much until he told me a week ago. He told me he loved me and he wanted to me to have his baby. I was shocked by this, I had no idea he felt this way. He ...
A. 29 May 2011: I reckon with most men 'I love you' when they mean it doesn't always mean they have a plan... but usually that they are open to start thinking about making plans. Don't rush him, he seems to be the kind of guy who takes his time to think things thro... (read in full...)
He wants to try oral but I don't want to
Q. I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...
A. 29 May 2011: No. Unless you actually want him to do it, it will seem really really ridiculous once its happening. Don't do anything you don't want to do! Thats the secret to good relationships and good sex :)... (read in full...)
I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling...
Q. I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling with the answer. My boyfriend is a really nice guy and we were living together. He was having a difficult time financially and with his ex wife. I...
A. 28 May 2011: If you are uncomfortable, don't say yes. However, then you have to make a choice. Imagine he gets himself sorted out - deals with the ex wife and stabilises his finances. Would you say yes then? And most importantly, and are you willing to wait?... (read in full...)
Husband jumping to conclusions.
Q. I really need you help here.....please be patient with me as this is very confusing to explain.. here a bit of background.. my husband of 7 years constantly brings up my past, he doesn t believe what I have told him is the truth and thinks I have w...
A. 28 May 2011: Really, your husband's question is ridiculous. For a start, whether or not you kissed 3 or 4 men in college doesn't affect your relationship at all. It is, really, none of his business. You were kind enough to share the information with him, and now ... (read in full...)
I'm enjoying keeping him a secret
Q. Why do i like the idea of seeing a guy secretly? Normally if I'm just texting a guy or seeing someone, i always tell my friends. Literally anything to do with a guy i will tell them!! But recently, I've decided that i like keeping it to myself and ...
A. 28 May 2011: I was like you, until my current boyfriend. Sometimes something is so delicious you have to keep it to your self to fully enjoy it. Maybe it's just growing up! I hope you continue to enjoy what ever happens with this guy :)... (read in full...)
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