My husband doesn't understand how important my sister is to me.
Q. My husband recently lost his job. I told my sister immediately. My husband is now angry at me and said I should have asked if he wants me to make it public. I told him he cannot control me and that I share everything with my sister and also that my ...
A. 16 February 2018: My wife also does the same thing and it pisses me off. Her sister knows how much i earn, when we fight and stuff like that.
We just recently bought a home, her sister knew every single detail about the process, how much we paid for this and that... (read in full...)
A guy I was dating said how hot my sister was, and I dumped him the same night! Am I overreacting?
Q. Hey, everyone. So I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been on 3 dates total. I enjoyed my time with him and he's quirky in the way that he thinks and he can come off like an ass, not in a malicious way, but it intrigues me and he has treated me ...
A. 22 January 2018: You are being childish. Do not take you insecurities out on the guy. I ll say give him another chance as he might not mean it in a bad way.... (read in full...)
I am the mother of five young girls and just found my boyfriend looking at teen girl porn
Q. My boyfriend is looking teen porn almost every day. He promised me a couple months ago to never do it again when I found stuff that looked WAY too young and wrong. I about had a break down because I have 5 girls almost ready to be teenagers. How is ...
A. 9 November 2017: It is a difficult one. Your description of him is that of someone who truely loves you. Has he ever acted inappropriately towards your daughters?
I am a 35 year old, with a wife and a 2 year old son. I do watch porn like every 3 days as my wifes... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past has become a sticking point for me
Q. OK this might be a bit long winded but here we go. So I have been happilyish married for nearly ten years now. I met my wife in 2003 while on my OE in London and we got together and started dating and then eventually the "how many people have you ...
A. 22 September 2017: Hey man, i understand how you fell, we are in a similar boat. I have slept with 22 people, including my wife. She also does not have a definite number. When she broke up with her last boyfriend, according to her, she used to go clubiing and... (read in full...)
What's the hype with men liking big butts?
Q. What's the hype with men liking big butts? Something I've noticed the past year or so is that a lot of men seem to be butt men. They like the 'Kim Kardashian' type butt, the big, round butt. Even the majority of my sister and I's male friends hav...
A. 17 April 2015: To put it as simple as possible, i like big butts not because of any hype or media hype, i like them because sex with a woman with big butts from the back is the best.... (read in full...)
How would you feel if your partner told you its not his fault you can't get pregnant because he already has a child?
Q. I feel terrible for even asking this but if you were having difficulties getting pregnant, how would you feel if your partner told you that it can't be his problem as he already has a child? We have been together for three years, and I adore his ...
A. 4 February 2015: If you were pregnant just 11 months ago, i dont think you should panick just yet, that suggest to me that u guys are capable of conceiving. A little patience should do.... (read in full...)
I want to be doubly sure that my behaviour around my baby sister is appropriate
Q. Okay so I am female and 13 years old, and she's still just a little one, six months old. I was wondering if it is appropriate to kiss your little sister on the cheek/forehead? We had a family member living with us years ago that attempted to molest ...
A. 20 July 2014: What!! I am 31 and my lil half sister is 3. I kiss her on the lips if i havnt seen her in a while. I love her with all my heart.... (read in full...)
Is he too forward or am I a prude?
Q. I've been trying online dating in the past month for the first time. I'm only 19 and have zero experience with anything! The whole never-had-a-boyfriend-cause-no-one-is-decent-enough story... Anyway, a 25 yr old guy from the UK starts chatting with ...
A. 17 June 2014: Thats quite forward. I ll like to get to know a girl first.... (read in full...)
My husband is masturbating ALL the time!
Q. My husband is masturbating ALL the time. He does it 3-4 times a day during the work week and more on weekends. We will just be sitting there enjoying a movie and I'll look over and he's doing it. We have sex regularly. We've had it four times this ...
A. 14 June 2014: I masturbate once a day if am not seeing my gf just before i sleep. Even with that, i feel guilty. But when am with her for 3 or 4 days during most weekends, sex with her is enough. I think hes got a setoius problem and needs help.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend showers with his friend?
Q. My boyfriend was telling me about a drunken night the other weekend, and told me he ended up showering with his (guy) friend. Then he told me that he'd also showered with a different (guy) friend on a couple occasions. I was confused, and as...
A. 15 May 2014: I used to shower with my guy cousin and think i can shower with my best guy friend if we late for an appointment or work, but am straight, have a GF and has will always be attracted to women early.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend watch chubby porn but not fancy chubby women in real life?
Q. I'm slim, my boyfriend tells me I'm sexy and he loves my body often. But I am slim and my breasts are an A to a B cup. I have a nice bum. However my boyfriend always looks at BBW porn. Not very big girls but chubby with big boobs. It's his go to ...
A. 9 May 2014: Am also like that. I find BBW porn quite sexy even though i dont date one myself. I guess if i was single, i ll rather sleep with them but not date them. More boobs more ass just seem so sexy.... (read in full...)
New girlfriend is friends with recent lovers. Feels bad to me.
Q. New relationship-about 5 weeks. We are both in our 40s. Recently, she went out with an ex-BF who she briefly dated, but didn't work out, but continued sleeping with, most recently a few weeks before she and I met. She told me after the fact t...
A. 18 October 2013: I was in the same boat, told me girl to chose as i was ready to walk and not look back. She chose me and we happier for it.
i dont put up with such crap as i dont even talk to my exes on the phone when i have a gf.
Goodluck to u.... (read in full...)
Do men really think about sex every 7 seconds?
Q. Hey ladies, just have a question... I have heard so many times that men think about sex every 7 seconds. Is this an exaggeration? Also, a second question I have is, I think about sex all the time even though I don't get much pleasure out of ...
A. 15 October 2013: I def dont think of sex even every hour. I think of it only in the evenings when am alone and in bed. Not when am at work or other engagements.... (read in full...)
He isn't well off financially and spends most of his time with his children. This things bother me. How should I feel?
Q. Hi Everyone, I have been in a relationship with a man for about 7 months. I really do love spending time with him, we have a lot in common and we get along very well. He is funny, fun-loving, smart, understanding, reflective, and I find him very ...
A. 6 September 2013: I really love the fantastic advise these guys have been giving you. when i first met my girlfriend 4 years ago, i was a student while she was working. She spent more at the end of the month for us to eat out, go to the cinema or go out on ... (read in full...)
I'm burdened with stress from unplanned pregnancy to finding out father is very ill
Q. My life is in turmoil right now and i have no one to talk to. My girlfriend of 4 years just found out she is 2 months pregnant and because she feels her life is not where it should be right now, she wants to have an abortion. I have a post grad...
A. 3 September 2013: Thanks for all the words of wisdom. @ WiseOwie, i appreciate your insight. Even though i cant sleep at night, i know i ll get past this. My gf has done the abortion yesyerday as i drove her to the hospital myself.
We ve decided to go for counsell... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to gain his feelings back ?
Q. So once again my boyfriend and I are having issues. He told me he Lost feelings and interest in me .. He said he wants me to make him get those feelings back. I have no clue how to do that :( I feel that after I see him tomorrow I will be a single ...
A. 27 April 2013: I think i have to disagree with u guys on this. I have been with my GF for almost 4 years now. When we argue too much, say for a one month period, i kinda lose my feelings for her and dont even care if shes around or not. But we work on it and come ... (read in full...)
What can I do to persuade my 21 year old daughter to put down the controller and pick up a boyfriend?
Q. I'm concerned about my daughter's social life or rather lack thereof. She's 21 and all she wants to do when she's not at work is play video games. She's never had a boyfriend, is not interested and getting one and is still a virgin. Geez I was ...
A. 20 February 2013: Wow, just when i thought most parents will be happy their kids are staying off sex and being responsible. For God's sake, shes only 21. She ll get one when shes ready. I first had sex when i was 18, i wish i even waited a bit long. I cant believe u ... (read in full...)
Am I doomed for a lonely life because I am fat? Are all the good men shy? And can men see beyond the weight?
Q. I am fat, and I think that is why men don't notice me. I dress up, take extra precautions to be presentable, and work hard to not be a turn-off and seem friendly in general. I am pretty well educated, usually non-controversial, and can carry a ...
A. 13 February 2013: well, i will be brutally honest with, yes, being fat makes most guys dont notice women. I know there are a few men who like bigger women but generally, most slim guys dont. I personally prefer medium frame to slim cos am slim. Its an issue of ... (read in full...)
I've never been turned down for sex in the middle of the night, I feel hurt! Am I over reacting?
Q. I'm so hurt it's unbelievable. I live with my boyfriend but went away abroad with my mum and sister for a week and got back last night. everyday we called and texted a lot, he told me all the time how he missed me and couldn't wait to see me. I've ...
A. 12 August 2012: I think u are over reacting, people get tired from time to time, which is understandable, besides, u guys did it the night before. Women shouldnt think men will never say no to sex, we are not machines, we have flesh and blood too.... (read in full...)
I don't want my girlfriend's gay friend at my house and she doesn't respect my wishes
Q. My girlfriend has this lesbian couple as her friends. I have met them, spent time with them and i quite like them. This Sunday, she wants to take all of us out for breakfast, me, the couple and a male gay friend i have never met, but she talks about ...
A. 24 May 2012: Thanks for you responses, much appreciated.
Everyone of you sided with her, means i must have been doing something wrong. I just apologised and told her hes welcome.
My boss who gave me the start i needed in my career last year was gay and i realiz... (read in full...)
Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...
A. 21 March 2012: I have been watching porn for years and has never stopped because i had a girlfriend. All my gfs actually watch it with me sometimes, but i wont give it up for anyone. Us guys seem to want sex more than most women, so instead of bothering my gf when ... (read in full...)
I feel depressed and sad that my parents are still trying to have children and they aren't thinking about me and my feelings!
Q. i recently came to know that my mom had a missed abortion with a 9 week fetus. I feel so embarrassed and angry and sad because i am 20 and old enough to have my own kids but they want a second kid after so many years. I found out that she had a ...
A. 27 January 2012: Welcome to my world. I was 21 when my Dad and his wife had my lil brother, at least i was fine with that being that he had me at 17 and was never married to my mom and now that hes married, he ll want a child. 4 years later, my step mum passed away, ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for being unhappy with the engagement ring?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of 4 years and I just recently got engaged. I'm really happy and excited about it all, because I had been pushing the whole get married thing for so long. We shopped around for rings and at first I didn't care which one he'd...
A. 27 January 2012: My best friend proposed to his girlfriend on the 1st of Jan this new year and this is what he did. He initially took her around looking for rings. Eventually she said if u ever gona propose, this is what i would like. He went back by himself, got ... (read in full...)
I can't stand that my ex has a new girlfriend. What's happening to me?
Q. hello there... so i broke up with my bf 8 months ago and now, i found out he has a new gf. i was ok with not being with him... i'm doing fine! even though i'm not dating, i'm going out and having fun with my friends... i missed him, but not...
A. 20 January 2012: Well, you got nothing to worry about. I broke up with my ex over two years ago. I ve been with my current GF for 2 years and i love her to bits and would swap her for anyone else. 2 days ago i was told my ex has a new boyfriend, a guy her friend use ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him his sexual habits are strange for me...
Q. Hi guys, I just want to ask is it normal for a guy to lick his own come? It's just after we've finished having sex, my boyfriend will go down on me and put is tongue right inside me to get all my come and his come in his mouth... I was just ...
A. 9 June 2011: ok jesse, you have to either learn to accept it or tell him you not comfy. But one thing you must know is that, different things turn people on, which is normal.
My gf likes me talk... (read in full...)
Can a man really be too sore for some "morning loving" after an evening of sex?
Q. So last night me and my boyfriend (together a few months) had a date, came back to mine ended up in bed and had some really great sex. Super! This morning when we woke up I was still feeling horny and started nuzzling in, stroking him and being af...
A. 7 June 2011: Yes it does hurt sometimes. You are just like my ex, she ll say as long as you get an erection, it means you want it, but thats not true. Just talking about sex or my gf touching me gets me up, but that doesnt mean i want sex at that point.
T... (read in full...)
We are not yet officially dating. So is it illogical for me to be jealous of his flirting with girls?
Q. This guy and i have been friends for a few months. Recently he told me he gets nervous around me because he's very attracted to me. After some more texting and flirting he then told me he wants to be my boyfriend. A few days later, we are still comm...
A. 26 January 2011: Us guys, we like playing around until things eventually becomes serious, like personally, on two occasions, i have slept with two people within the first one or two weeks of a new relationship, but when things get serious, then i put my act ... (read in full...)
My wife now earns more than me and blame me contributing less
Q. We are together for 8 years(4 before and 4 after marrage). She was a student when we met. We had the most wonderful relation before marriage and until we have our daughter. Till then my income was the only financial source. Though it was not enough ...
A. 26 January 2011: This is a sad situation, the business and the income from the business is as a result of an investment from your pocket, therefore, the income is for the both of you.
Its true when they say money changes some women, personally, i ll start thinking... (read in full...)
I pushed my fiancee into having a boob job and now I regret it
Q. I'll probably get criticised for this............... I always had a thing about boob jobs on women n although my fiancee had nice size breasts and a fantastic figure i constantly went on to her about wanting her to have one. Stupid i know. ...
A. 21 January 2011: Am sorry guy, but shes on her way to meeting new guys and before you know it, shes off with someone new.Its just a matter of time.... (read in full...)
Men: Would you date a taller woman?
Q. I am tall for a woman, just about 6'-0." While I physically prefer taller men, I can't really afford to be picky and so have dated shorter men. Sometimes though, they seem embarassed about the height difference, too embarassed to take me seriousl...
A. 20 January 2011: 4 out of my 6 Ex girlfriends were taller than me, it didnt bother me, we had good relationships, but the only thing i didnt like was them wearing heels on top of that.
So basically, i dont mind a taller woman, am 5'6, so i dont mind up to 5'9, ... (read in full...)
I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves
Q. Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...
A. 3 January 2011: I have done it before, till today, am still friends with the lady because we both in different relationships but still communicate as friends and dont sleep with each other when we involved with other people.
They key is to separate emotions... (read in full...)
She lied about meeting an ex and it still haunts me!
Q. I really need some help sorting out my thoughts. I've browsed a couple of other questions none ever really gave a distinct absolute answer. Don't know if there is one. 12/2008 I met Susan. Shes 26 im 23. Instant attraction - nothing I had ev...
A. 21 October 2010: This is my story. Met a beautiful and the most amazing woman 11/2009, things moved quickly and it was everything i ever wanted.
Ex boyfriend keeps calling her wanting her back, she keeps telling him she doesnt want any thing with him.Hes very ric... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend like me anymore?
Q. I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...
A. 21 October 2010: As sad as it may seem, i think she had an expectation, and when she met you, that expectation wasnt met, so just let it go.
I also met someone like that through a website, we chatted for a while and when we decided to meet, she was too short wh... (read in full...)
She might be pregnant but she is pushing me away, what should I do?
Q. Hi guys, am in a predicament right now. I and my girlfriend met last November, we been dating since then.Although we broke up in September this year fot three weeks,when we got back together, we got carried away, now her period is late and shes ver...
A. 19 October 2010: Well thanx guys for all the advice.
Eventually, we sat and talked everything through but decided to give it a week or two before doing a pregnancy test, but alas, he period is here, so shes not pregnant.
Well, we ve decided its time for contrace... (read in full...)
Any advice on getting back into the dating scene after a twenty year marriage?
Q. Dear Cupid I don't know how to get back onto the dating scene. I've been married for over 20 years (I married really young) and my husband and I are got a divorce a few months ago that I don't regret. I've found an old flame (well after ...
A. 3 September 2010: Just be yourself and have fun, no two situations can ever be the same, like i cant tell you to do this or that because, what works for me, might not work for you.
So just keep your cool, it will come naturally to.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong thinking that he is mean watching me and my family struggle to make ends meet?
Q. I am an unemployed single mother living with an adult daughter who is having a part time job at minimum wages. Money is really tight. I've met this wealthy man 20 years older than me. From the start he says I bring no money into this relationship ...
A. 3 September 2010: It is very wrong if hes in a position to help you guys and hes not doing it because he thinks you didnt bring any money into the relationship.
If you just started dating, i will say he is testing you to see if you re actually there for the mone... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gone cold while she has been on holiday, what should I do?
Q. Okay so I need advice on what is best to do - my girlfriend has gone to florida on holiday with her friends and family for two weeks, she's already been there a week so next week she will be back, hopefully. But the point is whilst she has been out ...
A. 1 September 2010: Dont worry, am in the same situation, my girlfriend went home to her family last week and she went cold as well, i spoke to her and she explained that she just wanted to hang out with her family and friends and generally have fun because when shes ... (read in full...)
For the men: Do you still find your ex's attractive or ever think about them?
Q. Hello, I just want to ask the guys if they still find thier ex's attractive? Do you still think about your ex? And also do you think about your ex during sex with your current partner? Thanks in advance for the replies. ...
A. 1 September 2010: I broke up with my ex after 4 years together because we just couldnt get along and kept fighting all the time. Well, now am with my current girlfriend for 9 months and we get on very well and i love her very, but sometimes, i just cant stop thinking... (read in full...)
Developing feelings for someone else so what should I do?
Q. Hi there, Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always felt happy with him. He treats me well and we love each other. I always thought we would get married and have a family. But recently i started a new job and found that i have star...
A. 1 September 2010: If you want it to go away, it will.Try and think of him as just a friend and nothing more. The fact that you ve been in a long relationship might be making you seek something new and exciting, but think of it this way, even if you end up with the... (read in full...)
Involved with a married man who cheats with others but I won't leave him
Q. I am in a relationship with a married man who also sees other people. I knew this going into the relationship. I did not care, because I am obsessed. I will not leave under any circumstances, as I am that codependent. I love him, and that's ...
A. 28 August 2010: Is it impossible for you to get another man?
This guy might actually infect you with a deadly disease.
You deserve some respect and dignity.... (read in full...)
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