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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy and i have been friends for a few months. Recently he told me he gets nervous around me because he's very attracted to me. After some more texting and flirting he then told me he wants to be my boyfriend. A few days later, we are still communicating a lot and it seems like things are definitely heading towards something more than friends. But now i see on Facebook that he's flirting with one of his other female friends! Am i wrong to feel hurt/pissed off by this? Am i exaggerating? We are not officially dating. Thanks for the input!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 January 2011):
 You ask, " am I wrong to feel . . . ?". The simple answer is no you have your feelings they are part of you. They are real amd both of you will have to learn how to deal with them if you want the relationship to succeed.
When I read you title, I thought how sad it is that this generation has almost no experience with Star Trek. If you had you would know that "emotions are not logical". Just remember that he also has his own set of illogical emotions.
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (26 January 2011):
Us guys, we like playing around until things eventually becomes serious, like personally, on two occasions, i have slept with two people within the first one or two weeks of a new relationship, but when things get serious, then i put my act together, so be grateful hes just flirting, but you should talk to him and let him know how you feel.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (26 January 2011):
His conduct is certainly a red flag that you should pay attention to before getting involved.
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