How do I handle embarrassing visits to the doctor?
Q. My mom took me to the doctor to get a referral for X-rays for my injured knee that I damaged when running during practice for Track. So there was this Medical Assistant guy and he was the one who checked my weight and stuff like that. He also asked ...
A. 12 May 2012: First off. it is extremely unethical of him to flirt with you, you are a patient of his and in his care and he is abusing the trust you place in him. Even if you are only in his care for a matter of minutes while he is taking your blood.
S... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 25 April 2012: If you suspect he had unprotected sex with this other person then you need to get yourself checked out for STI's etc. ASAP... (read in full...)
How do I use kegel exercises?
Q. I've read that kegel exercises during sex can help reaching vaginal orgasm. I know what kegels are but I'm wondering how i should practice while I'm having sex. Should I squeeze and try to hold it for as long as i can and then release or should I ...
A. 24 April 2012: You could get some kegel balls and do pelvic floor exercsises with them in.... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend is 'right' for me.
Q. I'm so confused! Okay, so I've dated my boyfriend for a couple months now, but we've known each other for about a year now. He dates one of my good friends right before him and I started dating. Well, they've been talking more and more and I've tol...
A. 13 April 2012: Right now you probably feel that this is huge but in reality it really isn't. I have been there around your age with the guys and to be honest, ive had quite a few since! And so will you! Don't feel as if you have to meet "the one" now. Don't even ... (read in full...)
I have red hair & very fair skin, I am always the subject of jokes, do people really find this unattractive??
Q. Okay so I am cursed (or blessed depending on how you look at it) with naturally red hair and super pale skin(even if I get sunburnt it just becomes even paler) and I was wondering if people actually find this to be such a bad thing. I have had to ...
A. 5 April 2012: Red hair and pale skin is beautiful, these poeple are jealous. It is an old thing that people take the micky out of gingers whereas more and more people are finding it attractive. There will always be some people who deem it necessary to take the ... (read in full...)
Best way to tell my parents I'm pregnant?
Q. so im 19 and am almost 7 weeks pregnant. i haven't told my parents yet and im just looking for some advise on how to tell them and what i should say, and also how to ask my mother to stop smoking since i do still live at home, therefore being ...
A. 27 March 2012: The first 12 weeks of a pregnancy is when you are most prone to miscarriage. Personally, I would wait until I was after this mark before I told anyone, especially my mum.
The other answers have been really helpful but I thought I would include ... (read in full...)
Men..what do you want? Women..what turns your guy on?
Q. okay guys. i need to know what really turns u on. i want to get my bf really hard n to want me. okay we are pretty adventuris in the bedroom. we have done everything i can think of including anal and threesome. we've done lap dance, strip tease; now ...
A. 26 March 2012: My boyfriend and I really enjoy massages with oils and food play - chocolate,cream etc.
You and your man could do some sex games, theyre sold in sex shops or you could make your own up. You can get dice which one names an activity such as "lick" a... (read in full...)
My friend owes me money and will not pay up!
Q. This isn't exactly a Relationship problem but I have a 'friend' who I gave a loan of €250 last year, she is now engaged to her boyfriend of two months and quit her job to spend more time with him. I have panic attacks due to lack of money and I ha...
A. 24 March 2012: Go to a small claims court, gather some evidence of drawing out the money etc. Hopefully, you won't actually have to go through with it as it may scare her but it will do the job whether you have to go to court or not!... (read in full...)
How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend in the average week?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, I was wondering how often you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on average? My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost four months and we only see each other once a week, usually on Saturdays. Sometimes he will text me ...
A. 15 March 2012: When I had been with my boyfriend for 4 month we would go out for dinner or cook for each other one night through the week and then I would spend a night at his over the weekend as I still lived with my parents.
It is so normal to want to see h... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between a woman who is a 'tease' and a woman who is a 'challenge'?
Q. is there a difference between a woman who is a 'tease' and a woman who is a 'challenge'? i've been called both before and i worry about what this means and the image people have of me. i enjoy hanging out with guys but i've never been comfortable ...
A. 7 March 2012: I think that they are the same thing personally but it depends on the mens interpretation. The men that enjoy the thrill of a chase would probably call you a tease but those that prefer immediate gratification may call that same behaviour ... (read in full...)
Should I change my gender for the sake of love?
Q. The girl I love is bisexual and prefers girls. I am considering getting a sex change for her if it is what she would like. Should I do this? There's truly no one else in the world for me....
A. 4 March 2012: Dude, youre 16-17 don't be silly. You don't know if you will find some else, you have college and a career to meet new people, basically the rest of your life. A sex change takes YEARS, you have to live as the desired gender for a long time before ... (read in full...)
Do married couples have better sex when drunk?
Q. Do you prefer sex when your drunk as a married couple?. The wife and I Always seem to have the best sex when we have a little too much red wine. The "wildness" comes out! ...
A. 2 March 2012: I aint married but me and my partner do have better sex when a little tipsy, its like you lose all the inhibitions that make you a little embarassed or unsure!... (read in full...)
Have you ever done something against your parents' will?
Q. Hey there! I am totally dissatisifed with my life (place where I live, job...) and would like to change it. I'd love to move abroad (my bf lives there already) and start a new life there. Problem is my dad went all psycho and angry on me when I told ...
A. 19 September 2011: I am 18 and going out with an older man who treats me amazing and I am so happy with. My mum was fuming at first and went mental but she gave him a chance, decided she really liked him and is now so happy seeing me so happy. You should really think ... (read in full...)
Is my plan to propose to her...a bit too cheesy? What do you all think?
Q. Hi all. I just wanted some input on this plan I have. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years (I was 17, she was 14 when we met seven years ago) and she's graduating from her community college to be an RN the day that I come back from...
A. 9 May 2011: Thats amazing! Totally go for it lol... (read in full...)
How can I speed things up and make my period start?
Q. I am 13 years old and I have all the signs for my period but i havent gotten it yet and i want it to come faster... Is there any way that I could speed it up just that little bit without pain or pills? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!...
A. 9 May 2011: Dont wish for it to come haha! Its awful pain, messy and tbh a chore. Enjoy life without it for a while! I was having symptoms at your age such as discharge but didnt get my period till i was nearly 16. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want sex? At 21?
Q. Hi! I'm 20, my fiancé is 21 and we've been together for a little over 5 years. About a week ago, he refused to have sex with me. He says his libido has just decreased. However I find that odd since he's at the ripe age of 21 which is his sexually ...
A. 9 May 2011: He might be secretly feeling the same feelings as you, that you are becoming more like best friends then partners and this may be putting him off sex. Or other worries and stresses may be too. Talk to him about it? Or you could go out and buy a ... (read in full...)
As a teenager, why do I find older men attractive?
Q. Am I weird? I mean for some reason I am attracted to older men. I feel attracted to some of my teachers. (they are just stupid little crushes, nothing out of the ordinary). Anyways ive told my friends some think its weird, I didn't st first. And now ...
A. 5 March 2011: Ooh im same, i love them, im 18 and engaged to a 39 year old. Im so glad i am because we get along so well despite the age gap as i act older and he acts younger, embrace it!... (read in full...)
Is it harmful to shampoo your pubic hair during a menstrual cycle?
Q. My mom says not to shampoo my hairs on the first day of menstrual period. i asked her why and she just told me that shampooing hairs on the first day can disturb my menstrual cycle. is that really true? well i don't believe her, i need help. i ...
A. 5 March 2011: You need to wash your hair more during your period as the hormones cause it to become more greasy ... (read in full...)
We want to try different kinds of sex!
Q. im 50years old and my gjrlfriend js 28, we have good sex, we want to try diffrent kinds of sex,i love my girl so i will do anything to keep her happy,any helpfull hjnts wood be great...
A. 25 February 2011: sex toys, anal, bondage, dressing up, dirty talk, me and my boyf like reading erotic stories together, take baths and showers together, new positions but the best thing you can do is communicate, see what she likes and even talking about it could ... (read in full...)
Has my teacher got feelings towards me? Or is he just being nice?
Q. I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away...
A. 23 February 2011: Sounds like he is giving you affection but be careful. Depending on your rules you could get in serious trouble if you persue it, to the extreme that you both could get dismissed from the college. Maybe try talking to him about the feelings, if that ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's ex wants to go on vacation with her and their kids!
Q. My girlfriend has kids with her ex boyfreind. They have been separated for 3 years and have never taken a vacation together. He wants to go with her out of state when she goes on a trip with her kids. I say he shouldn't go. She says he sould be able ...
A. 23 February 2011: If youre close with the kids cant you go too? It depends on the nature of the trip, is it the childrens first? Is it someone special? You cant really blame him for wanting to take a trip with his children. If you act jealous and possessive you will ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated and now says he can't get over her!
Q. My boyfriend of three years cheated on me for two months. We agreed to stay together after I found out on the condition that he is not to have any contact with her again. Since then, he's broken up with me four times, telling me that he can't get ...
A. 23 February 2011: Im afraid you cant do anything. If he loves this girl you should leave him or hes going to cause you more trouble and heartache. Who knows? If you leave him you might get back together a few months later. If hes done it once, hell do it again. Trust ... (read in full...)
I'm getting married soon but I can't stand looking at a naked man
Q. i get freaked out when i think about sex.... it might sound awful, i cannot stand a naked man, it freaks me out.... am not a lesbian,,,,,,,,help i will be getting married soon and its a big problem for me..... i don't want to mess up...
A. 23 February 2011: Have you considered asexuality? When you are not attracted to either sex. To be fair, the male genetalia is not the most attractive thing in the world lol but if you cant stand to look at it you need to work out what you want. Try looking at a naked ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's past relationships with much older men?
Q. i cant stop thinking about my girlfriend's past. She used to date way older men before me. I get sick when she try to act interesting I don't know if she's with me because of money.. I mean what type of connection can you have with someone 20 ...
A. 20 February 2011: Depends on the person. My fiance is 21 years older than me and we get on brilliant. Open your tiny little mind. ... (read in full...)
Would you prefer a real rose or a fake one?
Q. Valentines help! I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks and have planned to take her out for a meal on valentines. I just wondered though, I'm planning on giving her a single red rose, but wanted to know on whether that rose should be real or ...
A. 4 February 2010: 11 real and 1 fake because it will last as long as your love (forever) ... (read in full...)
I don't really feel anything when I masturbate, am I doing it wrong?
Q. Hi. Ive masturbated myself before but it doesnt feel good. Is that normal or am I doing it wrong or anything. Im quite concerned as my mates say it feels good, when i dont really feel anything....
A. 2 January 2010: i cant feel much if i finger myself or if a guy does it, try experimenting with different things or buy a sex toy offline... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mum interferes with our relationship
Q. I need help you guys, im 17 years old and my boyf is 21. He lives at home with his widowed mum due to money issues (ie. she has none because she retired very early and now needs his). Over xmas he came to us on boxing day while she went to a mates ...
A. 31 December 2009: no-one else in the world? ha! her best friend died in october
and shes dating her husband but too ashamed to come out yet... (read in full...)
I am thinking of giving my b/f a self portrait for Christmas
Q. hi guys this is a questin about my bf's xmas present. im a very shy person but i want to give my boyfriend a personal gift and i was going to draw a picture of myself in underwear in a type of silouhette style. the problem is i am scared he won't ...
A. 18 December 2009: If youre a good drawer that is amazing, if not get a pro, but i think he will really like that but then again i should imagine hed be grateful for anything you give him (:... (read in full...)
She was sexually liberal and tried a lot of things. It's intimidating!
Q. Ok I met a gorgeous girl a while ago who I like loads and have never felt so connected with someone. Anyway we were making love and I made her have mulitple orgasms and asked her later on whether she had them before. She replied with yes and the ...
A. 15 December 2009: Yeah, maybe she WAS with this guy, maybe she DID have 10 orgasms but theyre not together now. If sex was everything she would probably still be with him, but seen as though shes not im thinking she looks for a lot more in a relationship and if she ... (read in full...)
Myspace is killing my relationship...
Q. my question has to do with myspace. my boyfriend can be a very sweet bf at times and then sometimes i feel as if i dont mean anything to him. myspace is my biggest issue. he wont put me on his top friends and his number one is a porn star. every ...
A. 14 December 2009: heres a thought....QUIT MYSPACE
then you wont know what he is or isnt doing on there... (read in full...)
14 and falling for my teacher!
Q. Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care...
A. 6 November 2009: Just so you dont feel alone, im in the exact same situation with my geog teacher and have been for 4 years, she acts proper...lovingly towards me and its torture... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?
Q. Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...
A. 1 November 2009: Youre not a virgin, you lose your virginity when a guy puts his penis inside you ... (read in full...)
Could there be legal consenquences for kids watching horror and inappropriate comedy movies?
Q. here is a weird question for the canadian agony uncles and aunts. my buddy shes got a 3 and half yr old son. she also has a 5 yr old daughter. they all love to sit down and watch, i know, this is a shocker! -house of 1000 corpses. amongst other ...
A. 11 October 2009: I dont know about any legal advice but my godmothers daughter has been doing this since the age of 4. We took her to disneyworld florida and all she wanted to do was ride the BIG rides. Shes no mental scarring or anything. I think its ok, as long as ... (read in full...)
Should I spend the money on the "morning after" pill?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago using a condom, but it broke. I started my period on the 21st and we had sex on the 24th while I was still menstruating. I'm worried about pregnancy. I feel like the chances are very low I would be pregnant ...
A. 26 August 2009: The morning after pill only works up to 72 hours after the sex so i wouldnt bother tbh, or if youre really bothered then why not split the cost?
Good luck!... (read in full...)
He wants to move to be with me, but should I tell him not to because I know I wouldn't do the same for him? We're both very close to our families!
Q. My bf lives in another city to me. We are about a 14 hour drive apart from each other, or a 3 hour flight- yet that can be expensive. I really think he is 'the one'. When I am with him, it just seems so right. I have never had this feeling bef...
A. 23 August 2009: Meet each other halfway..literally. Why not save up and buy a place together, in between both your towns? Its definetly fair i think, and equal.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for the semen to come back down and out?
Q. I have the implant, me and my boyfriend have both been for check-ups and we are both disease free! We have started having sex without a condom, I'm wondering if it's normal for the semen to come back down/out of me? It's abit messy sometimes and ge...
A. 14 August 2009: Im on the pill and me and my boyf arent using condoms either and i get this, it kinda hurts and makes wierd noises sometimes, dont worry, youre not alone.... (read in full...)
I don't think he's being fair to his heavily pregnant girlfriend... what do you think?
Q. Hey, I've got a boyfriend who I've been with for 5 months but about 3 months ago i got friends with a guy on the net, we hit off right away, swapped numbers and i got a crush on him. Me and my boyfriend are really open so i told him and he was ...
A. 12 August 2009: So satindesire are you saying you have no guy friends? We are only friends and my boyfriend is fine with that, i fail to see how you deem it innapropriate.... (read in full...)
Does online dating work?
Q. Does anyone here ever tried online dating? Does it ever work like you can expect something serious to come out of this? I am asking because I am about to try this out and would want to know if its worth the time and effort generally. If no...
A. 7 August 2009: I met my boyfriend on a free dating site and weve been together 5 month and i have never felt happier :).... (read in full...)
I use the term 'make love' and he uses 'f*ck'! What are your views on this?
Q. In need of some answers/advice my boyfriend and i have been together for more than two years . His made a few kinky suggestions b4 and we tried anal but never got any where as it really hurt and he promised not again will we try. Well just yester...
A. 28 July 2009: Its probably just a fantasy of f**king a "dirty whore", my boyf has one yet treats me like a princess, i totally agree with Honeypie, girls and boys call things different things. Also depends what kind of mood youre in. For example if youre in a ... (read in full...)
I feel like if I have a threesome, the other person will fall in love with my man. Have you been in this situation before?
Q. I am a bisexual woman who is dating my soulmate. He is a great guy and has all of the qualities that I have dreamed about since I was a child. I love him so much. But I am bisexual and I do have my moments where I crave other women. But I have ...
A. 28 July 2009: Yep, im in the exact same situation, im a very jealous person and i worry myself daft thinking if he gets with another woman, i wouldnt do it, listening to your problem has made me not want to do it too, shows im not alone. A few hours of fun aint ... (read in full...)
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