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writes:my question has to do with myspace. my boyfriend can be a very sweet bf at times and then sometimes i feel as if i dont mean anything to him. myspace is my biggest issue. he wont put me on his top friends and his number one is a porn star. every picture we take he crops me out of them before he puts it on his. and he has nothng on his page about me or showing people were together. and he has my myspace password cause he thinks he cant trust me but he will not give me his and i dont think its right. were with eachother 90% of the time and i know he loves me but i dont understand this. can anyone help me out with what to do?
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reader, emilymarie26 +, writes (15 December 2009):
Although it's just a website, I'm going to take a wild guess and say that this behavior goes beyond Myspace, and is evident in the way he treats you in person too. I'm sorry, but there is no way true love can exist without trust, and you yourself said he doesn't trust you. Change your password, and then get rid of him. You deserve way better! But definitely make sure to change your password before doing anything about it, just so he can't use it against you. Good luck!
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reader, weparley +, writes (14 December 2009):
Are you serious?... I can't beleive your even telling us this, You're crying because your bf won't make you number 1 on myspace... "Grow up"
If you don't like it then delete your profile and don't go on it.
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reader, lolita14 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Girl, break up with him! He's manipulating you with the password thing, and not talking about you or not putting pics of you together makes him look like he wants to show off and doesn't care if that hurts you. You're better without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Get yourself a new password for starters. He doesnt trust you because he knows what he himself is doing on myspace. I hate to tell you this, but your guy sounds like he's fishing for other women. He doesn't have you listed up or ANY proof of the two of you being together because he wants to come off to other women as available. Im pretty sure he will tell you "but if anyone asks specifically I tell them about you!" Don't be gullible and buy into that. He'll probably only tell if they ask specifically "Are you in a relationship" or "do you have a girlfriend" in which case he'll be likely to say "perhaps" or "what if I did". I've met these men online. And I've acted this way myself. The only reason you are kept out of the picture (literally too) is so he can goof around online and pretend to be single.
A man who really loves you and respects you will be PROUD to call you his, not embarrassed and hide it away. Im 100% sure he's flirting with other girls online. Im not gonna say he cheats, but he might feel happy being a free man online, where you can't check on him. But he's not a free man, and if he cant handle commitment then kick him to the curb.
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reader, MistressNataliee  +, writes (14 December 2009):
heres a thought....QUIT MYSPACE
then you wont know what he is or isnt doing on there
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