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writes:hi guys this is a questin about my bf's xmas present.im a very shy person but i want to give my boyfriend a personal gift and i was going to draw a picture of myself in underwear in a type of silouhette style. the problem is i am scared he won't like it.he's a very traditional man and admits he's a bit of a prude so i don't know whether this gift would be suitable?any advice on whether this is appropriate?x
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reader, MistressNataliee  +, writes (18 December 2009):
If youre a good drawer that is amazing, if not get a pro, but i think he will really like that but then again i should imagine hed be grateful for anything you give him (:
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 December 2009):
 The first Christmas me and my artist fella shared, he made me a gorgeous painting... I was in it, as was a poem and a clock installed. It is my most treasured gift of all time. Many, many, many paintings later, it's still my prized possession. He wasn't nude in it, but we had been in a relationship for 2.5 months and that probably would have freaked me out a bit.
I've had art nudes done of me (as Ask oldersister suggests), and they are pictures I absolutely LOVE and will continue to love. If you do that, I recommend that you get a photographer who has a portfolio that you can check out, someone that you trust that won't mind if you bring a pal along. Make sure they're LEGIT!
But, I think your picture is a great idea and that he'll love it. Very creative!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both for your opinions.
i meant it in sort of a black and white contrast style
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 http://www.driftwood-dreams.co.uk/Romantic-Gifts/child's-silhouette.jpg
Is this the style you mean?
If so, how can you see the difference between underwear and nude?
But on the other hand, such a style would be safe in case the relationship does not work out or someone else sees it.
Is the relationship at the stage where he can see you in your underwear?
Not sure about the present myself, but then I am not into art at all. If he is, then it might be very nice. Just keep it clean.
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