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I live in Blackwood South Wales!
I hate arrogant people, and homophobicz and racist people, i really cant stand them... if it was up to me... none of them would be here!!!!
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My mum wants me to stop seeing my gf as shes older, Im just worried that she may hurt herself if I do ?
Q. what should i do when my mom dosent want me to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of our age gap..... n how can i tell my gf that we need to break up knowing that she would hurt herself? the reason why i went into a relationship w...
A. 28 March 2007: It's up to you to be with this woman or not! Nobody else's! You shouldn't do what others want you to do! But if you are feeling the same, you should let this girl know straight away. Making her wait to hear what you gotta say is unfair! You are not ... (read in full...)
We just have sex, but now I want more. How do I tell him?
Q. hi well iv known this guy for 10years now we have always had sex when we see each over but think im falling for him now and wanting more. how do i tell him when he can disserpear for months then just turn up?...
A. 4 December 2006: I'm in the same situation as u... but hes in a relationship, but wants out, so hes leaving her for me after xmas! I fell in love with him but didnt know how to say it, luckily he said it first!
You should tell him how you feel, coz if u dont u wont... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my wife and be unhappy or get a divorce before something else happens?
Q. Is it time for a divorce? I recently cheated on my wife of 4 years and I think it may be time for a divorce. I’m 24 and she is 25. We have three kids, two of which are mine. The third is the result of my wife sleeping with some guy during a 2 m...
A. 4 December 2006: I think if you are not happy you should do what is best to make you happy! You will still be able to see the kids, and they get to see you! Maybe you should try seperation before going straight in at the deep end just incase you change your mind!... (read in full...)
Should I make the move on my step-cousin?
Q. Sorry to repost this question but i need a more balanced opinion, all i got was male advice. I need women advice as well to gain a more balanced opinion. Plus can i have advice on what i should do to this situation: I have recently been on...
A. 20 August 2006: If you like her, then maybe you should ask her if she feels the same way... coz if u dont know how she feels and u make a move, u might get rejected and lose her as a friend... there is nothing wrong with fancying your step cousin, my ex-bf was my ... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong in trying to get a girl?
Q. I don't think I'll ever get another girlfriend again. And if I do it probably won't last a month. My last and only girlfriend (we broke up over 6 months ago so I've gotten over her) was really attractive for a 16 year old (I'm 18) yet I always felt ...
A. 17 June 2006: Thats kind of like me, i get on my friends nerves and they get really agrivated by my silly sense of humour! U should just be yourself and if a girl doesnt like you for who you are then why have feelings for them!? If u act like yourself and not ... (read in full...)
She thinks I have problems with commitment so she broke it off, but I want to be with her!
Q. I've been dating a woman 15 years older than me. I'M 20 AND SHE IS 35. we've been seeing each other for bout 8 months. She has told me that im young and am still unsure of what i want, but i know exactly what i want. i might only be 20 but ive done ...
A. 17 June 2006: Hey!
If you love her and she has problems with commitment, why not work out the problem together! Tell her your feelings... u dnt need to buy her gifts to show your love, but tell her all the time!
Tell her that you have never felt that way abou... (read in full...)
I want to be kissed soon......
Q. im 12 but very mature for my age.entering middle school and desprately wanting a boyfriend to be kissed by.any advice?help!...
A. 17 June 2006: Hi... take your time, u dont want to waste your first kiss on someone that doesnt deserve your kiss! Wait until u find a guy that u get along with, so the kiss wont be wasted! It will happen soon enough trust me!!
x... (read in full...)
I know my GF is cheating on me! What do I say to her?
Q. What do I do to tell me girlfriend I know she cheating on me and not hurt her.....
A. 17 June 2006: Not hurting her? Thats the thing that should be on your mind! Confront her about what she has been doing behind your back!!
You have to let her know that you know so that you can sort everything out between you!
Make sure tht she is having a... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be an 18-year-old man, and never have had a proper snog?
Q. Is it possible for an 18 year old boy (me) never to have been properly kissed (a proper snog). I've kissed girls on the lips before but only for an instant. So am I just a sad little man then?...
A. 17 June 2006: It is normal to never have had a proper snog! u r just a late bloomer! U will get one soon enough! And it will be the best thing ever!!
Good Luck!! x... (read in full...)
Do I say something about how I feel to the girl who jokes that we're lesbian lovers?
Q. Just please help me. Yes I have typed this many many times but the answers I have got aren't helping! This girl I like, we are both girls, she recently made a couple of jokes about me being a lesbian and she is my girlfriend. I used to really ...
A. 17 June 2006: Thats exactly what its like with my friend! One minute she is my best mate and we get along next minute (when shes drunk) but not that drunk! She says to me "your really pretty" "you are my best mate "i love you to bits" and wont stop touching me! ... (read in full...)
We're both still in school and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex one time and now I'm pregnant, but I don't know how to tell him because we are both in school. Please help!...
A. 17 June 2006: Well first things first, you have to tell him... but make sure you are alone, and have no interruptions! Both parents need to know to so you will have all the love and support u need! U may not think it at this time, but there will be people out ... (read in full...)
He texted another girl and I kissed someone else for revenge...
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together 1 year and 8 months. Everything was great til I found out he had met up with and texted another girl. He lied about it then eventually confessed they were just mates. He was texting her though ...
A. 6 June 2006: You shouldnt have kissed that guy, you would have sorted things out but you have just made things worse! Tell him how you feel about the whole situation and that you are sorry for what you did and why you did it!
Tell him that you dont want to lose... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me out, but I'm pretty sure it's just a tease...
Q. A boy in my science class keeps on asking me out. I know it's a joke but his ex said he really likes me and so do his friends, but his friends don't like me. Does he really like me or is it a joke ?...
A. 6 June 2006: If his ex is one of your friends then why would she lie to satisfy her ex? you should confront him and ask him if he is serious... if he is annoying you because you dont know if he is lying or serious, tell him to stop asking you!!
But the best... (read in full...)
I REALLY WANT A BOYFRIEND!!!!!
Q. I'm fifteen years old an my love life is..... well I don't really have one, I have a lot of male friends but i guess they dont get more then a just friends vibe. I REALLY WANT A BOYFRIEND!!!!! PLZ HELP (give me tips, give me some kind of advise)...
A. 6 June 2006: Take your time! You dont want to pick the wrong person, and you are only 15, u got plenty of time to find love!!
Honestly, good things happen to the people that wait... and trust me it will happen soon enough!! :)... (read in full...)
My parents dispise my boyfriend, but I know he's the one...what can I do??
Q. how do you make your parents understand that your ex boyfriend is actually the one and you guys want to be together, when they hate him? we are serious about eachother and are to afraid to even talk to them about it. his parents know we are meant to ...
A. 6 June 2006: perhaps you should try and sit them down and explain to them how you are feeling towards your boyfriend! You shouldnt be afraid to express how you feel! Perhaps both your parents should have a conversation and see if anything good comes out of it!! ... (read in full...)
My mom don't like my boyfriend, but she hasn't even really met him....what can I do?
Q. I'm in love, I am really in love- I get on with his parents, and vice versa. My mum has seen my boyfriend once- and she took an irrational instant dislike to him. We've been going out for two weeks, and mum doesn't know. Now I'm too scared to te...
A. 6 June 2006: If your mum have had experiences with men before perhaps she doesnt want the same thing to happen to you... she is just looking out for you because she doesnt want the same thing to happen to you! Just tell her how you feel about him, and she may ... (read in full...)
My sex drive is high but the novelty has wore off for him!
Q. Hi I'm 21 years old and in a year long relationship. The problem is when I first got together with my boyfriend we had sex all the time now I'm lucky if it's once a week. I've tried talking to him about it but nothing has changed and I now can't ...
A. 2 April 2006: If he has gone off you for no reason after all this time of being together A. You have wore him out B. He is having it off with some1 else!
Tell him you know hes seeing someone else and see what his reaction is, because men never go off sex for ... (read in full...)
How do you know if it is true love?
Q. Well the thing is that my boyfriend and me were kissing on the couch. Then he stop and just started to looking at me and started smiling, then he finial came out with what he wanted to say. He said I love you, but he first ask if it was ok for him ...
A. 28 November 2005: You know if you love someone. The true love you have you can feel inside. when you see the one you love, your heart starts to thump really loud and you have butterflies around him and your knees feel weak when you are together! If you dont feel this ... (read in full...)
Am I just being possessive, or do other girls do what mine does?
Q. I just want to know, is it common for girls to be out with their boyfriends and look at other guys and think they are hot, then when confronted about it deny that they were looking? Am I being possessive or does everyone do it?...
A. 22 August 2005: I think everyone does it. I know I do it all the time. It is absolutely normal for a girl to check out other blokes. But if it is bothering you do the same thing and see how she feels,then just tell her its the exact same thing she is doing, then ... (read in full...)
She's really popular and I think I'm ugly...
Q. I have known this gorgous girl for many years and I think the next step is the great idea, but she is really popular at school and I think of myself as ugly. I don't think this is just a crush, I really really like her and I feel she might want the...
A. 22 August 2005: You should'nt doubt yourself.The worst possible thing she can say is no and turn you down. But how do you know for sure she will do that.You got the rest of your life to find the perfect oneif she turns you down don't sympathise on yourself. Just ... (read in full...)
I dated someone else during the split. Now the other man is pushing to marry me!
Q. hello, I am a lady aged 29. I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years now. We once broke up for 4 months (it really affected both me and my boyfriend) and I left my country to visit my sister abroad. During my visit I was so despera...
A. 24 July 2005: Tell this man you are flattered but you are not interested because there is another man involved!! Tell him you do have feelings for him but they are not strong enough for marriage, he will come to terms with it and find other women...Or tell him ... (read in full...)
How can I show that I recognise my mistakes and want my girlfriend back?
Q. Hi, I'm bisexual and my girlfriend and I took a break. Our break happened because I was being bossy with her boyfriend, only because I don't want her to get hurt from a man again. How can I show her that I care and I need her?...
A. 24 July 2005: You should accept that she has a boyfriend. Be happy for her, move on do whatever takes your mind off your ex-girlfriend. Be there for her when she needs you. Be loving and supportive.. She may come running back if you show you can live without ... (read in full...)
Flirted with him for 11 years, but now he's moving i, just down the road from me and my husband!
Q. Hi I'm married with 4 kids and love my family to bits, but I'm in love with a married man. I have had feelings for him now for 11 years. As I have gotten older and he has gotten more used to me say, in the last 7 years, he has been flirting...
A. 24 July 2005: You need to understand the people that will be affected by your decision. only you can make the right move but have to realise you may hurt your husband and your children. You have only ever been with your husband, feelings for another man is very ... (read in full...)
I thought "big" was supposed to be good, but sex hurts my girlfriend!
Q. My girlfriend and I were both virgins, until about two months ago. I knew it would hurt her the first few times, but she still cannot get that much pleasure because it hurts her so bad. I thought big was suppossed to be good. What should we do? We ...
A. 23 July 2005: She might be tight a lot of girls are like this during sex. the other reason is she could be nervous tell her to relax it will probably be a whole lot better!!... (read in full...)
Once or twice is one thing... but my boyfriend has called me his ex's name three times!
Q. My boyfriend has mistakenly called me by his ex-fiance's name three times and I wonder if I should be concerned that he is not over her. He says that he has no feelings for her and that his calling me by her name was just a mistake because he was ...
A. 23 July 2005: Yes you should be concerned. If he is still calling you it after they have broke it is obvious he is not over her. Tell him it is not hard getting a name right. I doubt he uses your name when they are together. Tell him if he doesnt start calling u ... (read in full...)
One of my friends wants me to stop my friendship with someone else!
Q. My best friend doesn't like my other friend. She tells me to stop my relationship with her but she doesn't tell me why I must to stop the relationship. What should I do?...
A. 14 July 2005: You should ask your friend why it is important to break up your friendship with this other person! You should tell her/him that they should both get along otherwise they will both lose you. If she/he carries on with this behaviour you should tell ... (read in full...)
We might have something that could develop... but will my age be a problem for him?
Q. I'm 15, and I skipped a grade, so I'm a year younger than everyone I hang out with. There's a guy I went to Junior High with a guy that I really liked. We always chatted, flirted, etc. Even a couple times held hands, but it never really developed ...
A. 14 July 2005: you should try and ask him if he feels the same way or not because you are feeling upset. I don't see why your age is a problem; it's only a year difference!! You should ask him if he likes you,if not move onto to someone else. If he holds your hand ... (read in full...)
I see beautiful young women everywhere, but all I'm attracted to are the older ones...
Q. This may be a stupid question but all my friends are giving me crap for dating women way outside my age. I'm 23 and most women I date are between 35 to 42. My current love interest is 40 and I don't understand why I'm not attracted to women my own ...
A. 4 July 2005: Hi Patrick, I'm attracted to older guys too and I'm 15. My friends don't like it but they should get used to the way you feel. I've told my friends I'm not interested in guys my own age because they are immature. Older ones are mature and nicer. You ... (read in full...)
I think that we're friends, but I'd like to be more. Should I ask her out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I recently changed to a new school and have been getting along well, in particular with this girl I sit next to in my business class. We get on really well together and we are becoming really good friends. However I think we could be...
A. 28 June 2005: If you like her i think you should go ahead and ask her out you may never know she might like you too!!If she is a really good friend she wont want to break your friendship if she turns you down because there is no point in a silly little thing like ... (read in full...)
I'm not gay, but I'm getting interested in my bisexual friend...
Q. Hi, I have a problem, I'm a 17 yr old male and I've got a male friend who is 18. He is bisexual but he is going out with a girl who I know and she is bisexual as well. I spoke to him about it and he says he likes girls 70% and boys 30%. Someti...
A. 28 June 2005: Tell him how you feel otherwise you are going to feel agitated by the way he feels your leg!! He said he likes guys 30% thats still something it is still a percentage perhaps he likes you.Tell him how you feel he may feel the same!!... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about my problems and my depression...
Q. I am 16 and suffer from depression. I have attempted suicide twice. I cannot talk to my parents or friends about my problems. I can only speak to my girlfriend who is also my best friend. We have been together 7 months and I love her but she has ...
A. 28 June 2005: I am 15 and i tried suicide once but I realised there was more to life than meets the eye! I cut my wrists 3 times. I only did it because my boyfriend cheated on me. But after that things started to blossom. I finished my boyfriend and I know I w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I live 1000 miles apart... but we want to keep dating!
Q. I'm am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and I had to move like 1000 miles from him. I love him and he loves me and we want to keep dating, but how could we if we can't see each other? You know what I am saying? People call me crazy beacause I still want to ...
A. 15 June 2005: If you still want to date make sure you keep in touch and talk every day. Maybe in the school hols you can take in turns visiting each other!... (read in full...)
I took my boyfriend home to meet the family, and he snogged my sister!
Q. I really need someone's advice....I brought home my boyfriend of about 3 months to my family and they all seemed to like him. My older sister has had a steady boyfriend of about 2 years and he was there too. Me and my partner get on really well and...
A. 15 June 2005: Yes!! Confront her and then chuck him!! Then if she doent say anything like an apology you can threaten to tell her "steady boyfriend" If he loves you he shouldn't have done that even if he was drunk. Tell him its over you can do much better t... (read in full...)
There's a big age gap, but can it work between us?
Q. Will a 35 year old female marrying a 60 year old male make a successful marriage?...
A. 15 June 2005: The only way you can make a marriage successful is to be in love. If you are in love it will be successful. If anyone thinks it won't work, they are all wrong. Because all you need for a really strong marriage is to have trust one another and be ... (read in full...)
Why are we arguing so much lately?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and its been great but just these last week or so we have been fighting about absolutely anything and everything! I love her and dont want our relationship to end just because of silly little things. ...
A. 15 June 2005: Ask her straight. "Why are we arguing all the time?" If she causes another fight tell her to calm down, and tell you because you are not happy about it! There must be something going on in her life if she just causes fights for no reason. Talk to ... (read in full...)
Everybody else thinks the age difference is a big deal, but we really like each other!
Q. I have a small dilemma... I am a semi popular 15-year old guy in a small school where everybody is preppy. I have a crush on one of my best friend's sister, who is 13 years old. Everyone makes a big deal about the age difference, but we both ...
A. 15 June 2005: If you both feel that you can make it work you should try it. You shouldnt care what anybody else says if you really like each other! She may not like things that people your age do, as she is younger. As a girl of 15, I would know what she would ... (read in full...)
My folks found out that my boyfriend is 19, now they won't let me see him...
Q. I'm 14. I have a 19 year old boyfriend but I look like I'm 17 or 18. He knows I'm 14. I've known him for a year. My parents found out, now we can never see each other. Do you think I should let him go or try to make it work? ...
A. 15 June 2005: If you really like each other you should make it work but you need to listen to your parents too!! they are trying to protect you because you are only a teenager and he is an adult! If he doesnt care about your age and he wants to make it work you ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he "doesn't deserve" me? Is he going to drop me?
Q. I have been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that I love him, as more than a friend. Recently we have crossed the line and have slept together twice. He says that he doesn't deserve me, but I think he is trying to blow me off. ...
A. 14 June 2005: I think you should ask him straight out if he wants to be with you or he doesnt. I hate it when guys do that, just messes you about don't it? Come straight out with it otherwise you will be confused for the rest of your life!... (read in full...)
I can deal with the break-up, but I have to see her at college for the next 2 years!
Q. I split up with my girlfriend two months ago, it hit me really hard. As a result of what happened I'm now taking anti-depressents and am seeing a counsellor. Although my counsellor has certainly helped me I just can't get my ex out of my head. I was ...
A. 14 June 2005: I think that you should start seeing other women and forget about her. Its Over!! You need to remember that. Don't get jealous whenyou see her with other guys otherwise you are gonna feel more low about yourself and may even do sumthing stupid! Wake ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex wonderful for my virgin girlfriend?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and recently she's started hinting that she might want to have sex. Which is great! But the one thing I'm worried about is that she's a virgin... I have had sex before and...
A. 14 June 2005: All you need to do is to take it slow when you are having sex for the first time. If she wants sex let her have it but be gentle she is still fragile!... (read in full...)
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