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writes: I am 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together 1 year and 8 months. Everything was great til I found out he had met up with and texted another girl. He lied about it then eventually confessed they were just mates. He was texting her though asking to meet up for weeks. Then I forgave him but then I kissed another lad as revenge. He knows and we managed to sort things out. I love him to bits but lately he doesn't want to see me as much and doesn't ring me as much. What do I do? I can't imagine been without him but I feel like he has had enough.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (7 June 2006):
 Hi there,
I hate to say it, but it seems like both of you are in different places now. He would not have been texting this girl & asking to meet up if he was 100% happy in his relationship with you (I am not at all taking a stab at you as a person or anything like that babe) and you would not have felt the need to get revenge on him if you cared about him and loved him 100%. You don't do EITHER of those things to the person you love.
Sounds to me like he has realised that things aren't as good as they used to be after this situation and is gently easing away from you. Of course, I could be completely wrong but the only way to find out is to talk to him and ask him to be straight up with you.
Ask yourself babe - do you really want to make this work with a guy who obviously lost a little bit of interest in you so was contacting another girl and that you feel the need to hurt him in return by getting revenge?
Think about it, and talk to him about why he is distancing himself. xxx
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (6 June 2006):
 You shouldnt have kissed that guy, you would have sorted things out but you have just made things worse! Tell him how you feel about the whole situation and that you are sorry for what you did and why you did it!
Tell him that you dont want to lose him and it was a big mistake!! Hope this helps!! :) Good Luck!
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