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writes:I don't think I'll ever get another girlfriend again. And if I do it probably won't last a month. My last and only girlfriend (we broke up over 6 months ago so I've gotten over her) was really attractive for a 16 year old (I'm 18) yet I always felt even when we were going out it was too good to be true and an average, shy guy like me can't ever be with a girl like her. We broke up afterwards because she missed her ex. Even at college all the most attractive and nice women are all with guys who are either incredibly popular and/or can be big bullies to people like me. Am I just doing something wrong when with a girl, i.e. I'm known to be annoying (if you met me you might find me annoying).
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (17 June 2006):
 Thats kind of like me, i get on my friends nerves and they get really agrivated by my silly sense of humour! U should just be yourself and if a girl doesnt like you for who you are then why have feelings for them!? If u act like yourself and not like anyone else, you have a better chance of getting and keeping a girl!
Be yourself, nobody else will!!
Keep my posted!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (16 June 2006):
 lol very funny. good spelling for my age though don't you think?? lol
be good xx
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reader, shaunieb +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Be who you are. I've had that problem myself. I'm quiet, and though I get leered at, no one approaches me in a relationship sense. someone will come along that is just right for you. Funnily enough, the best advice I can give you is that a watched pot never boils...stop looking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that although if thats the latest picture of yourself then I'll have taken advice from a toddler!!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (16 June 2006):
dear reader. you are what you are, be proud of yourself and if you don't like why not make some changes. no-one is perfect but i bet you there is your perfect girlfriend out there somewhere you just need to know where to look you have to push yourself to get out the 4 walls you in a find someone new.
i have low self asteem btu i've been in a lovin relationship for 6 years now it does happen and it will for you, you just have to belive in it and hold your head high and be proud of yourself. if you find a girl you like make an effort to talk to her and make friends so they get to know the real you.
find peace and happiness
i wish you all the best keep me posted xxx
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