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writes: I'm am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and I had to move like 1000 miles from him. I love him and he loves me and we want to keep dating, but how could we if we can't see each other? You know what I am saying? People call me crazy beacause I still want to be with him but I love him. Please I need someone's advice! Signed~~Lost love without him Reply to this Question
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reader, pops +, writes (17 June 2005):
At 14, you will have many more crushes in your life. Don't worry about what other people think. I met a girl when I was 14- she was 15- and we have maintained a friendship ever since. She is now a grandmother with 4 grandchildren, and has been married to the same man since she was 19. We talk only about once every 5 years, but now correspond by email a couple of times a year. We didn't communicate for about 5 years, until I ran into her younger sister, who gave me her address in California. When we did talk, it was as if we had talked to each other just the day before. It is still like that. We were never lovers. I doubt that we ever will be. However, it has been very rewarding to maintain that relationship for more than 40 years. And, both my wives understood about us, and that she was not a threat to them. Stay in touch, but don't expect anything to come of the relationship for years to come. You both have a lot of growing up to do. If you both feel the same way about each other when you finish your college educations, and are working, then its time to relocate so that you can ben together, and date. Hopefully, something wonderful will come out of it. Pops
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (15 June 2005):
 If you still want to date make sure you keep in touch and talk every day. Maybe in the school hols you can take in turns visiting each other!
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (14 June 2005):
 Ok, for one. Not seeing your boyfriend causes the other to gain less trust in the other, and causes one to be depressed because you just want to hold them but you cant. you two live so far apart. You may love him, but sooner or later, one of you are going to want to have a real relationship. Where you can actually see them. Long distance relationships never work out the way that you plan. I suggest that break it off with him. But if you trust him enough to not cheat and you do the same by not cheating, then your relationship could be a good thing. But right now its seems as if you are starting to get depressed. Depression leads to serios consiquinses.You may end up slitting your wrists or doing drugs so that you can forget about this whole situation. I wouldnt suggest that you do either, but i do suggest that break it off between the two of you. good luck ~Robin~ aka advice gurl
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