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writes: I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and its been great but just these last week or so we have been fighting about absolutely anything and everything! I love her and dont want our relationship to end just because of silly little things. What do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (15 June 2005):
 Ask her straight. "Why are we arguing all the time?" If she causes another fight tell her to calm down, and tell you because you are not happy about it! There must be something going on in her life if she just causes fights for no reason. Talk to her when you are on your own so that its quiet, maybe over a nice meal or something.Good Luck ;)
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (15 June 2005):
 Maybe sit down together and be open and honest and discuss this with her. Let her know that you are having trouble dealing with the rows and you wondered if there was a bigger problem behind it and would like to help iron out the creases. Tell her that you love her and dont want to hurt her and the last thing you want is for you two to row all the time. Take the time to listen to her and found out why these little niggly rows start and see if you can together agree to put your differences aside. She may not see how this is affecting you and is probably feeling the same way. Just talk to each other see how the other feels, hopefully after a nice open chat you can slowly move on and the issues may not seem as horrid as they were, and you build again on this and you will both know that you want it to work. Take care
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