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reader, Mickey_Powell +, writes (17 June 2006):
 Not hurting her? Thats the thing that should be on your mind! Confront her about what she has been doing behind your back!!
You have to let her know that you know so that you can sort everything out between you!
Make sure tht she is having an cheating! It would be so bad if she werent and she would feel bad that u have lost trust in her... but if u are confident that she is cheating! Get out with it and let her know how u feel about it!!
Good Luck!! x
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reader, chirpychicken  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 dont you dare even suggest not wanting to hurt her. she has made a fool of you and if you and her decide to split up then dont feel guilty or to blame its her fault! and if you decided to stay together then you are a true saint and she has to do whatever it takes to regain your trust and make it all up to you. You need to sit her down tell her that you know and tell her what you know and take it from there. but please...dont you ever think that you are hurting her. SHE is the one to blame and SHE has hurt YOU. who does she think she is to have the right to do that to you?
I hope this is of help
here if you need to talk
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Er, why are you worried about hurting her ? Are you not hurting anyway ? Tell her you know, just come straight out with it, hope you do have back up, or I wouldnt say anything just in case she isnt.. But if you know for sure and can prove it just tell her you know. But if its just a hunch tread carefully or you would upset her if it wasnt true!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): Yea, why are you worring about her feelings, when she did the bad deed? First, is there any surefire evidence that she has cheated? If there is than bring it up casually, say you saw an email open on her computer, or a note underneath your side of the bed when your cleaning the bedroom. Things like that, confront it as though it "found you" and you did not seek it out. That will make more of the blame on her rather than you being sneaky.But confront it in an emotionally safe manner, as to not start a terrible argument( it may be inevitable) But keep calm during the whole thing, and ask her to be loyal, or else you shoudl find someone else who really cares about you. If it boils down to shes not satisfied physically, then you need to discuss this with a therapist. Hope that helps!
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hi there.
Are you hurt? Why are you thinking of her feelings first when she is the one cheating?
Tell her outright that you know and demand some answers! xxx
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