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writes:I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a blow job?
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Firstly I have to ask...how do you know she is ready to move on? Have you both talked about it? Are you using sexual contraceptives? It sounds as if you are still in high school and the first thing I will ask you is are you ready to have a baby? Can you support the child and the mother? Are you ready for that kind of responsibility before you graduate or get an adequate job to support any accidental pregnancies? I think that it is a good idea for you to act responsibly and seek advise (its free and confidential) from your local clinic. I know it feel awkward but imagine how it would feel having to tell her and your parents that you got her pregnant!
You will get educated on sex and they will offer you condoms and birth control pills to help prevent any unwanted pregnancies and stds. If you need help locating a facility then tell me the city and state you live in and I will find the number and address for you. This is the best thing to do it you are truly ready to move on. Now for your question on technique. I am not sure if you are a porn watcher but I will be the first to say..don't do it like that...we don't like to be devoured. You can start by teasing her a little giving her little kisses on her inner thigh little nibbles close to her vaginal area and lick her thigh a little. After a few minutes of that she will be getting quite swollen in her lower "lips" you can then lick between her lips all around then take your two fingers and spread it apart. I am assuming she is a virgin so do this next part very slowly...after she is really wet from you licking her...(be sure not to slobber all over her try to keep her wetness wet from her juices not your saliva) slide your ring finger slowly into her vagina canal and lick up near her clit and slide your finger slowly in and out while licking her clit slowly at first then a little faster in rhythem with you sliding your finger in and out. put your lips on her vagina lips and suck it lightly a little...she should be trmbling by now and soon enough she will cum. As far as her wanting to blow you off...it may be a while ecspecially because she will feel inadequate after what you just did to her so some time when you are not making out or making love...talk to her about it and ask her how she would feel doing it to you but be sure not to say well I did you so you so me...if you eat her out then be sure its because you want to make her feel good and you expect nothing in return! Be very careful when penetrating her vagina area and sometimes you can take your finger out and replace it with your tongue. I hope you listen to my warning of sexual contraception. Sex is a very serious thing and if you feel you are old enough to do it wheter oral or full body you are old enough to do the responsible thing such as be prepared and knowledgable in prevention! Also if you know of your other friends who are doing this very adult act of showing affection please share this information and perhaps make it a group thing and seek advice and protection. I hope this helps and I hope you will be responsible and do the right thing althoug abstinence (no sex) is the best thing until you are married.
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