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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex girlfriend and i went out for about a year and a half before we broke up about 2 months ago. we broke up because she said she didnt want a relationship anymore. we were really close to getting back together until she read a text that i sent my friend after we broke up. she got really mad about it she was mad at me for like 2 day but she really kinda pushed me away. she got around to forgiving me for it and we have been hanging out for about the past month. we have been spending a a lot of time together and i have been sleeping at her house a couple nights a week. we still have sex every now and then then but she still doesn't want to be in a relationship. she talks to other guys and one in perticular alot but she says she told him she didnt want a relation ship with him either. she tells me she still loves me tho and i feel like im waiting around for her. i know that i need to move on and maybe then she will come back to me but im afriad that i still have a chance of getting back with her and if i walk away now i may lose her. i dont know what to do i love her so much and i spend the majority of my time worring about it.
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (23 January 2009):
She has made it clear that you are a man of convienence which means its convienent to have you around when no one else is and she knows she can get comfort from you when she is lacking it while she is waiting to find out if you are the one or if someone else comes along. Be strong and confident about yourself. Figure out your goals and dreams and start reaching for them. Women absolutly love ambitious, secure, confident men. You may find she is not the one for you or you may find her ready to be with you and only you. Good Luck! I hope this helps!
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