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Is he jealous since I don't like him or is he just mean to me?

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Question - (22 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ranhquy writes:

Hi everyone, I need your advice!

I have two guyfriends; their names are Tony and Kelvin. I really like Kelvin even he has a gf, and I think not only Kelvin knows I have a crush on him but also Tony. My question is that whether Tony got jealous when he knows I like his friend instead of him. In fact, the guy named Tony is always mean to me even I've helped him alot with homework. I hate the way he asks me for help; it sounds like I'm his servant and I have to help him ( it's my duty). Moreover, everytime I care for Kelvin, Tony always says, " Common, he has a girlfriend already." One day, I called Kelvin ( the guy I love) but he didn't pick up the call and he didn't call me back; it made me upset- I didn't talk to him on that whole day. In calss on that day, I heard Kelvin told Tony how I was upset; and Tony said," Wow, you don't need to care; if she calls me, I won't either."

I was really angry how Tony( the guy i don't like) can treat me like that- I always consider him as a close friend and help him alot.

Is Tony jealous or is he just mean to me? But I don't understand why he is mean to me since I help him alot and have never done any wrong to him

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A female reader, lovesalias United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

lovesalias agony auntit sounds as if he could be jealous. Have you talked to him about the way you feel he is treating you? It may help if you talk to him. Good Luck! I hope this helps!

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