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writes:I need help. I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 11 months. i love him so much and i really don't want to lose him but a few days ago i went to my friends birthday party and there was this boy there who i have met a few times and have really got to like. he tried it on with me and i pulled away but i really wanted to kiss him. we ended up sleeping on the sofa together anyway (nothing happened) because we had both forgotten our sleeping bags and so we shared my friends double quilt.i love my boyfriend so much, but waking up next to this other boy was amazing and i really had an urge to do something with him. i have never felt like this before. and then the next morning when i met up with my boyfriend he tried to kiss me and i pulled away from him, then we had an argument and i felt so bad about everything that i started crying and then i made up that i just didnt feel very well because of the alcohol and thats why i was crying in front of my boyfriend. do you think i should tell my boyfriend about this or should i just leave it because i feel so guilty and i dont know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey :) thanks everyone for all your help. we have broken up now unfortunately turns out he cheated on me whilst we were going out!!
nevermind! if you could all help me with my other question tho id be grateful, ive sort of got into a bit of trouble by starting to sleep with my teacher :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much to all of you for your help, everything that every single one of you said was right.i'm just going to have to think things over now and decide what to do.
once again thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): well if you love your boyfriend you should tell him
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (31 December 2009):
 To be attracted to someone else is okay, you're entitled to find other guys attractive. However, this attraction to the other guy could be an indication that you are not satisfied with your current relationship. Ask yourself if you are genuinely happy with your boyfriend? Is there something missing from this relationship?If after some thought, you realise you are not as happy as you should be. Then try and work things out with your boyfriend; don't cheat and don't hesitate to tell your boyfriend how you feel. It's better to talk things through than suffer in silence!All the best xxx
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reader, Luvr Buoy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
Most ppl may say that at ur age u should generalise in guys and not specialise... My view is different... i think that it's okay to have a b/f at ur age, and i think it's necessary to practice to be faithful to him... U will see guys every day that r really attractive, that doesn't mean that u can entertain them like u wud with ur b/f... so i think that u set urself up when u slept next 2 him... I think also that u shd tell ur b/f so that he doesn't hear it from someone else... but it's gr8 that u didn't let things at the b'day party/sleepover go any further! Good Luck! God Bless!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2009):
Maybe you don't love your boyfriend as much as you think if you're feeling this way, Look at the relationship with your boyfriend and decide whether you really love him and want to be with him or not.
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reader, Dan_Dan +, writes (31 December 2009):
Ive been through this situation so many times before.. and now i have realized that if you are with someone and you like someone else.. you cant love the person you are with properly. If you love someone that the urg shouldnt be there for another person. Maybe you should ask your self if you are really ready for a full time relation ship or maby.. this other guy could be ... better? i was with a guy for about 7 months we broke up last month coz i met the guy im with now.. and to be honest.. ive never been happier..... than again if you really do love your boyfriend you should tell him what happened, he'l respect you for it :)
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