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Question - (16 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2009)
A female Zimbabwe age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event.

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A female reader, Lunaa  +, writes (19 July 2009):

Lunaa agony auntEveryone is different, expect to see some minimal spotting or sometimes you may even need a pad or panty liner the day after. But there are some definite signs that will tell you if something is wrong

1.excessive/heavy prolonged bleeding

2.intense unbearable pain

3.any type of rash or irritation

4.developing a fever or feeling faint four to five days after

I wish you only the best

Love,

Lunaa

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A female reader, Love_is_all_youu_need United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2009):

Love_is_all_youu_need agony auntAs already been stated; everyone is different.

In my experience; i bled (alot) during intercourse, and quite a bit afterwards too. It was the reason of bleeding that we stopped our sexual act on this occasion as it was quite a shock to see so much blood. But i wouldn't worry too much about it, be more concerned about the pain because if you're unlucky enough to still have your hymen (which causes the bleeding when broken) you may experience alot of pain or at least a little discomfort. Unfortunately for me, the pain was excruciating but i'm just unlucky lol. All the best and don't have sex unless you're 100% ready and don't feel pressured into anything you're not ready for!

Good luck xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

you may or may not bleed.you may or may not feel pain.you may like my first time have an amazing orgasm,no blood or pain.but as all of us are different you will not know until you have sex,as to what will happen. x

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (16 July 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntEveryone is different. Some people don't even bleed. It depends on whether your hymen is broken (you dont have to have sex to break your hymen) but don't worry, even if your hymen is broken you're still a virgin. It takes a penis to lose your virginity!

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