I cannot get over our split up
Q. i had a boyfriend for two years and i have never loved anyone so much he made me feel so special. we recently split up a few months ago but i can't seem to get over him i have tried ignoring him but nothing works, what should i do, should i tell him ...
A. 9 April 2007: I'm sorry I just read this today April 8, 2007. Are things still the same or what has happened? You can message me if you'd like =)... (read in full...)
How many times have you fallen in love?
Q. A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...
A. 23 September 2006: I've only loved one person in my life. I'm still in my twenties but I hope that I never have to love anyone else who is not him. I can't see myself with anyone else. =)... (read in full...)
Can you be afraid of love? Any thoughts?
Q. Can you fancy someone too much? I fancy this guy so much I can't relax when he is around and he feels the same way. How can we get over these overwhelming feelings for each other. This has been going on for months now. We seem to be scared of each ...
A. 22 September 2006: I think everyone has been afraid of love atleast once in their life. Maybe because they were afraid of getting hurt or of the love ending someday. But I think that when there is passion and chemistry like it seems you two have, then you should not ... (read in full...)
Is there a way back after expressing your feelings to a girl, I managed to push away?
Q. Is there anyway back after letting your guard down far too early and wearing your heart on the sleeve? I have managed to push a girl I was attracted to away already, before things even got started by confessing my feelings. I dont want to give up on ...
A. 22 September 2006: No you haven't blown it. I think you should act non chalant like your buddies say for a while and see where that takes you. She might understand that you were nervous at first. Just be friendly. Be into her but not TOO into her. If you seem more ... (read in full...)
He has a great personality but I don't like his looks! Physical attractions means a lot....right??
Q. hi, i met this guy on myspace and we have been on a date! i love everything about his personality and we get on well! its just his appearance, i'm not attracted to him! i'v kinda turned him down because i dont find him attractive, it may seem ...
A. 22 September 2006: Well that depends. Do you like him? I mean do you seriously like him, like could you see yourself dating him? If you can't picture yourself dating him then I think you should just let him know that you'd like to stay friends. Sometimes, we begin to ... (read in full...)
I cannot get over our split up
Q. i had a boyfriend for two years and i have never loved anyone so much he made me feel so special. we recently split up a few months ago but i can't seem to get over him i have tried ignoring him but nothing works, what should i do, should i tell him ...
A. 5 August 2006: I know exactly how u feel becuz I'm going thru the same thing at the moment. But I think u should first think about how he acts towards u. Does it seem like he misses u 2 or has he moved on? If it seems like he might be in the same boat as u or ... (read in full...)
Trying to get rid of bangs, how do i?
Q. Dear Cupid, This might be kind of a stupid question (it might not exactly be totally and completely fitting for this site, either), but if anyone could give me any advice, I would really appreciate it. See my hair is cut into bangs, for t...
A. 27 May 2006: Well if u really want 2 grow them out you could continue to wear them to the side as you have done. But this can get annoying sometimes so if you don't want them in your face all the time try brushing them back like if you were going to do a pony ... (read in full...)
He is smoking cannabis and its breaking us apart!
Q. my boy friend and i have been togther for over a year now and although when we met i knew he smoked cannabis that didn't matter because ive known him for many years and what kind of person he is, when we first got together he really cleaned up his ...
A. 23 May 2006: Smoking cannabis isn't really such a big deal. My ex smoked all the time. The only thing that bothers me is how sometimes it makes you really mellow and you can get very lazy. But I understand your problem. He is spending your money and that's not ... (read in full...)
His going overseas & i am not invited,is there any point staying together?
Q. i posted recently about my boyfriend going overseas, and I thought some of you maybe see the whole picture, or were a little harsh. i guess it sounds bad, but he has said he cares about me deeply, knows he will really miss me etc, but the idea of me ...
A. 17 May 2006: Well my ex and I broke up becuz he had to move away. We're both 20 and both cared about eachother very much but I knew he was immature and a long distance wouldn't work, so i decided to end it. I must say that "absence makes the heart grow fonder." ... (read in full...)
Should I continue trying to rebuild friendship with the girl whose heart I broke... ?
Q. PART I - This may sounds like a cookie-cutter break up but the last chapter on “friendship” is still writing itself. My question is: Should I drop my pen? I decided to end the six month relationship – a first for both of us - back in February...
A. 17 May 2006: Well from a girl's perspective, I think that since you broke it off with her and hurt her, she may feel a little uncomfortable hanging out with u or talking to you so much. We girls always say we want to stay friends becuz we still really care for ... (read in full...)
He wants to go out once a week with his friends and I don't think it's necessary...
Q. Here's my problem.... my boyfriend and I moved in together about a month ago. I changed states to move in w/ him... he wants to go out once a week with his friends to do something or other... and it bothers me because i dont think its necessary ev...
A. 11 May 2006: Hi. Well I think you may be overreacting. You are already living together so you're sharing a lot of time together. Let him go out with his friends and have fun! If he is ALWAYS with you he is going to get bored. If you were in your home town you ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to come out of the closet yet, but I find myself attracted to others........
Q. I am bi curious and 16. I find myself very attracted in many ways to some of the people i know, physically and mentally. I want to know how they feel but i dont want to ruin a friendship and im not really ready to come out. I really have no idea ...
A. 10 May 2006: First you need to come to terms with your feelings. Accept them and see if you are ready to let them be known to others. It is always better to come out, and don't let other people determine your decision. What i mean is, if you want to experiment, ... (read in full...)
I think I still love him, but he's so far away, what should I do?
Q. I am an journalist who moved to New York from the North of England 7 years ago, when I was 19. At the time I split from my boyfriend, who didn't want me to leave. But I couldn't miss the chance I'd waited for it all of my life. For the first year in ...
A. 9 May 2006: Hun if you still care about him and he obviously still cares for you then why not give it another go? The distance does suck but you are both older now, (not 19 anymore) and can probably handle the long distance better. It all depends on how you ... (read in full...)
Why did he leave??
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been in along distance relationship for about 6 years. I love him very much but i dont feel the same from him. So in a way we have broken up. We shared a beautiful realtionship and some good memories are there. I have...
A. 9 May 2006: Ofcourse you have a right to know. You need to know this in order to get closure. ... (read in full...)
I have cerebral palsy and everyone treats me horrible. Can I change this?
Q. Dear Anyone. I'm 42, living in England, with Cerebral Palsy. This comes out mainly in my face - I look like a freshly shaved gorilla! And that, in a nutshell, is the question. How do I get people past the face and disability to the person ins...
A. 6 May 2006: Hello there. I'm sorry to hear about this. People can be so immature and ridiculous at times that it's unbelieveable. There is no reason for you to be treated badly. We are all human and we are all the same on the inside. Have you ever considered ... (read in full...)
We're supposed to be getting married, but now she broke up with me, what should I do?
Q. I hope this is the right place to put this post. My fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago. Well sort of.... She told me 2 weeks ago that she needed a break for now. She said that she just wanted to be friends for now. She is a divorced mother of 2 ...
A. 2 May 2006: Well it sounds like you've made up your mind about her. You should tell her exactly how you feel. That she hurt you and that you're not going to sit around waiting for her to make a decision. She may have cold feet but you know what you want and you ... (read in full...)
I would like to stay in contact with my ex, but how much is too much?
Q. My ex seems to contact me less and less, although I do make sure I send her an IM every now and then. When I do, we have some really good conversations. The other night, when I IMd her we only talked for a minute, but she seemed like she was upset ...
A. 2 May 2006: You should continue to IM her and be nice to her. But if she's not showing any interest in talking to you then back off a bit. When you see her online try and wait for her to IM you first. If you caht with her you can even mention that she can call ... (read in full...)
I think something's trying to keep me and my ex together, is this true?
Q. This is a kind of long story but please bare with me…two years ago when I was about 15 I went out with this really wonderful guy. I totally feel in love with him but things didn’t work out and we broke up. We stayed friend for about a year after the ...
A. 2 May 2006: You should continue the friendship with him and see where it leads. If it seems like he wants to try it again maybe you should go for it since you still care. But if he doesn't mention it, maybe you should try flirting. I do believe in fate bringing ... (read in full...)
I want to feel desired by him, but he just keeps pushing me away. What can I do?
Q. I met my partner 3 years ago..i knew he was cheatin on me with Junkie hookers and that he took class a drugs. Yet I thought that I was number 1/ his throphy missus!! We had our ups and downs he put me in hospital,went to jail, left me! He broke my ...
A. 2 May 2006: Sweetheart, this is not your fault, the one with the problem is him! I think you've done enough for him and he can't see what a great person he has backing him up and supporting him. I'm glad he's off the drugs but if he still wants 2 stay in a rut ... (read in full...)
Could my defect put a women off sex??
Q. Hi this question is really asking for a females opinion. I have have something called pectus excevactum (a funnel chest) and it has caused me to have a low self esteem. I worry that whe i become involved in a relationship with a women and we want ...
A. 13 April 2006: Honestly whoever your girlfriend ends up being she's going to love you no matter what. And if she has a problem with your defect then she's not the one for you. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. You'll find the right girl. Everyone has their ... (read in full...)
I 'm going crazy! I want to contact my ex gf so badly and she's dating another guy!
Q. Going crazy!!! My ex broke it off with me almost 2 months ago, and only a week or two after we broke up she started seeing someone new. We went out for a little over a year. My buddy just recently broke up with his girlfriend and together we ...
A. 13 April 2006: Why did you guys break up? Maybe she moved on quickly because she was trying to forget you. Sometimes we girls can only move on if we have some1 else around to show us that we ARE special. Sometimes we have to date someone to stop hurting from our ... (read in full...)
How can you move on from an ex?
Q. I have just split from my gay boyfriend after five months and things were great. He asked me out last weekend for a chat, saying he still had feelings for me. But when I called he let it go to answer-machine and did not return my calls/texts. I ...
A. 10 April 2006: I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. These are so hard. But I think you should stop texting/calling him. You said it's obvious he doesn't seem to want to end it on good terms but this might not be true. If he still has feelings for you maybe he's ... (read in full...)
My Persian Jewish, open-relationship boyfriend has gotten me pregnant but still isn't sure I'm the one :-(
Q. I am 23 and still have a year an a half left in school. I became pregnant 7 weeks ago. My boyfriend is almost 26 but is still living at home. He is persian jewish and I am Christian. I told him that I would convert and try to give him the life he ...
A. 3 April 2006: It must be a very difficult situation for you. But why would you want to be with someone who isn't sure if you are "the one?" If you think he is 'the one' it is not fair for you thta he doesn't feel the same way. I think you deserve someone who is ... (read in full...)
I have a broken heart, help me mend it....
Q. I was in a relationship for seven years. My boyfriend left me seven months ago and relocated to his home town, promptly met someone else and is now living with her. I feel that I have nursed my hurt long enough and everyone says move on and meet ...
A. 31 March 2006: I also have a broken heart, but I only dated my ex for 9 months. I still love him and it hurts a lot becuz he was my first love and i can imagine that ur pain must be 10 times worse than mine and i'm sorry for that. The only way to move on is 2 just ... (read in full...)
Long distance has been tough for us, but now she's gone totally quiet!
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. Things have been great, we have had tough times, but always get through it. We are both have committed to making it last. The last two weeks it has gone wrong somewhere. Contact ...
A. 18 February 2006: I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It seems to me that you should try talking to her one last time and that you should ask her what's going on. If you call her and she doesn't answer leave her a voice mail and tell her she's acting like a ... (read in full...)
My ex has been in touch, but ignores me whenever I suggest we meet up!
Q. I had a short but intense relationship with a guy I felt was the one for me, we had a great connection together and some very happy times, he also expressed his fear of losing me many times. Yet he ended it abruptly without any reason and ignor...
A. 10 February 2006: I'm sorry but I think you deserve better than this loser! He seems to be playing little mind games and he knows you will always be around to keep his ego in check. I think you should tell him that you're not going to accept him using you and that ... (read in full...)
I need his support but I feel like he's neglecting me
Q. I'm feeling neglected by my man, we both lead busy lives, I'm an accountant, and he is an auditor. We hardly have time to see eachother, he's been busier lately, with work pressure, but Lately he hasn't been paying any attention to me, and I want to ...
A. 10 February 2006: Hi, sorry your going through this. Honestly, I think you deserve better. If you find the time to write him emails and call him then he should find time to do the same. It seems like he's distancing himself, and when guys do that it's usually a sign ... (read in full...)
I get that we're broken up, but what does my ex mean by "let it happen naturally"? Will we ever be in touch again?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We had a clean breakup and decided to be friends. We talked briefly after breaking up (online). Everything was fine for about a week and a half. Now she doesn't speak to me. I've been tol...
A. 2 February 2006: Wow, sorry to hear you're going through so much. It sounds to me that what you need to do is give this girl her space. Do not under any circumstance contact her, not even to be nice because she is NOT being nice to you. I think that her "Let it ... (read in full...)
She still has feelings for her ex boyfriend and I don't know whether I should stay with her
Q. Im confused lately with my girlfriend of 4 mths cause lately i seem to be losing feelings for her....i swear i have not been cheating on her or anything to make her feel upset....But recently she just told me that before i came into the picture, she ...
A. 1 February 2006: Well it seems to me that your gf is more confused than you are. I think that if you're starting to see that your not meant for each other then you should ask her for some space. Tell her that the fact that she told you she still has feelings for her ... (read in full...)
All the old feelings for my ex are rushing back, after 15 years!
Q. I have kept in touch with an ex boyfriend for 15 yrs now. Recently we have been talking, emailing, texting and talking on the phone. Feeling are just rushing back. For the past 15 yrs I have always said he's the one for me. What was I thinking...
A. 1 February 2006: Hi there, well I think that if you guys are still talking that's a good sign. Men don't keep in touch with their ex girlfriends of long ago just because 'they are nice', maybe once in a while they will call you but not for 7 months straight. Has he ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand how I feel and won't try to make things right...
Q. Hi i have been dating my boyfriend who is 20 (i am 22) for nearly 7 months and the last month has not been good. We both love each other but i feel he takes me for granted and i do a lot more for him than he does for me, for example always cookin ...
A. 1 February 2006: wow, this sounds a lot like the last month of my past relationship, yep that's right he sounds like my ex! I also felt like he was neglecting me, and i did exactly what you do, buy him little things becuz he was trying to save up, i treated him to ... (read in full...)
Is she on the rebound...does she care anymore for me??
Q. Sorry for writting maybe to much but i have a lot to say: MAIN QUESTION IS AT THE BOTTOM I met this girl when I was 13 yrs. old and she was 9. We met when our brothers were hospitalized and were having cancer treatment. We both were from the same...
A. 11 January 2006: All girls are different. But what I can tell you is that if she got with that guy while she was with you there was obviously a problem. She seems to move on from her relationships fairly quickly. This guy doesn't seem like a rebound guy, even ... (read in full...)
Should I wait or move on?
Q. I was with my girlfriend for 4 years, but split up 3 weeks ago. I was the one to suggest it, then after a week I realized how much I loved her and really wanted her back. So I told her this, but she said it doesn't feel right to her. After some tea...
A. 11 January 2006: Wow, I'm sorry your going through this. I think you should tell your ex that she is hurting you with her mixed messages. If she doesn't want to be with you right now, you should ask her why, ask her what the problem is, maybe you guys can fix it. ... (read in full...)
Can my long distance lover ever show more emotion?
Q. How do I summarise my relationship in just a few lines, to give you the background?! I'm 36, and until now I think I've only ever been in love once before (when I was too young to realise!), but my fiance is definitely the one I've been waitin...
A. 11 January 2006: It's good that you realize mistakes that you've made in your relationship, but remember that's it's not ALL your fault. He is at fault too. Sometimes we tend to be too needy,wanting attention and constant reassurance, but whomever you're dating ... (read in full...)
I deleted his number but am having second thoughts...
Q. Me and my ex have been apart for over a month now but i'm still not over him. The night after he dumped me I rang him to tell him i was there for him, (meaning if he had changed his mind about ending the relationship he could get me back), anyway ...
A. 11 January 2006: Hey there, I understand that it's hard for you to deal with this situation and to even begin to move on. I just recently broke up with some1 aswell so I know what your going through, and I know it's terribly difficult! But you have to be strong. As ... (read in full...)
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