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writes: I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. Things have been great, we have had tough times, but always get through it. We are both have committed to making it last. The last two weeks it has gone wrong somewhere. Contact has completely disappeared and there is almost no way of me getting hold of her. We have spoken once and it was a bit weird where she did not out of her own mentioned that she had missed me or still loved me. I still do not hear from her, as her excuse is that she has been partying every single night and staying with friends. Am I going mad because she now doesn't have time at all for me, or reply to any email, or even text me, which has now been blocked from her side?
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reader, amandairene +, writes (18 February 2006):
the fact she basically told you she's been partying every single night and staying with friends shows you she has no consideration for your feelings. Even if that was the case, she would also end the sentence with a reassurance to you to let you know the relationship is fine. No contact with someone is a clear sign that they don't want to speak to you. You trully deserve better. Forget about her (Easier said than done) and let her do all the running around if she has a change of heart about you.
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It seems to me that you should try talking to her one last time and that you should ask her what's going on. If you call her and she doesn't answer leave her a voice mail and tell her she's acting like a coward and that you're very dissapointed in her actions. Tell her that it's over and that you deserve better than her. That'll be a slap in the face to her. Because she'll know you're right. You deserve better. Long distance relationships are hard, but if two people really love eachother, it can work out. It won't work forever but it will for a while. It doesn't matter how much 'partying' she might be doing, that's no excuse for her not to contact you. You are her bf...She's not putting effort, so don't you put effort either. Hope this helps. Good Luck ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006): Ah forget about it. Turn to other areas in your life. Treat her as a lost cause. Back-up your emails onto CD, then delete her inbox. If she emails you weeks later telling you she's been shagging some dude, then shrug it off and reply with, "Sure, why not?" and never email her again.
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (17 February 2006):
 Long-Distance relationships barely ever work, you'd be best to talk to her next time you can and find out exactly what's going on. Although it seems to me that she's found someone else, that is only my opinion and don't hold me to it.
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reader, Dwarfer3 +, writes (17 February 2006):
Obviously she's got fed up with you and doesn't want to know anymore. You can't make her get in touch if she doesn't want to. I know it's hard but if she's blocked your messages and wont answer e-mails she's probably just been taking you for a ride till someone or thing better comes along. Forget about her get out there and move on. Sorry if this isn't the advice you want to hear but there's no use in banging your head on a wall.
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reader, ladybaby +, writes (17 February 2006):
Sorry to be harsh, but if she's blocked your texts, it seems to be her cowardly way of saying it's over. Avoid contacting her, if you feel you want to ring her, call a mate and suggest meeting up and doing something instead. If you want to email her, avoid logging on.In time, it may get easier, and if in a couple of months you want answers, then email her then and ask for an explanation, but the best thing you can do is start that horrible process of getting over her, eventually it will get easier!
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