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writes: I have kept in touch with an ex boyfriend for 15 yrs now. Recently we have been talking, emailing, texting and talking on the phone. Feeling are just rushing back. For the past 15 yrs I have always said he's the one for me. What was I thinking, ever breaking up with him? Now I think about him 24/7 and can't wait to get emails or a call from him. I have asked him should I stop but he says no! When I ask why he had continued to talk to me when "I" have called over the yrs, he says "because I am a nice guy"! I have 4 brothers and a few male friends who would never just be so nice after all the years have past. I am like a teenager all over again feeling like I am so in love. Not being a teenager, I do believe that I am just feeling this way right now because it's a new, fresh, fun thing again, that How could I truly be in love with someone that I have not had contact with in 11 yrs? We have been talking this time for about 7 months and he needed to mail something out to me and I asked why he hadn't for 7 months now and he said then you have no reason to call. But I have been the one over the yr to keep in touch. I asked at any time he did not want to me to call, just tell me and he says, no you can call or email. I am lost why? I know I think I am in love so that is why for me, but why?
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (1 February 2006):
 Hi there, well I think that if you guys are still talking that's a good sign. Men don't keep in touch with their ex girlfriends of long ago just because 'they are nice', maybe once in a while they will call you but not for 7 months straight. Has he mentioned getting back together? If he has and neither of you are with other people then go for it! If he has yet to mention anything then maybe you should wait a little bit and see what happens. If you guys haven't seen eachother and only talk on the phone it sounds to me like you live far apart? Is this true? If thats the case then remember that getting back together will be hard if you are apart. See what happens, give him more time, and don't do all the calling. If things seem to be going good still after a bit tell him how you feel. Good Luck! keep us updated!
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reader, PornStarKitty +, writes (1 February 2006):
 hiya, well first i know its been a long time since you broke up but you nee to think about why you did in the beginning! people dont change completely! but if there is no reason for giving it another go just be honnest with him!! but be careful, and be prepared for rejection!
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