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writes: This is a kind of long story but please bare with me…two years ago when I was about 15 I went out with this really wonderful guy. I totally feel in love with him but things didn’t work out and we broke up. We stayed friend for about a year after the split but we had a fall out and didn’t have any contact with each other at all for 7 months.Then on Saturday there (29/4/06) Me and my older cousin were just walking about in the town and I seen him and I walked over and started talking to him. He was really nice and I apologized about ower fall out he was totally fine. Him and one of his friends (Stu) then took me and my cousin to the bar and got us drinks. Then they invited us to a party at Stu’s on the Sunday we went and had a really good time.I still love him dearly (Martin my ex) but I just don’t know what to do…I mean someone just doesn’t just disappear out your life for almost a year to walk back in for it to mean nothing do they?Sounds crazy but something trying to keep us together and I don’t know what for…what does everyone think I should do??I haven’t had a serious relationship since him and I think that’s also trying to tell me something HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes the same age as me
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (2 May 2006):
 You should continue the friendship with him and see where it leads. If it seems like he wants to try it again maybe you should go for it since you still care. But if he doesn't mention it, maybe you should try flirting. I do believe in fate bringing people together again, so maybe it is fate. But if it doesn't work out, you are still very young so don't worry. It also seems like he's a little older than you, so he might be on a different mental level than you, maybe he's just wanting to have fun and not be tied down. Analyze what he says and how he acts and you'll be able to get an answer to your dilemma.
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reader, Lynnsie +, writes (1 May 2006):
Give more time and see what happens, it might lead a serious relationship, maybe he will leave you again, or you will find out that he is not the one you can accept as a LTR partner. Lots of guys like to play around and go around, they play mind game, they ruin your life by playing on and off. The best strategy I think is to protect yourself, see friends and others, do not expect/worry that much and you will be happier and more attractive.
Take care of yourself no matter what happens, you love yourself then you can have energy to love your beloved.
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