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writes: I have just split from my gay boyfriend after five months and things were great. He asked me out last weekend for a chat, saying he still had feelings for me. But when I called he let it go to answer-machine and did not return my calls/texts. I really love him and I just wanted it to end on good terms but he obviously doesn’t want to. Help! I’m hurting that he won’t talk anymore. I’m wasting my time getting in touch if he does not reply. It’s all making me feel as if I have done something wrong when I’m sure I haven’t. Yes, I’ve sent him countess texts asking why he did not make it last week but he has just not got the decency to reply.
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (10 April 2006):
 I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. These are so hard. But I think you should stop texting/calling him. You said it's obvious he doesn't seem to want to end it on good terms but this might not be true. If he still has feelings for you maybe he's afraid to see you in person or maybe he is taking some time to figure things out. Don't try to contact him, see if he contacts you. If he calls don't answer, let it go to voicemail and call him back later that day. Show him that you're not going to be around like some puppy, that you have a life too. I've been having trouble getting over my ex as well, but I've kept my distance and only talk to him occasionally (maybe once or twice a month) and it seems to be going well. The saying goes "how can i miss you if you're always there" is very true. Show him how much you're worth. Hope this helps.
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reader, kello1 +, writes (9 April 2006):
I don't think u will have done anything wrong, he is probably just confused about what he wants. There can't really be a positive outcome from this however if he is changing his mind as often as he changes his socks, and he is certainly not treating u fairly. I would stop trying to contact him and get on with your life. If he gets in touch with u again tell him you're diary is full for the next couple of weeks.
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