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writes: I am bi curious and 16. I find myself very attracted in many ways to some of the people i know, physically and mentally. I want to know how they feel but i dont want to ruin a friendship and im not really ready to come out. I really have no idea what to do!? Please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lostgirl04 +, writes (10 May 2006):
First you need to come to terms with your feelings. Accept them and see if you are ready to let them be known to others. It is always better to come out, and don't let other people determine your decision. What i mean is, if you want to experiment, do so responsibly. Experience new things and new people. Learn about yourself for now by surrounding yourself with friends and other people as well because you are still very young. If the people you are attracted to are bi aswell and are open about it, then maybe you should talk to them and explain how you feel. But if they are not steer clear from telling them how you feel for now. Get to know yourself first and let others get to know the real you, then you can proceed to a relationship.
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